Realistic!Gojo Headcanons

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How Gojo would realistically confess

List of headcanons

A direct, verbal confession from Gojo Satoru is highly unlikely, based on his character. He's not the type to say "I love you" out loud, at least not in a straightforward, romantic way. ACTIONS not WORDS.

He's a man of action, not words: Gojo expresses his care and love through protection and providing. He saves Yuji, trains his students, and seeks to create a better world for them. He never truly let's himself be emotional with them, always a facade of strength and head pats if things get tense (e.g. Jogo vs Gojo with Yuji in the Domain Expansion). He later finally became vulnerable and said "Hasn't the world had enough of Gojo?" which is why Yuji asked him "Aren't you saying things out of character?" because he's not used to it. Even if the reader has known Gojo from the beginning BEFORE Geto's departure, I think the shift is still too extreme for confessions of I love you's. Heck, even Shoko who was part of the group felt Gojo's extreme distance. Like seriously.

He shows his affection by ensuring their safety and future, not by declaring his feelings. For Gojo, love is about taking on the world's burdens so that the people he cares about don't have to.

Gojo is incredibly powerful but emotionally stunted. The loss of Geto left a void he never truly filled. He was left at the age of 18 and decided not to mature too much, because he wanted to hold on to the past, that 'Blue Summer' he thinks back at. As a character, he's used to being "the strongest" and the one who handles everything. This mindset makes him bad at verbalizing his inner feelings. He doesn't know how to ask for help or admit his vulnerabilities, and a direct confession would feel like a form of vulnerability he's not equipped to handle.

A core theme of Gojo's character is his profound loneliness. He's so far above everyone else in terms of power that he feels no one can truly understand him, except for Geto. I think if the reader was a Special Grade, it might help a bit, but in the end Gojo is truly the absolute strongest. This isolation prevents him from forming deep, intimate emotional bonds. Even with a crush, he might feel that they can't truly grasp the reality of his existence, and a confession would be a pointless gesture.

Gojo's teasing, playful, and even arrogant demeanor is a defense mechanism. It's how he keeps people at a distance while still showing he cares. A confession would require him to drop this mask, and it's a step he's not likely to take. He didn't even drop the mask with Shoko, who was his best friend and distanced himself from Nanami. He was seen as quite tactless with Ijichi, but he had always been quite upfront and rude to be honest so.

His confession would be a subtle, indirect act that speaks volumes. It would happen after Geto's betrayal, when he has a better understanding of what it means to lose someone. I think BEFORE Geto left, he would say something like, "Miss me? The mission was a piece of cake, of course." He would immediately monopolize their time. He wouldn't just say hi; he'd likely throw an arm around them and pull them away from whatever they're doing, suggesting they go get food or hang out, all while talking animatedly about the mission. He would use his physical affection as a form of playful teasing. He might ruffle their hair, lean on their shoulder, or give them a noogie, all while joking about how they must have been counting the minutes until he got back. It's fun and lighthearted, a way of expressing his happiness to see them.

A confession might instead be a promise.

Instead of saying "I love you," he'd say something like, "I won't let anything happen to you. I swear it." This isn't just a promise of a sorcerer to a friend; it's a deeply personal vow from a man who has failed to protect someone he loved before. It's a way to show true unguarded vulnerability.

He might take their hand, lower his blindfold, and just look at them with his Six Eyes. In that moment, he wouldn't be the strongest sorcerer, but just Satoru Gojo. This simple act of trust—exposing his greatest source of power and vulnerability to them—would be his way of saying, "I trust you with all of me."

Perhaps for some angst or because of his relentless drive to handle all missions on his own, he would let his guard down. After a difficult mission, he might hold them close, perhaps burying his face in their hair, and whisper something that isn't a confession but feels like one: "Stay with me." It's a plea for their presence, a desperate attempt to anchor himself to something real and enduring in his lonely world.

Gojo would never deliver a classic "I love you" because his character arc isn't built for that. His love is too raw, too deeply tied to his trauma and his duties. It’s a silent, protective love that is felt in the space between his actions and his words.

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REALISTIC GOJO HCS! HOW HE ACTS AROUND HIS CRUSH

Truly, if he TRULY did fall for somebody, he would never actually confess.

He'd lean even harder into his role as the "Strongest Sorcerer," making grandiose statements about his power, putting on impromptu demonstrations of flashy techniques (like teleporting across a room just to grab a forgotten pen), or launching into theatrical monologues about the glory of being him. An overwhelming public persona.

