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embarassing, get the fuck up off of the floor. you’re not a dog. so tired of this “sexually emancipated female liberated pop music” and artists as if any sort of respect is gained for women by having sex and submitting to men. so let’s get this clear, she infantilizes herself, humps the stage, dresses like a toddler and now likens herself to a dog. get some fucking self respect.

her album is called, “man’s best friend.” 😐

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idk if this is going to be controversial, but I kinda don't believe in mother-child bonding being this dire thing that is irreparable if the mother doesn't hold the baby immediately. I think we've mythologized the euphoria of holding your baby so much that so many women have high expectations and feel like something is "wrong" with them if they're, like, tired and in pain rather than blissed out. and then when motherhood is a grind because their partners suck ass it's convenient to be like "well I never really bonded with my child that's why cleaning shit off my clothes sucks rather than rules." I bond with stranger babies for fleeting moments on the bus, I think we're just finding ways to make motherhood mystical, make mothers feel like shit, and make mothers point fingers at anything other than their dead-beat husbands for the reasons why they aren't living up to their heightened euphoric vocation everyone expects of them, even though that dream isn't real. I think moms love their kids and we should stop creating complex mythologies about why they aren't happy is actually a huge failing on them, like, not loving their kids. you can love your kids and think they're annoying little shits that's normal. you are normal. your husband is not though divorce his ass eat his liver.

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i am FULLY against the sentiment that we don’t owe anybody anything. we owe people common decency. we owe people respect if it has been given to us. we owe people apologies & explanations when we hurt them. i don’t care.

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Chantal Akerman on making Jeanne Dielman, 1975.

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Reforma Torta (Serbian Reform Cake) – Decadent Walnut Sponge with Chocolate Custard Buttercream

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Radical feminists only hate transgender women because they only see you as a woman if you can reproduce. Only thinking a woman is a woman if they can give birth is not truly revolutionary and ahead of time. If you think womanhood is defined merely by being able to give birth, you need to get with the times. Suck it.

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No radfem thinks a woman is only a woman if she can give birth 🙄

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Woman murders man in broad daylight

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my professor spent our entire seminar whining about how there’s too many girls in our group and not enough boys. he was like “i’m not saying women can’t be good surgeons but we need more men” no, we don’t. men suck. deal with it.

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CRY ALL YOU FUCKING WANT YOUR TEARS DON’T MEAN SHIT TO ME. YOUR TEARS MEAN DICK TO ME JUST SO YOU KNOW

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Okay so not to be that person who adds on to a post with their own story but my mom is a doctor and when I was eleven she took me to these all-female seminar led by a woman who was the head of a hospital because my mom is an empowered and independent woman who wanted her daughter to be the same way and so there’s like thirty females surgeons in the room, all sitting around his huge circlular confrenece table and talking about their experiences in becoming surgeons

most of them were like “everyone told me I should become a nurse or a pediatrician” and “people assume that I don’t know what I’m doing” you know, your average sexist bs

one of the women’s last name was starboard (yeah I know great name) and she was talking about how even though now she was one of the most accomplished surgeons at the hospital, the male scrub techs (read: guys who didn’t go to fucking medical school) and some of the male doctors call her starbitch in the OR because they (scrub techs mostly, strangely enough) try to suggest different ways to care for the patient and she always tells them no you didn’t go to med school and I did and so they would go out of their way to get the male doctors to treat the patient differently and then she would have to argue with him to prove what she was doing es right but sometimes the male doctor would come and take over the case anyway and this went on for a while

but then the hospital statistics changed bc this woman was literally being prevented from treating her patients bc the men were interfering and so the administrative head heard about this (she was female) and she was like y’all better stop or y’all better start looking for new jobs and then starboard was allowed to work on her patients and got the scrub techs replaced and all of the sudden, the patients were suddenly doing much better during and after surgery.

when she told this story she was like “people still call me a bitch, and maybe I am because I won’t let them walk all over me, but when you’ve got something to do, when you’ve got a life to save, you have to ignore their bullshit so that you can save someone’s fuckin life. Sexism should never stop you from accomplishing that”

and little eleven-year-old me still remembers that bc I was insecure and awkward and here was this woman who just did what she had to do and ignored all the people trying to stop here and she really was better than all the male doctors (like her patient stats were better) and I thought I should share with you this inspiring woman with the cool last name