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Hello there! This blog is a selfship confession blog for all types, meant to give selfshippers a safe space to vent, gush, or get anything off their chests! As for what to expect:

No proship/comship/darkfic/neutral/anti-anti/anything like that. It's absolutely not allowed or tolerated, I don't want those circles anywhere near me, I will block any on sight

Don't use this platform to hate or harass. Don't namedrop anyone you don't like, don't try to hurt anyone's feelings, and especially don't use the inbox to spread bullying or harassment

No transphobes/racists/homophobes/TERFs/exclusionists either. If you're in any way against minorities, leave. No radqueers, zoos, or RPF either.

Vents and gushing are 110% allowed, along with anon signoffs!

Please keep F/O names out of the confessions! This is to benefit non-sharers and prevent them from feeling uncomfortable. Nicknames, emoji stand-ins, or anything else like that are allowed though!

Feel free to ask me any questions or correct me on anything I may mess up on! I'll try my best to be as careful as possible with confessions, but don't be afraid to inform me of any harmful content that might get it

The confessions posted are not automatically my views, or necessarily things that I personally am in agreement on. I try to be as objective as possible and filter out content appropriately, but the confessions that do get posted are wholly the view of the senders

I'd prefer if words like "simp" or other examples of appropriated AAVE not be used in confessions, largely because of how the community has massively misused them appropriated the terms

With all that said, please feel free to come in and confess to your heart's content whatever may be on your mind as a selfshipper :D

Important notice: as of recent I've allowed NSFW/suggestive asks to be submitted on this blog. They will be tagged appropriately, however I strongly implore minors to stay away from those posts at all costs, or even refrain from interacting in general if it makes you uncomfortable. Again, they will be tagged, but I'm very strict about minor safety and this needs to be considered before following and interacting

If you are uncomfortable with suggestive or NSFT content, please block the "#spicy void confessions" tag

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For context: I ship with a vocal synth. With that being said.... When she's tuned.... In a lower pitch.... Virtual instrument..... Pretty.... Weeeeetysrysru.........

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last night I had a dream that I was reading an x reader fic, and the last chapter was an epilogue that was like decades later with the reader and f/o as an older married couple and now I can't stop thinking about it😭and now I want a fic like that

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Hi so I have a question for the class, is it considered "weird" to have two or more (romantic) f/os that are siblings? Because whenever I get interested in pieces of media that have sibling characters I always end up falling for more than just one of them and idk if people would consider that to be "taboo" or not

(Also I want to clarify that the siblings are NOT TOGETHER. I DO NOT MEAN THIS IN THE SENSE THAT I SHIP THE SIBLINGS TOGETHER FOR THE LOVE OF GOD I'm only shipping them with ME. I shouldn't have to specify but I feel the need to because I want to be as clear as possible so there isn't any kind of misunderstanding here 😭)

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Hi hi hey hi!!! I feel like I won life because my f/o doesn't have a canon version of her. Like — her entire point is that there's infinite versions of her... through the multiverse. All of them are canon. She's also from a source that doesn't have one canon either. (I don't know if I'm explaining this well but I feel like if I say more I'll betray who my f/o is)

Not only that, she's not so popular...there's like....barely any doubles.

And if there are, all our ships are canon, because, again, each story she's in is basically an alternative version of her.....and all are canon in the same universe!! So we're all just shipping with a different character. SO ALL OUR SHIPS ARE CANON!! Because different headcanons and interpretations... one simply can't be non sharing of her I fear, that's basically impossible

Aaaaa I hope I explained it clearly it's so messy but I just needed to say it out loud I like talking about her

Hmmmm self shipper joy, have a good day my fellow weirdos (in a very positive way) 🫂

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sorry if this is too long or rant-y so feel free to delete if anything isn’t allowed /gen. i have tiktok just for edits and stuff but the selfship community on there is a prison. for a community based off of loving characters there’s so much constant discourse and drama and straight up bullying on there.

the first example that comes to mind is the lolcow-esque culture on there and how people froth at the mouth at the chance to be cruel, harass and cyberbully you if you do something they deem “problematic” (which can be as simple as expressing discomfort with doubles) like it genuinely disturbs me how so many people crawl out of the woodworks to be evil toward people. obviously i’m not going to name drop but there’s a literal thirteen year old who, by his own admission, is mentally unwell and has been hospitalised, and instead of trying to help or showing sympathy or concern, they literally just troll and hate and flood his comments with vile shit. and they justify it as “he’s problematic” when really he’s just showing symptoms of being an already mentally ill young person who is under intense online scrutiny and is constantly being hounded by virulent, transphobic trolls who delight in being wicked to him.