Gojo might suddenly unleash a localized, harmless burst of his cursed energy – maybe a vibrant, harmless flash of light, or a sudden, loud (but not damaging) crackle of energy – forcing his crush to instinctively step back or blink, creating immediate distance.

Exaggerated acts, without intimacy. Performing an over-the-top, spinning victory dance after a successful (or even just completed) mission, ensuring he never actually makes intimate contact, but keeps his crush amused and slightly bewildered. This means he leans into the !Gojo is the strongest and is untouchable and flippant.

Before a significant interaction with his crush, he might gaze at pictures as a way to re-establish control: As a perverse form of self-torture and a reminder of the internal boundaries he now must enforce, even as the desire burns. But, this would also mean he gazes at pictures so he can FEEL something instead of becoming a running machine. His crush would blast him out of any grim realities, helping him cope and be flippant. He wouldn't gaze at the pictures if people are around. I don't like the HC that he 'accidentally reveals too much' when this man is the epitome of self control. When Yuta took over Gojo's body, he realized the obscene amount of control he had to be able to control his cursed techniques to a pinpoint. It's scarily perfect for Gojo's characterization. I cringe a bit when I read HC's or drabbles of him 'accidentally' doing certain things to expose his crush.

Therefore, no accidental revelations.

Gojo would lean back on his bed, running a hand through his hair, his usual carefree demeanor completely absent. His mind, usually so flippant, would shift into a state of ruthless, cold analysis. He would dissect every interaction, every casual touch, every surge of unexpected emotion he'd felt around his crush over the past few months, even years. He would trace the lineage of this desire, trying to pinpoint its genesis, its growth, and why it had chosen this precise, inconvenient moment to explode. This wasn't a fleeting fancy; this was profound, unsettling, and dangerous. He isn't a mindless puppy. He was raised as the clan leader and definitely knows how to dissect people. What made you so interesting, is his question. Why YOU?

This isn't about his crushes feelings. It's about the implications and his crushes well-being and the dynamic. He does not want to risk losing a great close friend, chances are - his crush is a person he considers to be a BEST FRIEND. Losing that...no way. He wouldn't DENY the feelings (let's pretend he's past that now, after months of painful 'what is this feeling?/like the scene when he touched the veil EP.18 S1), but he would push it into a locked chamber of his mind.

Gojo knew he couldn't avoid his crush, nor would he want to. Their bond was too important. But every future interaction would now be filtered through this new, scorching realization.

He would be far more guarded, more controlled, less physically casual. The playful touches, the close proximity in playful wrestling, the accidental brushes—these would all be consciously minimized.

He'd put subtle, imperceptible layers of Infinity between them, not just for protection, but as a mental and emotional buffer for himself.

He'd channel his energy more into verbal teasing and grand, distracting gestures, keeping a safe distance while still maintaining their unique, chaotic bond.

His crushed obliviousness was the most important thing. Risking that his crush knew, since Gojo would dissect with his Six Eyes and great intelligence, would kill something inside of him. Realistically, he wouldn't act on this crush. Imagine a very big slow-burn that would never end in a relationship. Yearning but not in a lovesick way, more like a begrudging acceptance of the cruelty yet beauty of the world. To think that the strongest feels such vulnerability was dangerously haunting.

His behavior in several key ways had an underlying tension.

Gojo will consciously, almost imperceptibly, create more physical space between them. Where he might have casually leaned an arm over his crushes shoulder or ruffled their hair (before his feeling developed because with his close friends he's physically affectionate to make up for not getting attention as a child), he'll now opt for a slightly wider stance, a hand resting on a nearby wall, or a sudden "distracting gesture" to avoid prolonged, close contact. Won't be obvious, just a millimeter of extra space, a fraction of a second's hesitation before a casual touch.

As implied before, Gojo acts more. He'll crack louder jokes, perform more dramatic poses, and launch into even grander monologues. The goal is to fill the space with his presence, drawing his crushes attention to his performance AND NOT the (subtle) shifts in his behavior or physical avoidance.

