Never thought that i would need to make a post clarifying things, but I saw that my personal contact information was posted here, without my knowledge.
I left the community about almost a month or two ago because I was feeling extreme anxiety from the things that transpired between some of the people whom i thought were friends. I tried to stay out of it as best as I could because nothing directly involved me. The only time i got involved in any confrontation, was because i had the misunderstanding that someone was lumping me into the equation of what was originally supposed to be a dispute between 3 others excluding myself. I will acknowledge that I wasn’t very nice in that message because I was annoyed and angry, not that it should excuse hurtful things that were said, but I believe that me and the person involved have moved forward and clarified any misunderstandings that we both had.
I haven’t spoken to anyone besides the casual greetings exchanged during the festive season. I was only made known of what transpired in the past few days because a mutual friend told me that there was something that happened between another acquaintance of mine and the friends that we once had; curiosity got the better of me so i logged back into tumblr to read the posts - so imagine my surprise when one of the posts contained my personal contact information. (my discord tag) I was stalked and harassed online and offline before, so having my contact information out there for the world to see just does not sit right with me. I have never given permission for this information to be made public, and i was not being spoken to beforehand. If there was any misunderstanding or things that need to be clarified upon, you can come to me directly. Unfortunately, i have no interest in corresponding with anyone in this circle any further, and this was the final straw; my mental state has been improving for the past few months and i simply have no wish to muddy it by constantly having to explain about things i have never said or done.
I have reported the post for releasing my private information, as well as spoken to the mutual friend who told me about what happened, to urge the person whose posts contain that information to take it down. It has been more than 24hrs and nothing has been done, so i will just wait for Tumblr’s team to get back to me. But if you are seeing this somehow, i don’t mind if you need to use the screenshots for the context of the post or whatever, but please at least have the decency to blur our mine and the other person’s contact information, it’s a huge breach of privacy despite what you think.
Other than that, this tumblr will still be up so that people can still use the links i have to the poses i made, but I won’t be updating it anymore. The past few months have really turned me off from the Sims community in general to the point where I can’t even play the game anymore. This is just the breaking point because i was not even here to defend myself, not that I need to because I didn’t even do anything. And this coming from the people i cared so much for at one point, is disappointing. The messages that we last exchanged, and the way they are portraying me to the world right now, just makes me think that maybe I didn’t know them that well after all.
Thank you to everyone who I have spoken to and only genuinely wanted to strike up a friendship or bond over our common love for the game. I wish you all good health and happiness moving forward.
xx,
Schleepy
