there are a lot of similar experiences between being nonbinary and being an atheist, mostly being forced into conversations where you have to be 100% polite and respectful of the other person’s worldview even though to you it sounds like absolute cuckoo bananas, and then they look you in the eyes and go ‘you’re fucking cuckoo bananas’
i do actually respect and like both people with genders and religious people. sometimes i don’t understand things but we are all so wildly different and i have seen gender and religion bring light and joy into people’s lives, and i love that they mean those things for other people. i will probably never actually ‘get’ it but i don’t have to…. i know how to mind my business
HOWEVER this same energy is very RARELY returned to ME!!!!!!
oh definitely that as well! 🤝






