Gojo's protective instincts will subtly increase, but also serve as a convenient distraction. Orchestrating "missions" that give his crush clear objectives and less opportunity for spontaneous, close-quarters interactions. Better for him in the long-run. He might ask more questions about his crushes comfort, make more suggestions for breaks or treats: "Hey, are you feeling alright, That last curse put up more of a fight than I expected. No lingering weirdness, right? You're not stiff anywhere?" During a lull in training: "Your focus seems a little off, is your back bothering you? Or maybe you're just hungry? We can grab something if you need a break." Observing: "You've been quiet. Is something on your mind, or are you just enjoying the silence? Need anything from the convenience store?" LAST ONES FUNNY: "Okay, new mission! I need you to scout ahead into that abandoned building. I'll cover your six from a distance and provide support from up here. Think of it as a recon exercise, crucial for teamwork!" EXACTLY HOW I IMAGINE HIM.

He might spend slightly more time alone in his dorm, grappling with the picture and his thoughts, or simply projecting an aura that discourages others from approaching him when he's processing.

Which means more VERBAL teasing but no touching. Distant competition to keep their dynamic alive. Like matches, races, target practice.

Observant as hell. He will gauge his crushes reactions, not just for cursed energy. He'll constantly gauge whether his crush has noticed any change, whether his distancing attempts are successful, and whether his crush is still enjoying their dynamic. This is incredibly important. Realistically, the chance of a messy relationship or too much cliches would send him into orbit and he isn't the typical romantic partner. He's mostly absent.

A microsecond where his smile might not quite reach his eyes, or a brief, distant stare as his mind grapples with the new realization. These will be rare and quickly masked, but present.

While still spontaneous, maybe Gojo's energy surges might become slightly more controlled, less purely reactive. He'll use them as deliberate tools for distraction or boundary-setting rather than uninhibited expressions of joy.

Controversial, but I think he would look for 'flaws' in his crush so he could just turn off the romantic feelings and go back to his usual self. He would self sabotage. Undermine certain romantic moments within himself. Be in denial or just push it down so far it becomes almost awkward for him. Hands in pockets, a tight lipped smile but then a forced grin. Sometimes when he becomes overwhelmed his voice might accidentally become too rough or too breathy or too strange or too much of a 'meep'. Sometimes, he surprises himself for how EVEN and LEVELED his voice is. Which is a plus for him. His sunglasses, bandages or headband serves as a tool to hide the window of his soul, his eyes. I don't want to put any corny head canons about his eyes, but you can detect a strange look. Not too romantic or soft, just staring almost creepily tight. Observing you in this cynical world. Who knows what the future holds. Reminder, if his crush won't become stronger, then he loses feelings.

Realistically not gonna flirt. Verbal teasing yes, but not flirting. It will be interesting how he does it to cursed beings and others with that dawned-out/teasing smooth voice in the DUB&SUB, but not to his crush.

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My interpretation of toxic habits Gojo has (some of these aren't even toxic because I like to yap).

I doubt this guy would enjoy it if you cried over a situation you could fix. With his time as a youngster, being around Shoko, MeiMei, Utahime, Geto who all possess a great deal of skill to handle situations with cursed objects/beings - he would expect his lover to be competent just like he and everyone else is. Nerves of steel and someone who can chew leather. Though, I think he would give a slight tease or say something on the line of rude&fun to get a reaction to perhaps uplift you in a way. When he said 'Are you crying?' to Utahime, it was to not just poke fun but to create another feeling inside of her that strayed away from sadness. He wanted her to get annoyed, which is much better than sadness anyway.

Someone who has nothing going on in their life would unfortunately not cater to Gojo's needs or The Jujutsu World. I'm afraid this sentence might provoke a reaction from some people who attach themselves to Gojo and have nothing going on. Relatable lol, but I think this guy likes a freedom fighter or someone who works but isn't too critical of the world. But a contribution to society earns brownie points. Shows character.

Indifference or a slight tendency to believe he is right. Everyone is 'right' in their own subjective way. His lifestyle and upbringing is so unique that he will project an aura of 'No matter what you say, I will believe I'm right at the end of the day. But I will ease up and shrug it off.' But that's the problem. He doesn't argue. He listens and understand but will not take your point into his picture. I would still love to be his lover though lowkey hitmeupgojo-

Scolding this man isn't for the weak. He will understand the principle, which is objectively the most important part of a situation. 'WHY am I upset - BECAUSE ...?' but won't stick around for the screaming or the long conversations he finds overdue. He wants you to be concise and clear. However, the solution is all dependent on his willingness. I imagine it will be a pregnant silence from his part. Battling himself but also 'Why do I care?/How can I SHOW I care when I'm genuinely flippant to keep myself and my Six Eyes sane?'. His control over the situation, since it depends on him, is probably how so many people imagine daddy!gojo and I totally get it.

