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December 31st, 2010

if i look back, i am lost
$LAYYYTER
Sweet Seals For You, Always
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One Nice Bug Per Day
YOU ARE THE REASON

祝日 / Permanent Vacation

izzy's playlists!
"I'm Dorothy Gale from Kansas"
todays bird
PUT YOUR BEARD IN MY MOUTH
will byers stan first human second
d e v o n
noise dept.
Peter Solarz
Cosimo Galluzzi
he wasn't even looking at me and he found me

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December 31st, 2010
SOMEONE ACTUALLY EXPLAINED HOMESTUCK TO ME.
PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT FOR MY FOLLOWERS WHO ARE NOT HOMESTUCK
THIS IS HOMESTUCK?!
Yeah it’s not so shitty now huh
Now if only the art wasn’t shite…
The art isnt shit.
I KNOW UNDERSTAND MORE THAN READING NON STOP, NO SLEEPING BREAKS OR EATING FOR THREE DAYS STRAIGHT
I KNOW SO MUCH NOW THANK YOU ITS A LOT LESS CONFUSING<3
June 7th, 2013
do you think truckers realize that theyre dentists of highways
explain
they both fuck twinks at gas stations
September 5th, 2017
HAPPY TEN YEARS SPIDERS ON MY DICK!!!!!!!!!
December 22nd, 2013
"tomorrow is leg day"
WRONG! Tomorrow is I turn into a jellyfish and go into the ocean while you watch, knowing that now you cannot do anything to bring me back because my state of not being built for the life I was given is now existent in a way that cannot be ignored.
Tell the truth.
Why are y'all single?
tumblr discourse is such shit ppl cant even process or deal with the idea that your opinions don't have to impact the way you act or treat people yet.
gonna self-report cuz I think its the most effective way I can present this. I have a very very strong antichristian sentiment baked into me down to my bones, growing up in a conservative evangelical environment with a pastor as a father will do that to a trans woman believe it or not. but you will notice that doesn't impact how I treat christian queers, or religious people who are not spreading bigotry. everyone has biases and you do need to work to identify them and work on them and not harm others
Honestly. Now that I think about it, there's two things I'd like to talk about
1. Despite exclusionist insistance we should just stick to one label (usually bisexual,) most mspec lesbian experiences are actually uniquely both (we know this but I wanna say smth about it anyway)
2. Luniaphobia is not just people hating us for our label, but the aforementioned specific experience of being lunian/an mspec lesbian, and that luniaphobia will follow us even if we pick one label.
I had this thought first about mspec lesbians who use the split attraction model. The online lesbian, bisexual, and mspec communities don't just assume aligned attraction, but are actively hostile to anyone who doesn't have that aligned attraction. With the example of someone who is bisexual, attracted to both binary genders, and romantically lesbian, if this person chooses only to identify as a lesbian, the heavy emphasis on repulsion towards men, and not finding them attractive, will likely make them feel like they don't quite belong here. And of course, if they dare express sexual attraction to men, even if they would never date a man because they are not romantically attracted to them, the response is "lesbians can't be romantically OR sexually attracted to men!" "You're the reason men think they can harass us and get us to fuck them," and "being a lesbian isn't just a choice to not date guys, you're just bisexual!" (Which I agree, it is not a choice, but being lesbiromantic and bisexual is not a choice)
So they have the label of being just bisexual put on them, and to avoid that hostility, identify as bisexual. The bisexual community has the same feeling of not quite belonging, because the assumption is a romantic interest in men and women as much as a sexual interest. And when they express that they aren't actually interested in dating a man, they're just attracted to them? The response is "you're not really bi then!" "You're a biphobic invader!" "You're the reason people think bisexuals can pick a side!" "You have internalized biphobia, and look down on m/f relationships as less queer, accept yourself and us," and "you're just a lesbian, then."
Neither community will actually accept someone who is bi and lesbian as one of their own. Even without using the allegedly problematic label of "bi lesbian," they are still bi and a lesbian and are punished accordingly. The only solutions for them to actually be accepted are the biphobic solution of "picking a side" and ignoring their attraction to men, or the lesbophobic solution of being open to relationships with men that they don't want.
It's somewhat similar the other way around - biromantic, but sexually a lesbian. Call yourself a lesbian and express you just don't find guys attractive, but you're willing to date a man, sometimes have crushes on them even, but maybe just not have sex with them, and the results vary. Maybe you're "the reason men think they can date lesbians." Maybe you "clearly have internalized lesbophobia." Maybe "it's probably just comphet." Or maybe you're "just bisexual." Of course. And in the bisexual community, the lack of sexual attraction might not be brought up, but if that translates to not wanting to have sex with men, you're again "faking being bisexual" and "just a lesbian." The solutions to be accepted in either community are again, the biphobic solution of picking a side and ignoring their biromanticism, or the lesbophobic solution of putting out for men.
Exclusionists will claim that we, by using our labels, promote corrective rape, or conversion therapy, or make men think that they can get lesbians, or somehow want to force exclusive lesbians to have sex or relationships with men, but when it comes to split attraction? Telling mspec lesbians that they are just bisexual and wanting them to identify as just bisexual is directly encouraging a lesbian to have sex or relationships with men that they do not want, because to be just bisexual, they would have to stop being lesbians.
I'll reblog this later with an addition for ways other mspec lesbian experiences are unique and even without the label, we will be discriminated against for being mspec and lesbian. I got bored of writing this post but I wanted to put it up and not forget about it.