that and self ship / oshi culture is blended together so if you don’t have a shrine or thousands worth of merchandise then some people genuinely think that you’re “not a real fan” or “don’t really love your f/o” and there’s an intense push of people trying to be “THE ___ yume” or “___ number one fan!” that part of the community is incredibly competitive. and yeah, i know that’s the whole point of oshi culture, but not every self shipper is also part of oshikatsu stuff, so to see people genuinely think that if you don’t have a massive dedicated shrine and lots of merchandise then you don’t really love / aren’t dedicated to your f/o is really hurtful to people who don’t have the money to invest in stuff like that.

and there’s so many pointless rules and bad takes if you even breathe the wrong way people will jump you. if you’re a minor you can’t have a crush on an adult character, that’s weird (no it doesn’t matter to them if you make your sona the same age.) if you’re a minor you can’t have a crush on a character who’s the same age as you, that’s weird. you can’t selfship if you have an irl partner, that’s cheating. you have to ask your irl partner for permission to like a character. just genuinely the worst takes you’ve ever seen in your life.

(and the nonsharing discourse is something else entirely so i won’t even get into that. it’s about as bad as you’re imagining.)

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i hate how every selfship imagine post is lovey dovey..what if my f/o is evil. have you considered that..can we make mean selfship imagines!!! what if my bf is really mean!!!!!!!

Can I interest you in checking out @evilyumes

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is anybody else trapped in the endless loop of not consuming content of f/o so you have to but when you do you keep pausing and putting it away for later

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I got a new f/o thats I'll just call ⏰️ for now. He's a platonic f/o and I looovveee him so much. You're able to speak to him in game so I can pretend me and him are chatting like actual friends :3

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I'm selective/ reletively okay sharing, and i don't know why but I really dislike seeing other self ships with my f/o when its a girl doing it. Im a gay dude who self-ships with a guy who's not Canonically queer, and i don't know why I just feel bad seeing him shipped with girls.

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my newest f/o canonically has a "wife" at the end of the movie. But i feel like theyd be better platonically, so im writing an au where he marries my s/i instead because its MY hyperfixation and i can do WHATEVER I WANT HEHEHE😼

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We interrupt this queue-ing to say HAPPY PRIDE MY QUEER SELFSHIP FRIENDS

Make that f/o MLM‼️

Make that f/o WLW‼️

Make that f/o bi, pan, omni, poly, etc‼️

Make that f/o transfem‼️

Make that f/o transmasc‼️

Make that f/o nonbinary, demigender, genderfluid, agender, etc‼️

Make that f/o ace/ace-spec‼️

Make that f/o aro/aro-spec‼️

T4t selfships, queerplatonic selfships, ace but not aro selfships, aro but not ace selfships, poly selfships, aplatonic selfships, I WANNA SEE THEM ALL

Queerness doesn't always need clear lines or labels that fit your relationships/experiences, either. However YOU define it, your LGBTQ+ selfships ARE valid and deserving of as much love, care, and support as hetero/cis/whatevs selfships. Also if you've ever had someone whine at you about your queer headcanons because "[x character] is straight/cis!!!" You're entitled to financial compensation and a throwing stone

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I have these two characters I loved with all my heart for YEARS before I got tired of the fandom and kinda left them, I still have familial f/os from that fandom but I've just put them in another fandom that I actually like interacting with

My main f/o is from this fandom I've put my family in and he's kinda the only character I've been monogamous with (as in not shipping with other characters from that source) because usually I'm a sucker for polycules with my f/os

Now, I've been feeling very conflicted about still having feelings for the two previous characters for months because I don't wanna interact with their source but I feel like I never stopped loving them

So now I decided to put them in my main f/o's source and have a polycule with them and I'm so happy I did that because not only do I get to interact with them again but my husband also gets more love which is awesome for him!!

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i hate being selectively-sharing sometimes. not even because of community hate or anything, but because ever since i've shown who i'm sharing and nonsharing with, i've had friends in my inbox saying "i'm scared what if you'e nonsharing with (f/o of mine they also selfship with)" and it's like.

even if i am nonsharing with them i don't mind doubles interacting as long as you don't talk to me about it. if it shows up on my dash, that's fine. you didn't force it to show up on my dash. i can handle it. but dude.

having friends of mine confess that they're literally SCARED of even posting abt their selfships because of me hurts so fucking bad man.

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yes my brother (familiar yume f/o) isnt human. yes I am human. yes we are still brothers. it is not that complicated

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UURGAGHHHHHH STOP. SHIPPING HIM WITH THAT OLD WRINKLY OVERUTILIZED FART AND DRAW HIM DOING BROMANTIC THINGS WITH MEEEEEE (rips my shirt open)

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I hate that my f/o is shipped with another canon character, when in canon, their relationship is shown to be concerningly toxic, and codependent. It's not even in a romantic light, yet ppl find the 'toxic cuteness' interesting and make so much fanart of it.

And worst, you can't really openly hate it without being called a snowflake cause "Bestie, it's a series full of murderers, their relationship being toxic is the least of anyone's worries".

Ughhhhhhhhhhhh

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