Emotional aware of peoples needs. He projects an aura of strength and stability (as much as he can). Patting Yuji on the head or telling Megumi to stay close as he takes 10 seconds to fight Sukuna, is how he is. He expects you to just follow randomly. He values independents a lot. But almost molds you into following his lead whether you like it or not. Your plans are second to his plans. If your plan ends up better, he won't insult obviously.

Is it a toxic habit for him to want someone close to super-humanly perfect but also equally human at the same time? Tough combo to wish for. Someone resilient, persistent and enduring, their fixations and quirky habits and bluntness contrasting to their extreme control over their own side of the battlefield, their ability to command respect in a rowdy classroom, their ability to switch into multiple personas to the point people get confused on WHO you truly are - that is what Gojo wants in a person. Though, expectation wise, it will weigh heavily in your mind. Sometimes, it might feel like anything you do is secretly watched by Gojo since his Six Eyes will move in your direction whether he or you want it or not.

At the same time, he cannot be present or fully grasp what you truly desire or want - even with a limitless abundance of information worldwide (I think) or the entirety of Japan...he will have many moments. Not because he's stupid or air-headed that's a PERSONA he applies to himself mostly to cope and to make people feel like he's less scary, besides dumb people don't survive in this world. Do you guys think after he graduated he wasn't just a living legend but actively intimidating people because of his prowess on the field and his results with his haughtiness? I think that's how rumors started anyway. Perhaps that's why Nanami kept some distance once they met again as adults. He probably heard all kinds of things. I don't want Gojo to be one of those annoying partners who go 'So what do you want me to do?' but I think something similar might happen. He just wants the answer because guessing games or chasing isn't his forte when he's already busy night+day.

The fact that the author said he might be a SUGAR BABY if he wasn't a sorcerer makes me think he likes to be taken care of secretly. But as of now, SINCE HE *IS* A SORCERER, being bombarded with tiny little 'Are you okeys?' would sometimes piss him off. Fluctuating moods at times. One day he might secretly like it and verbally affirm. Next time he's all quiet and just subtly ignores you and stares into the distant street beneath his blindfold in a slightly rude-ish way. Or a 'How are you holding up?' is something that would set him usual 'Fine. You? Why?' because he doesn't care for small talk like that, even from a romantic partner. And this is even if it's technically not 'small talk' and just emotional connection. In his brain it's something he would rather not spend time on.

The type to not say what bothers him. He isn't a child and can say his needs. But in my mind, small things that bother him build-up. I feel like he self-sabotages. If he knows his life is chaotic and action-driven, sometimes he might purposefully LET it build-up and has an excuse to break up and say 'I knew this wouldn't work out' to HIMSELF, just to go back to his point of 'Being the sole strongest person in the world'. This can be over the coarse of multiple months, years and it breaks. nO, It won't be an immature fight or a cold goodbye or an irish-absent-goodbye. More like a conversation, because he is a grown adult who understands the implications of breaking up and how it impacts the other part. But...HEY! Remember when Amane died in Hidden Inventory and he 'bore no grudge' because his Reverse Technique was used? If he constantly has REVERSE techniques ON, he has a built-in brain filter which won't let him constantly overthink about something that happened earlier. It will just force him to move to the side and make way for other important information (e.g. cursed energy objects or users). As a person he's resilient. After Geto's death he was able to go back to a normal chaotic life but did cry for him. Maybe it would be like that. Bittersweet, like 'I could have enjoyed it while it lasted or tried harder to maintain it' or 'I failed myself but I don't think I could have been fulfilled or made my (ex-)lover fulfilled'.

No he's not a cheater. I do not think he would think of flirting with other girls or 'accidentally' flirt because he's full of charm. Unless you count a bright smile and funny 'cute' speech styles in Japanese a flirtation tactic. In my opinion, this is an act of 'keeping things sane for the sake of everybody' which is why he's so childish. If his lover commented on it, he wouldn't change his whimsical ways. He would not agree that it's flirty. His real flirtatiousness comes when he's acting against a cursed being (Jogo/Volcano dude with the 'Here, Come on, Let's hold hands, Don't get shy now/You're making me shy Gosh..'). I hate this headcanon with a passion. 'No, he would SEEM flirty which would elicit unwanted responses from others' I also think he would just take a step back and just casually walk away because he's the type to just drop a conversation whenever he FEELS like it. He's a confident guy. If he feels like ending a conversation, no shame is in his body, and he will do it. Maybe I just hate angst in that way.

