Please let me rant on something.
I know it's wasn't my place to said it but I had being years doing babysitting so I know what the best in parenting.
Yes I'm still single but had experience in rising a kids.
Most parents in the modern age prefer let other people to care their kids when their busy with their careers. But some chose to be stay at home parents aka housewife or househusband.
But honestly mostly busy or glued their eyes on their phone 📱 from watching the surrounding or their kids. Yes there a babysitter nearby, yet your eyes needed to on your kids not your bloody phone.
Some get the nerves to blame the babysitter, when breaking off fight with fellow kids. Unless we had taken an action while you just see it and doing nothing.
If you babysit someone else children is still ok but babysitting your own relative aka own flesh and blood. We watched it for free without any payments, unless we babysit other people kids had payment. Not a single dime, the Entitlement even worse. When your kids aka my nephew show no responsive and wanted to get close. I had no idea what lies my own brother tells on his kids.
I had to accept when I growing up in a super toxic household. The Entitlement at fuck af.
Dont talk about work. You never once work after graduating from University, while I had works many times of work when I graduated from college. You had the nerves to comment and critique my works, when you NEVER work even once. You waste my parents money in stereo for your car which end up being sold with less money.
Investment not 100% success all the time and you never lift a finger to any chores at home. Most I handle it myself due my parents getting old. Yes it's kinda shocking I still living in the same roof, that is our culture in South East Asia. Even its toxic af plus the BS belief we had here. That's is life even its worsen our mental health, that responsibility I needed to held even by force.
Volunteer work wasn't a work too. I had enough of the bullshit. Yes you are young parent plus you 100% indepent from your wife because she is working while you are not. Hello your certificate had more value from my diploma, how come you never looking for work then?
Your acting can't fools me, yes you able to fool our parents and your in law. I as your brother can see all your bullshit. My mental health all affected because of you growing up. From attention to love. Whose spoiled brat for the first place.
Honestly we never had a good relationship as siblings for the first place. Yes I still keep all the vengeance, being wrongly being accused on something I never done. Your story and lies never affected me.
Now you had the nerves to comment on my parenting and babysitting. You never once care or even wanted to know. I had seen you hit the kids we babysit until it's swelled up. Thank goodness, we aren't being sued because it's our source of income.
Living under 1 same roof and buying your own groceries wasn't helpful at all. Bills needed to pay too. My mom never had the nerves to ask to pay for babysit your kids.
Sorry my long ranting. I hate to show my emotions or share to anyone because I had non that I care or trust. Sorry I had a trust issue due to my toxic household. I needed a place to rant it all.
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