so many girls are insecure about their bodies. i am insecure about my body, and i’m a girl. im GAY. so,,, let me give you ladies some insight:
when i’m feeling insecure about my own body, i realise i would Never think that my insecurities make a different girl ugly. we are so so much harder on ourselves and we hold ourselves accountable for things that don’t even make us less attractive, lovable, or desirable.
all i want to do Right Now is have a girl, a soft and pretty lady, sit on my lap. i want to have domestic romance. i want to wrap my arms around her tummy, as she’s sitting on my lap. tummies are so so lovely and beautiful. what about being chubby or fat or “too skinny” is bad? all girls’ tummies are LOVELY. your tummy is so beautiful. your tummy is there and it’s allowed to take up space because it does a very well job of protecting your organs, keeping your insides warm and safe. it is okay.
another thing i want to do is have a girl sit on my lap and i can gently keep my hands on your thighs. thick thighs? YES. thick thighs are SO beautiful. curves never hurt you. having no thigh gap is OKAY because thick =/= ugly. fat thighs are perfect, because all thighs are perfect. even if your thighs are “too skinny”. they are just as lovely and beautiful. i love them *chefs kiss*.
i say “too skinny” because society has coined that term to discriminate against all types of women. what can we do right? they bully us for being fat AND being skinny. thats bullshit. society just wants to hate on women,,,, for everything. maybe its the ~lingering sexism~
of course we do have to draw the line for medical and health reasons, and take care of our bodies if they happen to droop to a low weight. but you’re not hurting ANY body by being skinny or being fat. youre ESPECIALLY not hurting society. they can take their hate and sexism somewhere else, because women don’t need to be perfect. our bodies are OURS. take care of yourself by treating your body kindly, it’s done a fantastic job taking care of you.

















