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welcome to my blog :33
expect a lot of random brainrot bc Tism but also a special interest in love & human interaction for extra spice
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kpop ults r ahof, epex, nct, and uhhh a lot // no1 jeongwoo, jaehee, yewang + kaede lover<3
currently watching universe league! (slowly)
orionsound obsessed since day one >< // massive MCC nerd // watching hc11!
my 2 week Sims 4 phase is so back
As a queer phannie for 10 years at this point, hearing Phil talk about how Shane and Ilya still weren’t safe to be affectionate in the empty stairwell of Shane’s own building because someone could hack into the cctv footage made me actually feel physically ill bc oh my god
I think that we as a society should get more comfortable with the idea that sometimes our friends will be attracted to us and sometimes we will be attracted to our friends and nothing needs to come of that.
You don't have to date. You don't have to stop being friends. You can just keep hanging out. Self control and respect exists.
And sometimes you will date your friend and figure out that your dynamic worked better when you were friends. And then you can go back to being friends. It's really quite simple. Mature and cool, even.
Even requited attraction doesn't need to be acted upon. Two people can be mutually attracted to each other and still decide not to date or not to change the dynamic of their friendship. People who are dating can mutually decide it worked better as a friendship, even if the attraction persists.
Feelings are just feelings. Not all feelings need to be realized as actions. It's very mature and cool to still treat people like people even after learning about their feelings, whatever they are.
what if we admitted to each other that it's not always really romance that we want. What if we admitted that what we're really craving is intimacy and society taught us romance is the only way to get it.
emotional intimacy in all types of relationships>>>
why do I love let love go so much? thank you for asking!!
it reflects my own experience of finally accepting that im aromantic. I held onto the alloromantic title until I couldn't hold it anymore and im so much happier now that im comfortable being aroace. I felt like if I accepted my aromanticism there would be nothing left for me but no. I feel so free and happy now.
i never find kpop songs that are aroace coded so when I do find them i get really attached (it helps that let love go is also just a good song)
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“Square” Lyrics Interpretation
Here to talk about Baek Yerin’s “Square” since this song and its lyrics hold a very special place in my heart. I really love the lyrics of this song for but i saw a youtube comment saying it was a bit off, so again I’m here to talk about it.
Let’s interpret this song as Yerin being in her own “Square” kind of like her being confined in her own bubble, this will be connected to my own explanation throughout the song and will give a clearer picture to what I’m talking about.
Throughout the verses Yerin explains how she has a very complex personality and the person she’s pertaining to in the song can sometimes hurt her without noticing and not sense right through how she truly was due to her complex personality sometimes being indecipherable.
For the last lines in each verse I’d like to think they are metaphors of how she feels, the last line in verse 1 “I’m so so broke like, someone just robbed me” is a metaphor to how she has no one that can understand her in a deeper level.
For verse 2 the last line is “Was so so strange like, someone never loved me” it is connected to the line before it which is “You are gripping me without noticing was so so strange like someone never loved me”. This is again, a metaphor (this part is a bit confusing to understand even for me) in which the person she pertains to in the song has a hold on her (I think the “grip” she mentioned also has something to do with love) to the point where she feels like no one has ever done this before.
The chorus is what the person is telling her everytimes she’s going through her phases/stages of being “Blue”. This part of the song is actually really cute and sweet for me, especially since the person actually knows what how to comfort Yerin when she’s going through such times.
The Bridge is the part that I truly love. This is the part where she embraces and acknowledges the person, even though the person still truly doesnt understand her it’s clear that they are trying their best. “You’re the only one who saw my yesterday, thr one who knows I’m here alive today” is actually so powerful since even though she’s in her own “Square”, the person is the only one trying to get in and truly know what she feels, therefore the person is the only one who knows what she’s going through and the only one who also always knows that she’s still here. The last lines for this part are also really cute since she even asks for the comfort of the person and to say what she really means to that person.
That’s about it I hope you understood my interpretation, the lyrics of this song is mostly seperated from the other lyrics that it links to so by linking them you can have a better understanding to it. I’ll include the lyrics below for good measure.
[Verse 1]
All the colors and personalities
You can’t see right through what I truly am
You are hurting me, without noticing
I’m so so broke like someone just robbed me
[Pre-Chorus]
I’m no invincible
I have much memories of getting more weaker
Know I’m not lovable
You should know what you have to say
[Chorus]
Come on, let’s go to bed
We gonna rock the night away
Who did that to you babe?
