Lady Lazarus

I listened to the old brag of my heart: I am, I am, I am. Stacie. 35. She/her. Sagittarius. Librarian. Eh.

[allforminyard]

andrew and neil + the importance of give and take

all for the game // the sunshine court by nora sakavic

[lisartworks]

Andreil

bus nap 🫶🏻

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[psychotic-gerard]

is this the tumblr blog you’re currently on you first joined tumblr with?

yes, it is.

no, it is a side-blog of it.

no, it’s a different main blog.

no, it’s a different side-blog to a different main blog.

i am not a tumblr user.

Voting ended onApr 25, 2024

Please reblog for greater sample size <3

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Sharon Olds

[stuckinapril]

“you should be at the club” Brother I should literally be sent to the seaside for my health

[luppiart]

I don’t know I felt like I needed to draw a kiss after listening to this 

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[comicaurora]

girl help I'm getting they/them'd by well-meaning people who don't know what a tomboy is

[comicaurora]

This feeling is strange and complicated. On the one hand it's legit quite cool that nonbinary pronouns are becoming more widespread! On the other, I've spent my whole life pursuing interests and hobbies and ideals that weren't seen as particularly feminine, and when I was younger this was a major source of bullying and stress alongside some generalized misogyny taking the form of "you can't do or be anything you think is cool because you are innately inferior and to do otherwise means violating your nature," and it took me a while to conclude that this was just straight horseshit top to bottom and I could do whatever I wanted and present myself however I wanted without in any way being Not A Girl, and now it's like the exact same concept has flipped sides and is coming from a point of theoretical validation but still calculates out to "that's not very ladylike of you, you must be something else". anyway she/her thanks gang

[comicaurora]

I think it's like. the understanding that the gender binary is a small part of a much wider space of identities is separate from the understanding that a lot of that gender binary is a false dichotomy that artificially walls off universal human experiences behind specific pronouns and while the first concept is gaining wider understanding the second is lagging a little, which means "I am a girl and I like doing boy things" reads as "oh I've heard about this, you must be one of the Others who don't do the binary" rather than "the concept of 'boy things' is stupid from the jump"

[comicaurora]

just to be 100% clear

what this post is NOT talking about: using they/them pronouns for someone you don't know, aren't sure of, hasn't had a chance to introduce themselves, etc.

what this post IS talking about: my highly personal experience seeing some people "correcting" my commenters that were using she/her pronouns for me, because, despite me exclusively using she/her pronouns and saying so whenever asked, through no action of mine they had gotten the idea that I was using "they/them".

[comicaurora]

girl help I put a nuanced personal experience on the reading comprehension website

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[gwydionmisha]

A real thing that happened is me as a teenager.

I had what turned out to be a dangerous walking pneumonia, for a week, but the manager at Burger King wouldn’t let me off.  My breathing was very loud and ragged.  I was coughing on and breathing on the food.

I wasn’t allowed to leave.  I was told if i called out, I was fired.

So Im shuffling around wheezing loudly swaying with my high fever as I work drive thru by myself, and a paramedic walked in to order dinner.

He goes ballistic, My friends.  He demands to see the Manager.  he chews him out at the top of his lungs so the whole restaurant can here.  Guys working the back came up to watch.  Customers staring and thinking hard about the infectious food they were eating.  Dude losing his shit about how infectious I was and all the people management had been endangering for days judging from my breathing and I needed to be home on antibiotics RIGHT NOW and the health Department was going to hear about this.

I went home.  i got the week off.  Didn’t even need a doctor’s note.

Getting friends management doesn’t know to do this WOULD WORK.

Same manager not letting me take my influenza home a year later  despite repeated vomiting?  Threw up in front of customers.  Customers demanded money back and started threatening the manager with lawsuits.

I got to go home and got time off until I stopped vomitting.

GO AHEAD and THROW UP in front of Customers.  THEY will Complain.

Don’t be shy.  

They are supposed to let you stay home when you are sick.  Stop protecting management. (Hiding how sick you are protects management).  They are abusing you.  Let them reap what they sow.

[sheerpoetry7]

Yeah, when I was working at the hotel, I totally threw up on the desk in front of a customer and while on the phone with another.

The manager--who lived upstairs--refused to come down and work the desk until someone else got there so I could leave. I was so sick that I had to get someone to come pick me up.

People who perpetuate the "I never missed a day of work!" thing are *clenches fist*. You should be able to stay home when you're sick. You should be able to take your vacation time without feeling guilty. You should not have to find shift coverage yourself. Fuck America on this one and so much else, honestly.

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[sheerpoetry7]

I would like to also nominate basically any pain or health problems women have ever.

"I’ve often found it curious that when a woman is suffering, her competence is questioned, but when a man is suffering, he’s humanized." -Abby Norman, Ask Me About My Uterus

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Now I can't stop thinking about Andrew in a compression shirt

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