the DNC autopsy report for the 2024 election is actually just this image and nothing else
‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ trust me, if white people know you aren't safe to be racist around, we'll notice! Your ACTIONS will speak for you!
i mentioned i was upset about the rise of radnormal as a stance in my "anger" post and i realize i do have something to contribute, actually.
i am staunchly anti-radqueer; i was a part of the early anti-radqueer community—when antiradqueer and other blogs were still active—and an archivist, one of the only active ones in the community then. i compiled so many posts explaining alternatives to being radqueer, help resources, why certain things were bad and the origins of some of the most infamous radqueer terms. i've helped victims out of the community. i've been harrassed by radqueers because of my being anti-radqueer (without having personally interacted with any). i've watched someone i love fall back under the control of their abuser because of the radqueer community.
i am also a paraphile. i'm the disgusting, vile, unforgivable paraphile that radnormalism condemns. i am not one of the big three, however, i do experience an attraction that would be harmful if acted on (you don't need to know what). i am this way as a result of trauma—being unable to tie my worth to anything besides what i could do for others and yet desiring some semblance of control at the same time.
and you know something?
the anti-radqueer community used to be much, much more accepting to paraphiles. because the goal was never to eradicate radqueers or push them off the internet entirely or isolate them from everyone else in the world or hate them; the goal was to help victims. we had problems, yes—we used to be so hateful—but we realized we weren't making a change that way. we realized that we weren't helping anyone that way.
do you hate radqueers because they're bad and evil and disgusting and immoral? even the victims who're radqueer because of their abusers? even the children who happen to be paraphiles that're radqueer because they're scared nobody else will accept them? do you hate the not-quite-ex radqueer who's scared to leave the community because what if they're not accepted anywhere else? what about the sexual assault victim who's transraped because they don't feel like their trauma was bad enough? what about them? do you hate them too? do you want them dead? do you want them to be isolated from any community ever? or do you hate radqueers because they're "bad" and you don't have repurcussions for hating them? do you hate radqueers more than you care about victims?
give me a good reason why you hate paraphiles that doesn't generalize all paraphiles (because what about kids who are paraphiles and disgusted by their own attraction? what about sexual assault victims who developed paraphilias as a result? what about plushophiles? how have they hurt anyone because of their paraphilias? we've not even gotten into the fact kinks are oftentimes counted as paraphilias); give me a good reason why you hate transids without saying they're all harmful or appropriation (because transspecies originated as an otherkin term and transabled was a medical diagnosis and transcute isn't hurting anyone); give me a good reason why you hate radqueers that isn't "they're all abusers" or "they're all disgusting" or "they're all bad" (because there are victims who are in the community, there are victims who don't know any better, there are victims who are being hurt by your actions and pushed away from being helped).
this isn't even getting into the fact that, regardless of what you think about radqueers as a whole, you should still fucking treat them like people. you never, ever dehumanize someone—that's fascist shit and you never use fascist tactics. why do so many of you feel like it's okay to treat radqueers like shit? is it because you hate them so much? because you don't see them as people? because you don't think they're deserving of basic decency? because congrats: fascist shit. that's also still pushing away people who might want to leave the community and/or who're actively victims in the community.
let me ask again: do you hate radqueers more than you care about victims?
I have a former feral cat who absolutely loves watching animal videos on my TV. Here's what I remember some of his opinions are: 1. Manuls, other house cats: Friends, neighbors, countrymen. Interested in what they're up to, tries to hang out. 2. Messi the Puma: Really cool big brother. Went nuts the first time he saw the size of him sitting next to a full grown human man. When he thinks Messi is looking at him he makes friendly noises and imitates what Messi does (yawn, roll, etc) 3. Seals, sea lions: Lot of dramatic head wobbling at these guys 4. Proboscis monkeys: Dude acted like these were the missing link that explained everything he'd ever wondered about cat-human relations. I don't even know how to explain it better than that. He was just a very specific kind of fixated and astonished, plus looking at me a lot too. I think it was the big nose/long tail combo. 5. Gorillas: He wasn't interested until they turned around and he saw they had human butts. Then he went absolutely nuts wobbling his head about it. I figure this is the kind of thing people might wanna call bullshit on so I got a small clip real quick
went to the youtube video, liked it and got this!!!!
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lmaooooo
big pharma will try to sell u $20 cold medicine like spicy ramen doesnt cost like a dollar a pack and orgasms are free
damn british people cant cum..... this is so sad.......
big chemist will try to sell you £20 paracetamol like beans dont cost like a quid a can and havin a wank costs fock all
girl helppp
forcefemmed future self
the replies are even worse
Scottish government currently has a bunch of ads up to get screened for lung cancer, but for some reason they’ve decided to personify cancer as some sort of gothic butch milf and I’m obsessed with her
I know I already said it in a reblog 2 years ago, but... the french orangina ads :
No way thats called Orangina