not in the swing of things (yet)

cj 22♡INFP♡NJ she/her

[remarcay]

friendly reminder that i made a new blog

follow @vierge-crise if you still want to follow me :^)

[remarcay]

hi i moved blogs

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[erinysceidae]

Saw the cutest Halloween fabric at JoAnns :)

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[stepfordgoth]

[aroseforno-one-deactivated20221]

me: wants attention

attention: gives me anxiety

[birdpal]

what kind of animal crossing villager are you?

What species are you?

What is your personality?

reply or reblog and put your results in the tags!!! i want to see what people get!

[offblaster]

Deku vs Bakugou round 3

[slowheart]

Literally sometimes as a woman you just have to put your hair up and move heavy furniture around in an unconventional manner

[downwithneocolonialism]

[mothcub]

[elizabeths-banks-deactivated201]

cooking with jeff goldblum and bryce dallas howard

please turn the sound on you won’t regret it

[jturn]

I know Jeff Goldblum is the better part of this video but Bryce’s laugh is so anime hand face pose that I can’t believe it. She laughs like she’s at the peak of her abilities and my petty resistance to her might is nothing

[plushviscera]

[kissedbythevoid]

[caffeinewitchcraft]

Relationships get so bananas when you start deciphering the other person’s love language.

Like I thought I was just acquaintances with this person because they never told me details about themselves and we just talked movies and writing . But then they made time to have coffee with me and they showed up out of breath because they ran. Like. RAN to be on time for coffee with me?

And I was like “i don’t mind waiting” cause I never want to run

But they said they wanted every minute they could get because I’m so busy usually

Which is when it clicked that I didn’t get how much they considered me a friend because I just straight away didn’t see MY signs of affection in them and went “cool! Casual buds it is.” But now that I’m seeing their signs of affection, I feel a little silly for dismissing them like that even though I felt like we could be best bros.

Anyway, some people show affection through time or intensity or commitment and not vocally. I really have to remember that!

[madammuffins]

Fyi- just in case you didn’t know.

TOUCH got a bro that likes to give high fives? Back slaps? Are they a hugger? Do they not blink an eye at cuddles?

QUALITY TIME this bro will (as op stated) sprint to spend every minute possible with you. Every second that you guys are together is a declaration of affection.

WORDS does your bro tell you how amazing and great and fantastic and wonderful you are all the time? Guess what…?

GIFTS do they buy you coffee? Snacks, energy drinks, spot you at the restaurant? Did that one key chain removed you of them? Ding ding!

ACTS are they always doing things for you? Ie: Nah bro, I got this, I can do that, need me to get anything for you, I can help with…?

PRO TIP - The way people show love is often how they receive love as well.

[gayer-than-you]

I reblogged this recently but it got better and ive been thinking and learning a lot abt love languages so

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