hi.

I post too many text posts so I made a separate blog

[someonetookmyurll]

I was laying on our sex swing taking bong rips and asked my partner if he could tie/bound me in any position to fuck me in- what would it be? He quietly got up, walked in the bedroom, and came back with restraints and a few paddles to show me🥰 it was a fun ritual for our halloween/anniversary.

Living this bdsm lifestyle and working in the scene together has been super fun because even years in we’re still learning about each other constantly.

[jinricosm]

ghibli details

〻꩜ #jinricosm !! ｡˚

[someonetookmyurll]

If you’re constantly comparing your partner to your ex’s and thinking they’ll leave you- they probably will. Not because you knew and saw it coming, but because you literally manifested it. With every combative statement and projection of your own traumas thrown after another..

My ex towards the end of our relationship would constantly tell me that I was going to meet someone new and fall in love and that he would move in with me and eventually I would forget all about him, and in the end he turned out to be right.

I didn’t have to manifest a better partner- he did that for me everytime he threw it out there into the world. Everytime he jabbed at me and projected his own shit onto me, I stood a little bit taller knowing I deserved better and that it was his projection and trauma, and not mine to hold and carry for him.

You see people can only hold so much. It doesn’t matter how much you meditate, say affirmations, do your shadow work, alchemize your life, and everything else. At the end of the day we’re all simply human, and having another constantly project onto you will take a toll. If not in your relationship, then in your health, happiness, work, and every other way it can possibly manifest until you regain control.

So slow down, and think long and hard what you truly value and want in life. If you’re not careful, it might just slip away..

[someonetookmyurll]

I love our friends!

I was super stressed this morning when I received a chaotic group chat saying how someone messed up and didn’t get us enough WAPs for burning man coming up🙄

I immediately told Tony while he was on the phone with one of our friends- the man he was talking to just happens to be the other founder of a burning man village that Tony used to help run though. He told us not to worry and he’ll add us to his and just like that we can show up the Wednesday before and skip the line. He also locked us in so now we can have our own camp instead. We had already been talking about doing it next year; so this just bumped it up a bit quicker plus it’ll bypass all this nonsense from here and out🙏🏻💖

Yay for solutions and source throwing us opportunities to level ourselves up like we’ve been saying! This could of been a bigger headache, but instead an anxiety filled text allowed Tony and I to pivot into a better reality of life.

[someonetookmyurll]

I told my partner I can’t handle his clients that support overturning roe v. wade and all of this shit in my home anymore and that I can’t pretend to care about someone who truly believes our daughter and I don’t deserve basic human rights as they ask me for a second cup of tea when I never offered the first🙃

He said okay instantly and told me he understands and that he’ll meet them at the local coffee shop instead and it was that simple.

Like I don’t have a bunch of rules - but don’t invite shitheads into the sanctuary.

[theivorybilledwoodpecker]

Planned Parenthood provides affordable sexual and reproductive health care to millions of people. Get the care you need, no matter what.

Bans Off Our Bodies

BREAKING: The Supreme Court has taken away our right to abortion and overturned Roe v. Wade, opening the floodgates for states across the co

[luulapants]

stop feeling hopeless, start getting ready

If you are in a red state, your state either has an abortion ban in place or is rated by the Guttmacher Institute as likely to enact a ban. Your focus should be on protecting yourself and others who need abortions.

stop using electronic period tracking apps or software

educate yourself and others about pregnancy prevention and join groups that are making preventative birth control more accessible

learn the nearest and most accessible routes to states where you and your loved ones can access abortion

contribute to mutual aid funds to help transport people over state lines if they are in need of abortion

consider joining The Satanic Temple so you can claim protections under the Religious Abortion Ritual if you are prosecuted for obtaining an abortion

keep a stock of by-mail abortion pills for yourself and/or others who may need them (you may need to travel out of state to obtain them)

form community provider networks and see if you or someone you know can be trained to use manual vacuum aspiration kits or a Del-Em

all of the above should be done in complete secrecy using verbal communication, end-to-end encrypted apps such as Signal, or a VPN

If you are in a yellow state, you currently have constitutional abortion protections but they are in jeopardy. Get active in local political groups NOW to fight back against constitutional amendments to ban abortion. Your focus should be purely on political action.

If you are in Michigan, you currently have a ban in place which is being challenged, and your governor is working to add abortion protections into the Michigan state constitution. Your focus should be on supporting the work that is currently under way.

