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@spiralofnostalgia
In your 20s, you'll feel like you're losing the race. It's important to understand that there is no race.
Someone's on the door and I hope it's not grief.
You never make peace with grief. You never accept it. It doesn't go away, neither does it decrease with time.
The grief just chooses to sit in some deep corners of your heart, knocking at your door, softly, murmuring sweet words until you open the door and let it consume you on a random day, on a windy morning, or a bright afternoon or a quiet evening.
It scratches the wounds you thought were deep disappeared into your skin and you thought "Wow, look how it has healed."
I read that grief is a spiral staircase, but it is also a pendulum. It comes back and forth. With the same intensity, maybe even more. You don't get used to it.
You don't accept it. You just stand there amidst it all, wondering if this is what it's supposed to be like.
Grief is also a bouquet of flowers made at the shop as a lover's gift but instead it is brought by an old man for his dead wife's grave.
Grief is also that one sticker you never used cause "I'll use it on something nicer" but the nicer never came and the sticker faded away into nothingness.
Grief is me, existing.
Grief is us, choosing to let it consume us until we find a purpose to get out of bed and open the door cause someone was knocking.
Who was knocking?
Probably, grief again.
I've confided in my friends, my female friends. They make home away from home — possible, warm and loving. I look upto spending days with them, outings, crafts, hobbies, random gossips, studies, discussions and I kid you not I don't get tired. I think this is the "epitome" of friendship. You find yourself genuine friends, you be with them, you talk to them, you feel like a sunflower.
Why? Cause you know when the clouds covers the sun, one sunflower would turn to the other and be like — "bro, you're my sun." EXACTLY. THAT.
– Audrey Hepburn
Thewizardliz sayings to remember and repeat
It's about you; you are the main character of your life.
Sometimes you need to get uncomfortable to get comfortable.
People who get angry at you for putting yourself first are the same people who benefit from you putting yourself last
You are allowed to say, "Nah, that's not good enough."
Stop wasting energy that you can use to become your best version.
Becoming selfish is the best thing I ever did.
I can make myself fulfilled, and whatever he gives me is just an extra.
Start now with what you have.
Enough crying, enough being sad, enough saying "tomorrow".
Sometimes you lose people that are not meant to be with the highest version of yourself, and you have to let those people go.
You vs. you, honey.
Some people just don't deserve you. Not mentally, physically or spiritually.
I don't argue with people because most of them are stupid.
People don't really care what happened to you or what you went through. They really care about what you can do for them.
Only here to impress myself.
When a Queen does not like her situation, she plans her exit.
Manifesting is a lifestyle.
The best revenge is creating a better life for yourself.
I started prioritising my own needs and wants; whatever I want goes first. That's it; I do not care anymore.
I could honestly go on forever since Liz has so many great things to say, so let me know in the comments if I should make a part 2! <3
✩‧₊*:・love ya ・:*₊‧✩
How To Become A Brand New Person ✨✨
Self Reflect:
Journal daily.
Think about past decisions and how they impacted your life.
Meditate regularly.
Create a vision board to visualize your goals.
Review your strengths and weaknesses.
Identify your core values and beliefs.
Figure out your passions and interests.
Think about your childhood dreams and aspirations.
Evaluate your current state of happiness and fulfillment.
Set Clear Goals:
Define specific career goals, like "Get promoted within two years."
Set health goals, like "Lose 20 pounds in six months."
Create financial goals such as "Save $10,000 for a vacation."
Establish personal development goals, like "Read 24 books in a year."
Set relationship goals, such as "Improve communication with my partner."
Define education goals, like "Complete a master's degree in three years."
Set travel goals, like "Visit five new countries in the next two years."
Create hobbies and interests goals, such as "Learn to play a musical instrument."
Set community or volunteer goals, like "Volunteer 100 hours this year."
Establish mindfulness or self-care goals, such as "Practice meditation daily."
Self Care:
Exercise for at least 30 minutes a day.
Follow a balanced diet with plenty of fruits and vegetables.
Prioritize getting 7-9 hours of quality sleep each night.
Practice in relaxation techniques like deep breathing or yoga.
Take regular breaks at work to avoid burnout.
Schedule "me time" for activities you enjoy.
Limit exposure to stressors and toxic people.
Practice regular skincare and grooming routines.
Seek regular medical check-ups and screenings.
Stay hydrated by drinking enough water daily.
Personal Development:
Read a book every month from various genres.
Attend workshops or seminars on topics of interest.
Learn a new language or musical instrument.
Take online courses to acquire new skills.
Set aside time for daily reflection and self improvement.
Seek a mentor in your field for guidance.
Attend conferences and networking events.
Start a side project or hobby to expand your abilities.
Practice public speaking or communication skills.
Do creative activities like painting, writing, or photography.
Create a Support System:
Build a close knit group of friends who uplift and inspire you.
Join clubs or organizations aligned with your interests.
Connect with a mentor or life coach.
Attend family gatherings to maintain bonds.
Be open and honest in your communication with loved ones.
Seek advice from trusted colleagues or supervisors.
Attend support groups for specific challenges (e.g., addiction recovery).
Cultivate online connections through social media.
Find a therapist or counselor for emotional support.
Participate in community or volunteer activities to meet like minded people.
Change Habits:
Cut back on sugary or processed foods.
Reduce screen time and increase physical activity.
Practice gratitude by keeping a daily journal.
Manage stress through mindfulness meditation.
Limit procrastination by setting specific deadlines.
Reduce negative self-talk by practicing self-compassion.
Establish a regular exercise routine.
Create a budget and stick to it.
Develop a morning and evening routine for consistency.
