before I start off this post, this is no hate to anybody or to the fandom itself, this is merely my opinion.
While I love this fandom as a whole, a concern I do have with the tsc fandom is that we are extremely impulsive and stubborn and tend to blow things out of proportion, as well as a failure to be realistic. A great example of this is when Cassie first announced Ty would not be getting as many POVās tlkof as Dru and Kit- the backlash was insane. People were hating on Cassie, calling her ableist and when someone tried to defend her or provide another perspective, it was not handled well. Barely anyone even wondered if maybe Cassie had done this because the narrative required it, and maybe thereās a good reason. No, people started saying how Ty was now going to get no POVās at all, despite Cassie never saying that. Nobody considered later books, and Cassie had to repeat herself many times so that it could get through our heads. For a fandom who is majority older teens and adults, this was heavily disappointing.
An instance of lack of being realistic is (yes this is pointed, no Iām not sorry) the people who constantly insist Livvy should be brought back and try to use Jace and Jesse as evidence despite the situations being completely different, and then refusing to listen to reason. I understand people who say they wish Livvy hadnāt died or could be brought back but understand that itās not realistic, but it has gone too far if you ask me.
Another issue I am consistently seeing is lack of flexibility in our opinions. People are allowed to have different opinions than you- it does not make them a horrible person (unless the opinion is like āomg ty should be straight instead of gay if so then GET OUT-ā) but one of the things fandoms are for is debating stuff in safe places where people are familiar with the topic! Just because someone has an opinion you dislike, doesnāt mean you have to go crazy over it- just ignore it or CALMLY and RESPECTFULLY provide your own perspective. This is especially relevant with fan favourites (Will, Magnus, Alec, Ty). Your favourite chatacters are allowed to have flaws and be critiqued. It does not make them a bad character, and the person critiquing them a bad person.
I really hope all of you understand where Iām coming from- I really love tsc but sometimes the fandom can be insufferable, and itās one of the reasons Iām going to avoid any content about tsc for around a week after the release, out of pure fear that people will not understand that no, this book will not be like your fantasies, and you need to accept that.
Iām going to sound like a middle school teacher for this, but remember, this is an online space that is meant to be SAFE for EVERYONE. Think before you post, and donāt get so swept up in your emotions you fail to listen to logic.
Thanks for listening to my rant!