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101010mayumi

Sorry to keep you waiting🥲💖

crash

petitmimosa

#he's so pretty #yuzuru hanyu #羽生結弦 #figure skating #soi 2023

detectivehole

not to sound like your dad but if your not having a great time rn you might legitimately be playing too many video games or being on that damn phone too often, or at least without any necessary activity buffers

detectivehole

may i suggest coloring with physical materials? or some chores you’ve been putting off? hell go outside with a bucket and make mud soup like you’re five again. take a break. you can bring your whatever for music and stuff but like don’t play with it

benihana-circumcision

lots of huffy teenagers in the notes

anarch0possum

i mean this, after spending so long getting my entertainment online, theres something incredibly tranquil about shutting it all out for a while to do something in meatspace for myself

rose-pendragon

That last one especially is so so so right, recently after work I’ve been almost forcing myself to play my favorite video games bc „you’re in your very limited free time right now, you *gotta* have fun”, until I realized that’s not how it works. So now instead, after coming home from work or finishing all my chores I just. pause. for a good 15-20 minutes. Just doing absolutely nothing, no electronics, no distractions. And just think about what I’ve accomplished and what I want to do with the rest of the day, what I would enjoy. And with that buffer I’ve been able to get more excited and actually have fun doing stuff later instead of forcing myself to do it. You really do gotta check in with yourself

temporary-dysphoria

a non-selective plan for the resurgence of fic commissions

majorenglishesquire

Too many children in the comments like ‘I think authors should be able to share ko-fi links :) it’s just nice’ and ‘OP is just a cop.’ Homie, OP is trying to keep AO3 fully functional without interruption. I will report your ass, too, because I value fic artists and our freedom of expression and my audience and our shared history far more than I value the few bux you wanna make on a commission.

It is not hard to link to your Tumblr or Twitter with a vague message like, “If you’re looking for my other works or other ways of supporting me, go here: link.” I have had people buy me coffees after enjoying my fic and asking where to support me. I threw up a link to my Tumblr and people cared enough to follow it. They were fully understanding when I explained in the comments that they could not commission me and I could not link them directly to any donation platform, but they could go to xyz link to read more. And they did! Nobody has to put AO3 directly on the firing line.

Go ahead and commission independently. Just do it anywhere else except on AO3. And then don’t come crying to the community when you, personally, get a C&D from a massive corporation.

AO3 is our bullet shield. Tumblr will pull your shit down. Wattpad won’t fucking protect you. LJ and FF.net already sold our asses for one (1) corn chip. AO3 is trying to protect us, you goddamn lemmings.

If you cannot follow the rules that protect fanspaces, you do not belong in our fanspaces.

The only people who misunderstand this are doing so intentionally and maliciously. Do yourself a favor and block the infants who think this isn’t a big deal.

kedreeva

Please remember that this ALSO INCLUDES FANDOM CHARITY AUCTIONS.

When you post charity auction fics, DO NOT note that they are commissions in any way. You can note them as “here is my thank you gift to X for such-and-such event” but please please PLEASE do not list them as commissions.

the-sacred-now

I think a lot of younger people are seeing this as a moral panic by OP. These are NOT being laid out as moral injunctions! This is not about being good! This is about covering your own ass and keeping fandom away from larger-scale legal trouble. No one is saying “If you break the rules you’re BEING BAD!” They’re trying to tell you “breaking these rules is DANGEROUS for yourself and potentially others as well!”

atlinmerrick

Doing all of this means we can have nice things, where nice things is:

You can charge if you like. You just have to do it somewhere else but in our communal fanspace.

mrs-gauche

Sometimes you come across some really funny stuff when using the flycam and then you put dramatic chorus and some effects on it and then The Dread Wolf Rises™ before plopping out of existence and I can’t stop laughing

(I didn’t make any cuts, the camera just automatically jumped closer, which makes this even funnier to me sjhdhfjfkak)

iguessweallcrazyithinktho

kaijuno

March 24, 2023, at 2:07 p.m. PORTLAND, Ore. (AP) — Walter C. Cole, better known as the iconic drag queen who performed for decades as Darcelle XV, has died of natural causes in Portland, Oregon.