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Hello Welcome to my fixation of Gojo Satoru blog <3 This is a MASTERLIST.

For now, I haven't posted much. I plan of yapping more about his character since I've gradually become obsessed with him after re-watching everything six times.

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Realistic Gojo Headcanons!

Toxic Habits of Gojo (not all of them are toxic because I yap)

Gojo has a crush, realistic.

How Gojo would confess.

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Realistic!Gojo Headcanons

You wouldn't be his Nr.1 priority in life. Unfortunately, as the strongest he cannot get too sentimental with others. That does not mean he's incredibly toxic, just slightly avoidant at times to experiences or scenarios that could disrupt his natural easy-going and flippant nature.

In a world of chaos, a partner for him is someone independent and doesn't expect too much. Having someone on his radar telling him what to do or how to behave, can seriously be too characteristically aggravating for him. Humans have one life, he lives however he likes.

No he is not a cheater. That was a serious mistranslated. The author claimed that Gojo just wouldn't have time to be a proper stereotypical partner, who makes times for his lover. Remember, after his 2nd year before Geto left, it was stated they were constantly busy. To busy to even check up on each other. Which means that as an adult, he wont have time for more than phone calls, teleportation if you have big events like birthdays or something that is spontaneously fun.

Spontaneity, ride-or-die type of person. Partner in crime, which means someone who is willing to go against protocols and orders.

Skills, techniques to match this anti-traditional sense. If you're weak, you'll be taken out by the higher ups in some type of way. Either they contact someone to take care of the job or put you up for execution.

Bring something NEW in his life. Not the same-old-same-old. Gojo is known to travel for work but also to experience the worlds cuisine. He would like it if you had the same passion or drive. That spark is important. Which is why he leans towards people in their youth. Not just because he wants to protect them. He genuinely lost his youth, so bring it back.

Remember, even as an adult and past-youngster, he was arrogant. Undoubtedly he learnt from his mistakes with Toji. E.g Learning to use Infinity constantly and not put his guard down, but at the same time he cant exhaust himself. That's one of the reasons he got stabbed anyway. He used the Reversal Technique to help with fatigue. Which is why a partner who can match his grit, have their own strange methods to KEEP growing consistently is attractive.

If you dated him in his youth, before he turned 20, expect someone a bit avoidant. After Geto's absence, he was even more rude. Especially towards weaker people (e.g. Ijichi, Chapter 211). Though, it was for a good cause. Weak people cannot strive for higher purposes, so they stay in their lane and play with their strengths. For Ijichi's case it was fundamental sorcerer abilities like the veil technique and straying from combat.

By the way, isn't it strange that Nanami and Gojo grew apart, when they were at the same school? If Nanami is a 2nd year when Gojo became a 3rd year in 2009, that would mean after Geto left they simply grew apart. In the OP of Season 2, including extra scenes, they all got along in a tight knit group. However, after Haibara died, it seems like Nanami most likely strove to leave the JJK Sorcery world after graduation. Which means from September 23rd 2009 til April 2010 (graduation day) Gojo was alone as the strongest. Nanami became more strict, less expressions showing on his face as an adult unlike his younger self in the OP. Dating Gojo in this time would be hard. You would need to capture his attention. Perhaps a very strong technique that is enough to SCARE THE HIGHER-UPS. That would peak his interest. Your strange innate ability is basically enough to rub salt against their wounds for having Geto becoming a rouge because of their methods. Perfect.

KEEPING his interest is hard. He's flippant. In Secret Inventory, Principal Yaga told him about the Star Plasma needed for Master Tengens immortality. Gojo was clueless about what it was. That's an indicator he lacks some curiosity to understand the 'boring' parts of JJK society. The cooler things are probably himself and other users who share his own power. Furthermore, he answered along the lines of 'So what-?, So cool (immortality)' in a bored way (sub). Expect this attitude from him. A popular know-it-all. Not a nerd or a strict person like Nanami. Just a 'So what?' since he definitely knows more than you. Introduce something new in his life, enough to make him think 'This is bizarre!'. So...OP Techniques are actually welcome lol.