Overcome Fear and Self Doubt:
Face a specific fear head-on (example: public speaking).
Challenge your negative thoughts with positive affirmations.
Seek therapy to address underlying fears or traumas.
Take small, calculated risks to build confidence.
Visualize success in challenging situations.
Surround yourself with supportive and encouraging people.
Journal about your fears and doubts to gain clarity.
Celebrate your accomplishments, no matter how small.
Focus on your strengths and accomplishments.
Embrace failure as a valuable learning experience.
Embrace Change:
Relocate to a new city or country.
Switch careers or industries to pursue your passion.
Take on leadership roles in your workplace.
Volunteer for projects outside your comfort zone.
Embrace new technologies and digital tools.
Travel to unfamiliar destinations.
Start a new hobby or creative endeavor.
Change your daily routine to add variety.
Adjust your mindset to see change as an opportunity.
Seek out diverse perspectives and viewpoints.
Practice Gratitude:
Write down three things you're grateful for each day.
Express gratitude to loved ones regularly.
Create a gratitude jar and add notes of appreciation.
Reflect on the positive aspects of challenging situations.
Show gratitude by volunteering or helping others in need.
Send thank-you notes or messages to people who've helped you.
Keep a gratitude journal and review it regularly.
Share your gratitude openly during family meals or gatherings.
Focus on the present moment and appreciate the little things.
Practice gratitude even in times of adversity.
Be Patient:
Set realistic expectations for your progress.
Accept that personal growth takes time.
Focus on the journey rather than the destination.
Learn from setbacks and view them as opportunities to improve.
Celebrate small milestones along the way.
Practice self-compassion during challenging times.
Stay committed to your goals, even when progress is slow.
Keep a journal to track your personal growth.
Recognize that patience is a valuable skill in personal transformation.
Celebrate Small Wins:
Treat yourself to your favorite meal or dessert.
Reward yourself with a spa day or self-care activity.
Share your achievements with friends and loved ones.
Create a vision board to visualize your successes.
Acknowledge and congratulate yourself in a journal.
Give yourself permission to take a break and relax.
Display reminders of your accomplishments in your workspace.
Take a day off to celebrate a major milestone.
Host a small gathering to mark your achievements.
Set aside time to reflect on how far you've come.
Maintain Balance:
Set clear boundaries in your personal and work life.
Prioritize self care activities in your daily routine.
Schedule regular breaks and downtime.
Learn to say "no" when necessary to avoid overcommitment.
Evaluate your work life balance regularly.
Seek support from friends and family to avoid burnout.
Be kind to yourself and accept imperfections.
Practice mindfulness to stay present and grounded.
Revisit your priorities and adjust them as needed.
Embrace self love and self acceptance as part of your daily life.
a girl gets her heart broken in 89 different ways every single day and then goes on tumblr to reblog snoopy pictures
do you ever laugh with your friends and think oh this is the point. this is the point of everything
this is genuinely exactly how i strive to be
Everything you’re worried about is going to turn out okay.
“Sometimes all you can do is lie in bed and hope to fall asleep before you fall apart.”
— William C. Hannan
“Let it hurt. Let it bleed. Let it heal. And let it go.”
— Nikita Gill
Ever had that time in life when nothing was wrong yet everything was wrong. When all your favourite hobbies are no more your escape, when music albums are crashing into flashbacks and all you want to do is to lie down and let those streams come down your eyes.
It's getting bad again. I have tried everything, maybe it's me who isn't deserving. Maybe it's just me who's unlovable. Who's at fault everytime. I keep trying, giving my best in every bond I ever get onto only for it to break apart pulling the threads of my sanity to the verge of breaking. I crash, the shards of my tears scratching the beautiful walls of my memories while all I do is stare at it, being destroyed.
To breathe, to get up every single day, to face the people with hearty eyes while the blades of lost people go on scarring my magical box of happiness, I can just pretend. Pretend that I'm fine, that nothing's falling apart, that the bricks I used to build a home are still intact but in reality — I'm homeless. I've turned my dearest into homes, only for them to break apart the doors and windows, plucking my garden of efforts like it was never there.
Maybe it's just me. Maybe I deserve this. Maybe this is how it's meant to be. Maybe, this is exactly what was meant for me. But I hope, maybe I'll be able to sow those seeds again, maybe I'll build a home not for the dearest but only for me. Just for me, one day, maybe.
Maybe I'll get to run over blades of green grasses and not the lost people, maybe I'll get to see life again, calm, beautiful and worth giving a try to. Maybe. I hope this “maybe” turns into a blissful truth, for me, for you and for all of us.
[Sending love]
Feeling a burst of emotions yet nothing. Too many thoughts yet everything seems empty. So much to say, yet no words are right at the moment.
You end up doing everything for them, you go on giving the world your sunshine, yet what do you receive back? They leave. One or the other day, they do. It's not their betrayal, maybe that's just what the stars have planned for you. You hold onto yourself to not text first, to not make the first effort again. Why does it always have to be you? Why can't you sit and expect someone to make the first effort too? Why do you think it's selfish to expect for once in your life that you want to be seen and understood too?
Hear me out, my love. You do matter. This is not the end. There will be a day when you will look back and thank yourself for not giving up. There will be a time when you will be smiling, genuinely, being with sunshine energy without bothering if they will betray you again. You will live and breathe again. Hang in there. Hold onto it a little longer. It will be okay, one day, someday. It will be.
“I promise you nothing is as chaotic as it seems. Nothing is worth your health. Nothing is worth poisoning yourself into stress, anxiety and fear.”
— Steve Maraboli
lying on the floor. well everything will be okay in the end i think
standing up again. everythings shit garbage for real
as much as i understand people, i want to be understood, too