恥知らずな腐女子

She/Her pronouns Panromantic Demisexual I use the word fujoshi ironically in my username because reading BL was the catalyst to discovering my own queerness. Plus I keep getting anon hate about how since I’m a shitty fujoshi I should die and the rebel in me keeps this username to remain a petty bitch 💅

[le-tas-d-art]

“Attempting To Read News In 2025” (medium: safari with ads, screencap, 2025)

[biglawbear]

If this shit happened in 2005 it meant your computer had a virus

[rowanisawriter]

2026

DO THE ABSOLUTE MINIMUM AT WORK. MAKE ART THAT HURTS. ABANDON ALL GUILT AND SHAME. DONT LET THEM KILL YOUR SOUL. BECOME YOUR OWN PERSONAL GOD. GROW SPIKES. DONT LET THEM KILL YOUR SOUL

[armchair-lethroe]

You were a child. You didnt deserve it. You didnt "earn it". There is no amount of rudeness, sexuality, defiance, disobedience, laziness, ungratefulness, or sass that justifies an adult screaming at or hurting a child or raping a child. It was their responsibility as a parent, a guardian, or caretaker to take care of you.

You didnt deserve it. You never deserved it. You never will deserve it.

[unwelcome-ozian]

[only-knives]

"well everyone has trauma" correct and yet

you fail to recognize not everyone has trauma that impacts their ability to perform activities of daily living - even right down to basic things like eating. and not everyone has trauma dominate their entire life, with no escape: not even escape from within their own mind.

we can recognize that we live in a society that has doled out trauma to most people without punching down on the most vulnerable by telling them they should be able to do x, y, z (ex: work, make friends, get sober, have hobbies, cook, etc) "like everyone else."

you are not the standard. no one is the standard. we are all unique people in our own right and society has failed us all. we gain nothing by shaming anyone.

[crimsonflock]

Someone needs to tell parents everywhere that a child never complaining is NOT a sign of a mentally healthy child, and it is, in fact, the complete opposite of that.

[fflittermouse]

Kids should whine and complain and yell and pout. They eat your food and break your heart. And nothing is better than that.

[borderlineremindersbook]

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[borderlineremindersbook]

There is grief in outgrowing versions of yourself, even if you’re proud of who you’re becoming.

[traumasurvivors]

If you're sex repulsed as a result of a trauma, that's completely valid. But I want to also talk about hypersexuality, because that's valid too. And for a lot of us? We can be a bit of both whether that's both at the same time, or perhaps going back and forth.

You aren't wrong, dirty or broken for being sex repulsed, hypersexual or a mixture of both.

[borderlinereminders]

Every single person in this world has at some point made a mistake, likely embarrassed themselves, and likely done something they wish they could change.

Try not to dwell on these things. You can learn and grow from them. You can fix them when you can. You can take accountability where it's needed. But try not to get stuck in these things.

We're all human, and part of that means we're all imperfect.

[traumasurvivors]

I think anger gets a bad reputation in trauma spaces a lot of the time.

People will say things like, "Holding onto anger isn't healthy," and I understand what they're trying to say. If years go by and anger is the only place you're able to live, it can absolutely keep you stuck.

But I also think there's a difference between staying angry forever and allowing yourself to be angry while you're healing.

For a lot of survivors, anger is actually an important part of recovery. It can be the moment you stop blaming yourself. The moment you stop minimizing what happened. The moment you realize that you deserved better.

Many of us spent years making excuses for the people who hurt us. We focused on their trauma, their intentions, their struggles, and their pain. We understood them so well that we forgot to make room for our own feelings.

Sometimes anger is what creates that space.

That doesn't mean anger should be taken out on other people. It doesn't mean every angry reaction is healthy. But the feeling itself isn't automatically a problem.

Sometimes anger is simply grief with boundaries.

Sometimes it's self-respect showing up for the first time.

And sometimes it's a necessary step on the way to healing.

[traumasurvivors]

What I have to remember is that I deserve to heal. I deserve to get better. I deserve to wake up one day, and not be overwhelmed by all the pain in my life. 

I deserve good things. I deserve love. 

I deserve it all and so I am going to make it all happen. 

[borderlinereminders]

Find me on: Instagram | Facebook

[suggestionsofkindness]

Important announcement: You will make it through this, there are so many good things waiting for you. It’s okay if the fight makes you tired, and it is okay to rest, but keep fighting. You got this. You hold so much power in you, some of it hasn’t even awoken, yet. 🌸

[scorpionsandhoney]

happy birthday weed I love u

[pallanophblargh]

I’m furious with what is happening here. None of this is ok. The Gestapo thugs are endangering us in every imaginable way, but we still have our humanity.

If I can find the energy I’d love to make a Linocut out of this once I get it cleaned up.

Get the fuck out of our state, fascists!

[liberalsarecool]

MAGA is attacking a thriving Blue State.

The rapist is abusing another innocent victim.