Someone who can match his humor, obviously. He likes going back and forth. Stimulate him. He comes back-and-forth with Utahime, Geto. You can have a calmer and chill presence like MeiMei and Shoko as well. Just be of use, in a way. Don't tire him with too much of the same topic. Unfortunately, his own flippant attitude would either say something tactless or just dismiss the chance of continuing the conversation. So, if you can quickly switch topics, say random things, be blunt - attractive in the eyes of Gojo. It shows character, confidence, wit and honestly matches his own tactlessness in a way.

As an adult sorcerer later, I find it almost near impossible to imagine him realistically letting his guards down. Every day is work. You would need history with him. There is a very clear reason he told Ijichi to come along with him (before Gojo killed the Higher Ups) and not someone else more competent. It's the fact that he KNOWS Ijichi. Chapter 223. Trust is the key. Otherwise, you would need to be with him for years. Show your dedication, your improvement, your dismissal of the higher ups but don't be impulsive about it. Impulsiveness leads to death. Most importantly, don't slack off during fights. If you have an extremely strong technique, by all means just blink it away. It would be FUN though if you suddenly went all out. Not just brute force but martial-arts, speed and agility, reading the environment ans using it to your advantage, making a detailed report later that shows your intelligence. Which would make him re-think about truly knowing you, because you turned the tables. He would think 'Wow, this person truly knows what they're doing'.

Not needing protection. If you have his likability, you would already be a person of strength and adaptability. Adapt constantly and make yourself better. Looking at ease and composed and almost is just fine. You don't need to act like Nanami.

You would basically have one or two interactions with him every so often, which is like 1-3 months. It's sad and slow for you, I guess. But it's worth it. Slow-burn is how the romance between you two would realistically happen. In the past, he would get attached quickly (before Geto left). After Geto left, he didn't even foster his relationship with Nanami. To the point Nanami thought 'This guy is arrogant and No, we don't need to hang-out Gojo for the nth time.' Strange right? And adult Gojo craved at least some past-foolery and sketched a penis to bring some humor in the situation as he skedaddled away.

In one DRAMA CD on YT, Nanami and Gojo walk in the city. Gojo tries new food and doesn't flinch when he's asked 'You're seriously/actually eating?' instead he answers with a confident yes. Nanami then indulges and eats with him. Be like that. Open to try. You don't need an angelic attitude. Be yourself.

Someone to keep him on his toes. Be witty, almost snarky at times but only if you've had a good enough start with him. Depending on whether you meet teenage-almost-graduated-Gojo or adult-Gojo results wary. As a teen, he wouldn't immediately clap back in a funny way. He's overworked, thinking about how to go against more tradition and needs someone who can do a slow possess. As an adult, if you've known him for a few years, perhaps just one year, it could be okay-ish.

Dating wise, no dates really. I do think he would show you the best ramen in places of Japan and mochi, dongo and so on. It wouldn't be frequent. He would honestly like it if you also verbally told him 'You know what, just appear at random times and take me away', to install some affirmations into him. Deep down, teenager or adult he can be insecure. As a teenager he came across as insincere. As an adult, people stayed away from him. Widening a path for 'The intimidating Gojo, who was seen every now and then'. But, he did have a teaching post. We could assume he was away at times and wasn't the best teacher. Imagine sleeping 3 hours a day to just wake up for a class you barely have time to prepare material for, then go on a two-hour long meeting about some traditions or plans. I would expect his lover to not just be understanding, but also share some of the burden. If you're strong, yet you laze around and never take missions, he wouldn't be a good fit because he would just feel like there would be a gap. He wants to relate and wants you to relate to him. Don't overwork yourself but don't take one mission a day and never look back. Having a spark is important.

He would want to test you. First a blunt conversation starter maybe 'How does your technique work if..', or just 'You're x right? New.' I do not think he would be too flirty or anything. As an adult maybe more whimsical 'I seeeee...you're the new face people talk about. Quite some technique you have. How does it work?' even though he has read all papers about you, he's testing your intellect and awareness. How do you respond? 'I don't know' would result in a 'Ok, here I thought you knew your strengths'. Not in a too rude of a way, but a person should know their own technique. His younger self would assert his own dominance in Japanese using 'Ore' to test and gauge your reaction, but as an adult its mostly 'Boku' or 'Watashi'. Early on, everything is an assessment. Are you intellectually aware of yourself, your own allies and potential enemies within your own friend group? Are you aware that your curse energy leaves traces so you would need to make sure you don't go overboard?

