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before you beat yourself up for not cleaning, ask yourself:

is there a proper place to put the things you're tidying up?

a lot of times i would find myself struggling to finish cleaning things when the real problem was that I didn't actually have a permanent place for things to go once I had actually picked them up.

once I was making sure I had shelves or bins or organization things first, it became a lot easier to actually finish tidying things up since I knew where things were supposed to belong

ghostofbriggiesmalls

Oh.

banquo-and-macbeth

new evidence just dropped, add it to the list...

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digital-magus

I love you, vintage gay Pikachu. You’ll find the boy for you, I promise.

demilypyro

a lot to unpack here

demilypyro

Trust is something hard-won, and easily lost... You can mentally understand someone means well, and still not emotionally believe it. I often have a very hard time believing someone, anyone, gives a fuck about me, because like, why would they? There's no logical reason why they would. I just have to take it on faith that they... care? And keep taking it on faith. Again and again and again and again... Like, I can try, but I'm not a miracle worker.

demilypyro

Except that's not how it works, is it. People only "care" as long as you're useful to them. As long as you're more positive than negative. People care about me as long as I'm funny and insightful and inspiring, but the second I'm more trouble than I'm worth, I get booted. That's just how it works. I can't even find it in me to be resentful about it anymore... It's just my fault for not being more useful.

Having inherent worth must feel so fucking good.