If you are in a green state, your state has constitutional protections for abortion that are unlikely to be challenged. Your focus should be on helping others to enter your state for abortion care.

connect with abortion access groups such as Aid Access, Abortion on Demand, the National Network of Abortion Funds, or Just The Pill

volunteer to help people enter your state for abortion care, either with transportation help or letting someone crash on your couch

if you live in a green state with no current or predicted primary routes from other states for abortion access, you can focus your efforts on supporting political action in other areas

If you are in a purple state, your state currently has no constitutional protections for abortion but is unlikely to implement a ban. You have two focuses: pushing for constitutional protections AND helping others to enter your state for abortion care (see green state list).

[lusilly]

if u are in the state of california, or can get to the state of california, you can get abortion on demand for absolutely free by doing this

go to a hospital listed under the "qualified provider" list here: https://www.dhcs.ca.gov/services/medi-cal/eligibility/Pages/HospitalPE.aspx

ask for HPE

no information needs to be verified. you can lie and you will not get in any trouble, EVER. say your income is less than $1k a month. you do not need to give a SSN but do not comment on your immigration status. i recommend you don't mention you're pregnant even if you are, but if you do tell them you're pregnant, you'll still be able to access abortion care (it's just that it limits other non-abortion services available to you - it's complicated). if you're just visiting california, say that you're a resident (NOT visiting). give an in-state home address. (this will not be verified. give any address as long as it's in-state. could be a hotel or a liquor store or anything)

you will get immediate medi-cal coverage for the rest of the month you're in and the month following. (for example, if you applied today, june 24, you would get coverage from today to july 31).

note that this is fee for service medi-cal. this means you are not enrolled in a managed care plan

find a fee for service provider who provides abortions (check your county website, but you can also refer here: https://data.ca.gov/dataset/enrolled-medi-cal-fee-for-service-provider). most planned parenthood locations accept fee for service medi-cal, but check before you go

if you run out of time (i highly recommend you know EXACTLY where you're going to go and verify that you can get an appointment within 60 days before you get coverage at a hospital), it is possible to get coverage again through this process by using a DIFFERENT NAME AND DOB. that is crucial. you will be denied if you don't. **note: if the hospital, or the provider afterwards, asks for your ID to verify name and dob, tell them you don't have one. they are required to go to "reasonable efforts" to verify that you're the person you say you are, but they cannot deny you service for not having an ID.**

just be sure that whatever name and DOB is on your eligibility document (the hospital will give this to you when you apply), that is the name and DOB you give the provider

i know this isn't super helpful as californians are not the ones at risk here; but if someone from out of state can get to california, then you can get an abortion without having to pay for it

[lusilly]

california has also already passed a bill to protect providers and patients who come from out of state seeking an abortion in california. it is an abortion "sanctuary state" law.

[guyparadise]

[someonetookmyurll]

I really love my life tbh.

Like I’m beyond grateful and motivated each day I wake up. My thoughts stay positive all day long regardless of the outside world. I truly love myself (mind, body, & spirit.) And I have an amazing partner and kids that make it all worth it.🙃🌈💖

[mxrbidslvt]

[draculasdaughter]

Fangoria (May, 2000)

[someonetookmyurll]

When you tell your partner about your bottom growth and how between that and getting your belly button removed it was one of the most gender affirming things in your life, and then they get really hyped for you and show a ton of support😭💖🙏🏻

[07heart]

being vulnerable enough to tell people how much you care about them is infinitely more brave than pretending to be above love and using edginess as a method of self-preservation

[mo0ndrool]

imagine everything in life blossoming for you, suddenly and all at once

[only-tiktoks]

[anais-ninja-bitch]

unmute

[cipheramnesia]

You only need to know one thing: meow.

[6balls]

i witnessed the most fascinating thing today imo…my 4th grade art class were talking while they did their work and one of them was like “if you work hard all your life…….it means NOTHING” and their response was to all crack up and start running with this bit like. “you work all your life on an oil painting. the mayor comes in. he says ‘i didn’t even ask you to do that painting.’” they kept going giving examples of nothing mattering and laughing hysterically. they’re 9. like, we think OUR humor is depressing or w/e, how are THEY going to be

[certified-p0ser]

Millennials are depressed but the Gen Z kids are straight up nihilists