If you're a loner he could relate. Though, I doubt he's the type to get vulnerable and sentimental about 'Oh, we're two loners, I'm so sad'. Even til his dead, he didn't get emotional. His message to Megumi was goofy too, to ensure people don't linger on sad emotions. He's the same way. If you're indifferent, composed, chill or calm - in general acceptance to it, he would like it even more.

Too much empathy can feel overbearing and pity-like. Many people headcanon a lover who's emotional or constantly checking up on him. His work and drive consists of his confidence over himself. Yes, he knows he should sleep more but can't - so what's the point of someone telling him 'I know you barely sleep but why don't you try to do it right now?' when RIGHT NOW all he wants to do it live in the moment, before he HAS to go to bed and wake up to his teaching. I do think Gojo knows of his habits. A red flag for him would be to brush off any comments, no matter how small. He genuinely knows everything about himself. He's aware he cannot be vulnerable to even the closest, but refuses to change because that's how it is. A lover would be his 2nd priority. His first is the actual Jujutsu World and NoN-Sorcerers well-being as their synergy is fundamental. I imagine a comment of 'Have you slept/eaten/showered/what are you doing later or now/will you do this or that if you finish x?' - sounds exhausting. Honestly, he would maybe said 'Mh. Maybe/probably/sure will.' in that characteristic Japanese easy-going tone but would clearly not go into detail.

Sappy rom-coms wouldn't happen with him, except for his confession. I think he can be quite good with words from watching other people live a mundane every-day-life as he walks down the street and pick up on things, watch through a movie screen because his life has always been as the observer and not someone who can 'change' the world even with his limitless ability - the only people who can are the next generation he has to foster - he's more like a benefactor in that way but not truly the one who did.

I think you would need to find something interesting to talk about or do. I envision his lover and Gojo in a room and it's gone quiet. You can enjoy the silence, but after visiting each other so-so many times SOMEONE has to say something to foster the relationship. It's not the fact that Gojo would let the relationship DIE. It's just after so much trauma and pressure to pick up many shifts and relentless phone calls, I do not think he want's to get too attached to someone who would get pretty tired of his 'I'm busy' or 'I'm actually not in Japan right now'. If you call him to show your slight disappointment or anger or bitterness he would say 'You're right, but this is also my lifestyle. Though I understand it's difficult to listen to the same answers, but it's not an excuse per se. More like the essence of who I am. I'm not making excuses, I am genuinely busy'. Someone who would get upset or lash out emotionally like a sappy love-story in-making would not fit with Gojo. He has matured over the years but also can internalize and intellectualize his own emotions. He focuses on the results, but isn't like a robot or a strict mentor like Nanami. It's more like 'Ok. I'm sad. But right now I have missions and meetings so we can do that later.' AND THAT'S WHEN HE CRIED when he thought about his youth and Geto AFTER he had called over Megumi, Yuji and Nobara. He associated Geto with his youth, not just their friendship. I think a bittersweet ending leads to him crying about it rarely but instead zoned out at Jujutsu High on a desk. When he finally had time to relax, that's when the emotions come. I cannot fathom the fact that he SITS and just silently cries. No big gestures or expressions under that blindfold. Just a stillness engraved so deeply, it's not possible to show anything other than the actual sadness of losing something that you had.

Personally, I don't ship Geto and Gojo. I see between the lines and the nuances, but in my head I'm content to think it's the loss of a relationship, experiences with it, the easy going nature before Haibara died/before Nanami grew away/before Shoko had dark under-eye circles because she is constantly shouldering the only proper nurse at school/before Geto and Gojo had less fun dorm nights and just work and being forced into adulthood from 15-18+ years old/shutting down his own self pity and realizing his entire existence has always been leading up to a man of steel or a weapon. The opening song of Season 2, analyzed on YT, shares the moment Geto has dark circles during the cicada-filled summer and the KFC goodbye.

I've personally lost friends where I've thought in the moment 'If you had a problem, why not say anything even if its obvious I can't read your mind'. I have been on both sides, receiving those annoying words and saying them/thinking them. Besides, ALL teenagers are awkward with emotions when they're taught by their parents that their feelings don't matter. That's exactly why for my part, I project that onto these two characters and can't see it romantically when my own life has been exactly like that. Not-so-fun-fact, did you all hear the SLASHING motion of a knife JJK MOVIE 0 when Geto and Gojo says goodbye and the camera zooms out completely? Gojo had to finish the job and cut their bond for good.

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