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“Well, you know, psychology is a very soft science. That’s putting it at its most charitable light. What one observes about human behavior, human consciousness, human relationships is so embedded … what we observe and how we conceptualize what we observe is so embedded in the context of what we’re looking for. And how we name it. This isn’t physics. So that even the paying of attention, the selection of what it is that we’re going to consider interesting and significant in human behavior is formed by the social and political context that we’re embedded in. And I think that’s particularly true about the emotions related to power and control, the emotions related to one’s place in society, one’s place in the family, the emotions of shame, of resentment, of pride, of a sense of legitimacy or illegitimacy. So, even to pay attention to what women say about sex, motherhood, relationships, depends so much on what one thinks a woman ought to be saying, ought to be feeling, on what is legitimate to express. Unless you have a political movement that says, “Forget what everybody else thinks you ought to be feeling, what you ought to be saying. Get down to it. Tell the truth. What did you actually think and feel and notice in your body.” You need a safe space to be able to do that. You need a political context to be able to do that.”

— Judith Herman, The case of trauma and recovery: conversation with Judith Herman MD

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lesbianrey

there’s just so much about the stress of living as a woman thats hard to explain to men beyond just like, the most explicit and overt sexism/misogyny. its like this tightly wound ball of all these behaviors and expectations and mannerisms that even most women are not consciously aware of half of them. you just get the feeling that something is not right, like it’s unfair. but you can’t explain why because it’s never simply just one thing or action done by another person- it’s that your whole life has always felt this way because the systematic dehumanization of women is so deeply insidious and invisible.

watermelinoe

i think it's fine if women have an inflated view of their own intelligence bc the average man with slightly more brain function than a jellyfish thinks of himself as a tortured genius

radioactivewisdomreactivated

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This is foreplay for heterosexuals. Women and males enjoy stimulating each other negatively. Such strong reactions make them feel desirable, it's a reminder that their compulsive drive to populate overrides their enduring disdain. Women and men are incapable of fulfilling each other's "needs," because they're both ego driven sex addicted black holes. Hetslop content is nothing more than a proverbial shouting match, with both sides hoping to have their way.

infinitedonut

“Peace of mind arrives the moment you come to peace with the contents of your mind.” - Rasheed Ogunlaru

viviennelamb

The denial of Karma is killing y'all lol. It's totally understandable to not believe in things you have to buy to physically obtain to engage in i.e tarot cards & crystals.

I also totally get that Karma seems like it's always "gonna happen soon," but Karma is immediate.

The fact that almost everybody is literally describing how horrible to world is in detail while denying Karma is a sign of non-presence and y'all will continue to suffer until you come to terms with reality.

Until you stop blaming a definitive group for the source of all your problems instead of yourself, cause everybody loves sex, wine and drugs more than they love a clean brain, then the world will remain the way it is.

Spirituality is real - more real then what the made up "reality" you think you're experiencing. The unseen is the cause, you're the effect.

If you're miserable, that means you have done something to reach this present moment of misery because that's Karma you must pay for.

I'm talking about real sacrifice to obtain what you want right Now.

Don't you think hoarding bodies on a commune would've worked by now? You need a different strategy.

Once these individuals come down form the high of chasing a goal, they're going to want the opposite.

Then they're going to start thinking of ways to reform separatism so it includes beasts. This typically takes a generation or two, and everything that the foremothers created was destroyed by their very own.

This is a result of a filthy mind.

If you don't have stringent standards of purity in place, none of the customs will remain in place. This happens time and time again.

This life really is a Game and absolutely everything starts with your mind, which is the unseen. If you don't believe that your own thoughts exist, there's no hope for you in this lifetime.

The best strategy is to kill all defects within humanity to ensure perfection. The best way to do this is to kill all defects within yourself first.

Evil people will never create anything good. It doesn't matter how good they think they are or the sweet-sounding words they use.

You either have the results in yourself first or you don't and almost nobody has the results they're talking about. It's always far out into a "future."

For me, somebody needs to show me a track record of never having a boyfriend, let alone married to a male, before I listen to anything they say on this subject.