whiskeyote

Cry because she’s gone. But please also happy cry because she made it to 92. I am so glad, in a sense, to be mourning a queer elder who actually got to be an elder. This is a success story as told by an entire, whole, complete human lifetime. Rest in peace, Darcelle. I can’t imagine the struggles you have seen, the oppression you have overcome, and the life experience you’re taking with you to the other side. We love you. And we are so glad you made it to 92.

loenas

The queen and her gold medal🥇

#kaori sakamoto #worlds 2023 #figure skating

thoughtportal

commasameleon-deactivated202510

Sorry as someone who teaches rhetoric this is a wonderful response to the Paradox of Tolerance. I cannot tell you how many times my students have had debates about this. This is the response. This does indeed fix it. I cannot wait to tell this to my classes now. Philosophically and rhetorically this completely resolved the Paradox of Tolerance and I am floored by its simplicity and angry I never saw it before.

starstruckroguewolf-deactivated

Spot the difference

That’s right you can’t.

YEA I SAID IT

witch-of-the-wild-xxx

Dude in The Mummy had NO RIGHT being THAT FINE.

#It would seem I have a type #oh definitely #queue of regret

thethermocline

The more despair I endure in life, the more I love Frodo. I'm just. I'm so glad that Tolkien wrote him like that. He was a hero and it broke him. He was given too much to carry. The circumstances were dire, everyone was doing the best they could, and Frodo tried so hard, for such a good cause, and he...broke. And the narrative has pity for him, the characters show him kindness. Even after victory, his hurts did not heal, and it isn't considered his fault. He must go to the undying lands, to seek out peace there. In universe, he is forgiven for being human - don't be pedantic - and his great torment is recognized. He fell. He could not have done it alone. He is still a hero.

And, I think that's important.

dduane

Tolkien endured a war that broke its combatants this way... and it was a LONG time before “ordinary people” back at home forgave the combatants for what was widely perceived as a lack of heroism—even cowardice—when the broken came back. He was able to view that scenario with compassion long before most of British society was able to, because he’d been in it with the ones who broke.

...“Fantasy” writer, huh.

spaghettioverdose-deactivated20

This is a permanent bags under eyes kinda post

Like & share if you have permanent bags under your eyes!!!

yuzupoll

Round One Has Begun!!

TIME TO VOTE!!

The polls for round one are officially up!! Thank you to everyone for their patience! The polls already look pretty tough 😭😭 please be sure to vote for your favorites! Also, please feel free to reblog if you would like a bigger sample size! Below are links to all the polls:

#yuzuru hanyu #figure skating #the great yuzuru hanyu tournament #羽生結弦

gaylienz

happy PRIDE i’m here i’m queer and i believe the land should be given back to the proper indigenous stewards.

gaylienz

Non-Natives reblogging this are great and wonderful

lierdumoa

Please remember that "land back" does not mean "indigenous people are mystical elves with innate epigenetic wisdom of land stewardship and they don't belong in big cities," nor does it mean "non-indigenous people can't be farmers." What it DOES mean is that "non-indigenous farmers should be paying the equivalent of property taxes to the native governments their land was stolen from." It means, "there's a great deal of indigenous scholarship on sustainable agricultural practices that farmers should be taking into account, because indigenous agriculture was more advanced than European agriculture at the time Europe invaded the Americas and western agriculture *still* hasn't caught up in terms of figuring out how to produce equivalently high crop yields without compromising the ecosystem." It means, "non-indigenous farmers should be in an intellectual discourse with indigenous agricultural scientists and indigenous peoples that still do traditional farming, figuring how to repair the damage western farming practices have done to the ecosystem."

red-dead-revival

It also means that indigenous peoples should regain the right to sustain themselves on the land according to the practices they want, and they should have free reign to perform their cultural practices and protect their holy sites, as opposed to the current model where if they try to honor their dead on public lands they get violently removed.

pnkrathian

you live in one of those “this is the future liberals want” republican political cartoons that accidentally makes everything seem super fucking cool. what is you job in society?

gay sex mayor

person who runs the torture chamber for ppl who make fun of autistics

weed jesus

abortion parlor owner

fandom weirdo

a little old lady that hand feeds hrt to trans ppl like little doves in the park

asexual combination dungeon master and gay wedding cake baker

tasked with queering the room

computer science major

furry

Voting ended onMar 14, 2023