todd howard your days are numbered

Its ya boi Gabe. 25, Ace aro, they/them, Australian. My art tag is #llama does the art thing; Exclusionists, transphobes and the like do not interact, yes that includes gender critical shit

[steampunk-llama]

Stimming

[funhouse-mirror-barbie]

Wind Waker Ganondorf is so funny to me like…

Nintendo really said “You may have some character depth and nuance. Once.”

[coco6420]

at what age does it start sounding wierd to call your baby "it" ?

[imjunebitch]

none. #it/itspronounsbaby #wokebaby #hellyeahwokebaby

[mossgirl]

[rabbitkinglune777]

i love fat tummies

[crabussy]

senior/elderly nonbinary people. I adore you and you make the world a better place. whether you've known for multiple decades or you just found out last year. thank you for just Being. so much love from me.

[crabussy]

GAUGEHAHAH????

[gobusto]

[doonies-da-dude]

Happy Pride Month to all LGBTQ+, especially my Transgender homies in these trying times.

[ravioliet]

yes i do ship those characters but i ship them in an infinitely more aroace way than you will ever be able to comprehend

[ravioliet]

they're not "dating" they're not "a couple" they're intrinsically connected and intertwined with each other for eternity. they're bound together like the stars. get with the program

[sickdollsys]

something that seriously pisses me off are those dumbass influencers making fairy bread but they make it wrong then say "it's the worst Australian food!!" It's so annoying bc they never even make it right?? Stop toasting it?? It's called fairy BREAD not fairy TOAST for a damn reason also it screams classism too since it started as a fun birthday party thing for poorer families from what I heard and there's no way it tastes bad, I feel it'd taste the same as those small store brought cakes which aren't bad and who tf toasts cake?? L8r imma make fairy bread THE RIGJT WAY BC THESE DUMBASSES CANT.

[thyrell]

why does every vulture look lesbian as hell

[thyrell]

like honestly im dead certain i saw this couple drinkin pabst at a potluck last week its not just me right

[phantomrose96]

*1am on a worknight voice* why is the Among Us show good

[phantomrose96]

*finished Among Us episode 1 voice* ........................why is it Good

[phantomrose96]

INFINITY TRAIN CREATOR????

[phantomrose96]

A M O G U S

[phantomrose96]

*1am on a different work night voice* *just finished all 10 episodes* ..............why was it good

[kingcrustacean]

I’ve grown a lot thanks to you

[sporesgalaxy]

puppy affirmations for normal dogs part 3

[android-spider]

:)

[smallrat36wagon-deactivated2021]

stupid fucking slut hour 

[snuv]

happy stupid fucking slut sunday

[crawfishcomic]

Self-control

[forestgreenandgray]

Hey do you know what rumination is?

Rumination is probably the most common type of OCD compulsion, but I rarely see anyone talking about it. I've talked to multiple people diagnosed with OCD who didn't even recognize it as a compulsion.

Basically, if you have OCD you have terrible intrusive thoughts. They can be about anything, but common themes are fear of being a bad person, fear of hurting someone, fear of contamination. etc.

Rumination is when you get stuck in a spiral. Rumination is when you spend hours catastrophizing, overthinking, analyzing, telling yourself it's going to be okay.

I'll say it again:

Rumination is a compulsion.

Rumination is a compulsion, and that means you have to stop doing it.

I did ERP (exposure response prevention) for my OCD with a therapist! For 9 months! And it did help, but the idea didn't really click until I found this website a couple years later.

And Oh My God. It made things make so much more sense, and I was able to pull myself out of an episode even though I wasn't in therapy or on meds at the time.

Genuinely if you have OCD, or even if you suspect you have OCD, I'm begging you to read some of these articles.

Like this was genuinely life changing for me.

Here are some of the ones that were most helpful to me:

Defining Rumination

How to Stop Ruminating

ERP Exercises for Compulsive Rumination

What to Do When You're Triggered

[tikkunolamorgtfo]

Just want to add that if you're on the spectrum, you may also experience Autistic Rumination, which is distinct from the obsessive variety, despite the two having some overlapping characteristics!

[peaches2217]

What she says: I’m fine

What she means: In Kung Fu Panda fanworks, Tigress is often portrayed as a violent, temperamental tomboy while Viper is portrayed as demure and polite and a full-blown girly-girl. However, canon shows that Tigress is actually calm and slow to anger unless something really agitates her (such as being passed up for a position she’s been training HER ENTIRE LIFE for in favor of a fanboy who struggles to even climb the stairs), and while her fighting style is aggressive and her personality is curt, her body language is often reserved and even traditionally feminine. Then there’s Viper, whose immediate response to the problem of a building full of cannons AND LIVING, BREATHING PEOPLE MANNING THEM is “We bring down the building!” with the most gleeful tone and the biggest smile on her face, and who canonically entered the world of kung fu because a giant warrior injured her father and her response was essentially “Square up, bitch.” She’s a sweetheart and a peacemaker, make no mistake, but this girl loves a good fight. There’s so much nuance to each character, but they’re often stripped down to “the tomboy and the girly-girl.” Why? In this essay I will