There are so many grifters with ex-husbands, or are even actively married, and once again, the people who are the living examples of what your supposed movements wants are ignored because male-worship is always the agenda of the day in some manner...

whether it's an actual male being promoted by them or a female who has idolized him at some point. These people just want your money because they're empty inside. Notice how sexual they are too.

They're al overt occultists boast about pimping women, abusing drugs and are obsessed with sex, but have the nerve to talk to you about "reality."

Only an absolutely pure mind and body matters.

What were seeing now is the beginning of mass horror.

Everybody is running and hiding from Karma's Wrath just as biblically predicted.

There's nowhere to go because you'll be there, but good luck.

Separatism and 4b on a large scale won't work because your minds are weak.

When you see those so-called "women" in their animalistic state, you'll be calling for yet another separation until you realize that there is no salvation in a deluded and fearful Ego.

But it's good that it won't work because you'll be one step closer to reality that there's nothing to look forward to in hell but your individual bliss.

When you clean your mind, that radiates to others. When you talk about it, it strengthens. When you one-pointedly dedicate your life to purity, you become the pinnacle of holiness.

If you have "cheat days" or "lazy days" you only fuck yourself up and you will lose momentum then decide it "never worked."

Before you have the privilege of allowing God to keep physical filth away from you, you must separate your mind from depravity.

The test for its success lies in your ability to separate yourself from depravity in thought first because the physical manifestation of depravity is man.

Man didn't come "out of nowhere" for "no reason." They're your lesson and the longer you deny this, the more you will die on repeat. If you keep fucking your lesson, he'll fuck you and your lineage 100x harder.

Oh, and if you don't reincarnate, where does your motivation to create change come from?

If you truly believed you wouldn't come back here, and this world is as bad as you say it is you'd just kill yourself and stay gone, but common sense isn't a strong suit of deniers of reality.

You're either born with this kind of Will or you work like hell to strengthen your Will.

And those who work to get it will understand that peace isn't a given nor is it something you ask for from others.

If you really know what Peace was, you'd sacrifice everything to obtain it, and most people aren't there yet. So they have to learn about the opposite of Peace: Terror.

iambrillyant

“there is nothing wrong with waiting for the answers to find you. sometimes rushing for clarity can lead you further from the truth and closer to unhappiness. just remember, when the answers knock on your door and find you, open your mind, quiet your ego, and listen.”

— billy chapata

perfectfeelings

“If you can’t do anything about it, then let it go. Don’t be a prisoner to things you can’t change.”

— Tony Gaskins

hibou088

Individualism

Women are capable and responsible for their own choices and lives. They do not need my pity or forced sympathy to move forward. They are not passive victims — they have the power to get back up, set their own boundaries, and change their reality. I am not responsible for their pain, nor am I obliged to carry their wounds. If most choose to remain in destructive situations, it is not my fault, and I will not feel guilty for their inaction. My indifference is not cruelty — it is a way to protect myself when my empathy is being used against me. I believe in individual strength, not collective identity. My self-worth doesn’t depend on playing the role of the empath for others. Everyone is responsible for their own healing and growth.

funeral

Being left to oneself is actually the most innate condition. Every single one of us is predetermined to die. Our being is a being-until-death. Death is a negation of who you are, but it is also that towards which you are always moving. Death individualizes. It is I myself who will die. No one can die my death for me . . . Death is my death, a moribundus sum that reveals itself to us as anxiety. Because death as such belongs to you alone, anxiety individualizes you and draws you back into yourself. [ . . . ] This withdrawal is also a condition where the bonds to all other people are torn asunder, and such tearing is a prerequisite for living in freedom, truth and actuality. [ . . . ] In solitude people come close to the essential in all things, close to the world and close to the self. It is only in solitude that you can become who you are.

Lars Svendsen, A Philosophy of Loneliness

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wetheurban

May you love yourself more than you love the idea of someone else choosing you.

and-a-sword-for-gideon

Amen! you are a beautiful creation and don't need a lover to be complete.

fematrix

every time a woman overexplains herself and makes a hundred disclaimers before criticising prostitution or objectification of women in media, just to prove that she's not, in fact, a prude or "sex-negative", a beautiful angel cries inconsolably

and-a-sword-for-gideon

your body is a beautiful temple! i will always stand behind those honoring themselves and standing for true liberation even when the whole world wants them to become objects.