If you’re not in the right mood to sleep, now then
Come on let’s drink and have
Very unmanageable day
Would you want me in babe?
If you’re not in the right mood to sleep, now then
Come take my arms in yours
I’ll be yours for sure
[Verse 2]
All the traces and reminiscenses
You can’t sense right through how I truly was
You were gripping me without noticing
Was so so strange like someone never loved me
[Pre-Chorus]
I’m no invincible
I have much memories of getting more weaker
Know I’m not lovable
You should know what you have to say
[Chorus]
Come on, let’s go to bed
We gonna rock the night away
Who did that to you babe?
If you’re not in the right mood to sleep, now then
Come on let’s drink and have
Very unmanageable day
Would you want me in babe?
If you’re not in the right mood to sleep, now then
Come take my arms in yours
I’ll be yours for sure
[Bridge]
You’re the only one who saw my yesterday
The one who knows I’m here, alive today
Comfort me, say what I mean to you
You should know what you have to say
[Chorus]
Come on, let’s go to bed
We gonna rock the night away
Who did that to you babe?
If you’re not in the right mood to sleep, now then
Come on let’s drink and have
Very unmanageable day
Would you want me in babe?
If you’re not in the right mood to sleep, now then
Come take my arms in yours
I’ll be yours for sure
i dont post about yerin but shes my fav artist of all time~~
We need to do away with the "some asexuals have sex to make their (romantic) partner happy" notion around sex-favorability because
It comes with the assumption that sex-favorable = alloromantic which is not the case, and goes right back to the idea that sex is always romantic. Some sex-favorable asexuals are aromantic!!!
It places an unfair expectation on alloromantic asexuals who do not want to have sex with anybody and reinforces the belief that sex is essential to a romantic relationship
Paints sex-favorability as a compromise and a sacrifice of personal boundaries, basically removing the agency of asexual people who don't want to have sex, as well as those who do so on their own terms
It bothers me when allos try to be aro/ace allies by saying "i experience sexual/romantic attraction but i think friendship is the highest form of relationship!" like to me the point is to dismantle the attraction hierarcy all together and not put platonic attraction at the top
this so real like why r we ranking ppl at all... can I not just love everyone who's important to me lol
all my friends r getting in relationships can cuffing season end already. PLEASE.
so uhh I joined them
autism is DEFINITELY a spectrum bc emotional intelligence seems so large to me I can't think about anything else sometimes and it's literally a special interest of mine lmao,, I hate the narrative that 'all' autistics are bad at reading social cues or 'all' any other autistic trait
hate amatonormativity bc I can't tell anyone outside of my close circle about feelings without them thinking of it as conventional romance. let me love deeply :(
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inspired by ofc dan gifting phil the emo axolotl plush, this viral tweet by @catgirldjh and...my embarrassing rambly tags on a random post (i was having a moment)
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ok what if I sob
Not aroace in the "i don't want any relationships", but aroace in the "please delete the framework i don't want it".
I want to be love, i love love.
What I dread is the monogamous relationship escalator with all its steps and all its exclusivity wrapped in there. This expectation that if I like a person enough I will kiss them, move out with them, de-prioritise my other relationships for their sake, this idea that if i don't want to spend every day with a person then we are doing it wrong, the assumption that i will have children with them.
I don't want to be someone's entire world, i want to be a big swatch on a giant tapestry coloured by at least several people at once. I don't want someone to tell me "i need no one else".
And I hate how this being the message, directly or not, throughout my life has made me afraid of deviating from it too at the prospect of being "forever alone".
It just sucks.
all my loves combined are everything to me, no matter what other people have to say about it
all my friends r getting in relationships can cuffing season end already. PLEASE.
You know what I like so much about the aromantic community?
We have so many concepts that the average alloromantic person has never heard of. Concepts that make it so much easier to explain our experiences, desires and struggles to other people. They make it so much easier to exist as an aromantic person in this world. Of course, every aromantic person can decide whether they find these concepts helpful and applicable to their experiences. But I find it amazing how many cool concepts the aromantic community either came up with or took pre-existing concepts and made them our aromantic 101. I don't think the allos really get how being aromantic can fundamentally change your worldview. And to be honest, I think they're missing out because I think everyone would benefit from at least being familiar with those concepts.
Being aromantic is basically like this:
Aromantic shrimp colours are real.
Anyways, aromantic community, y'all mean a lot to me and I'm so happy I found y'all and now share your "secret" knowledge!
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