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20 bodily, Latino body, mixed neurogenic system, pro endo, rad inclusive of good faith identities (includes mspec gays/lesbians or any contradicting identities) please don't bring any discourse here this is just a side blog to talk about our system main blog is @coolcoolattas for general shit posting

[stormycafesys]

Hello! We are the Stormy Café System. While we don't know much about our origins, we know we are a mixed neurogenic system.

Hosts change every couple of weeks or so, so if you would like to ask for a headmate you can, but there's not guarantee that they will front.

We will try to keep this blog as organized as possible and updated as possible though. Our other linked blogs are @coolcoolattas . But I'm planning on it to be a chill main blog. I will reblog with other Co-hosts side blogs whenever they are created. (And if they are updated often)

Our general dni are syscourse/discourse blogs, anti endo blogs, transmeds, anti mspec gays/lesbians, people against xenogenders/neopronouns, generally just mean people.

We do our best to accept and understand everyone. If an error or misunderstanding happens, please politely contact us.

We hope you enjoy your stay!

[alteredpanel]

journals

[alteredpanel]

(obscuring username as not to single anybody out + not negative. just in case someones shy) but this is actually what we did with our journals at first too. we used lighthouse for some time, alongside discord/simplyplural. but with simplyplural being left and not wanting to be as on our phone/computer, we switched to paper.

for people with higher system counts, there are actually really good paperback journal 'packs' you can get at most stationary stores. if buying a 10/15$ journal seems too intimidating, you can get these packs for like, 10 dollars total, and each one only has about 40ish pages.

this way if you have parts that dont front as frequently, you dont have anyone worrying about 'waste' while still providing them their own space. these are just a few examples.

something unexpected this ended up helping with was actually our individual memories too. i noticed some people asking 'how do you journal if you're blurry/have bad memory as a part?' and, well, that's actually why i started doing it. i wanted to remember more than just 'feeling bad' whenever i fronted, so i carry my journal with me and write down basically like, everything.

even just passing thoughts like 'i kind of wish we had beef strips at home for dinner' or 'im really excited for artfight this year'. when you're trying to recover as a system, especially as a part thats been heavily slotted with a lot of 'negative' emotions, its important to give yourself the space to express more than those things. if you only ever remember yourself as being 'angry/bad' then you wont develop much past that, and you start to internalize that shit and really hate yourself.

journaling has been a great outlet for me to vent and draw my own stuff, but it's also given me some dignity and the space to feel like a person outside of just being like. traumatized. i sort of use it as a vault of everything about me, good and bad, important and trivial.

also like, importantly, from both an eco friendly and anticap standpoint, you can really just use stuff you have lying around the house already. i think personalizing your journal is important, but you can also do that without going out and buying 56347875 things. personally i got really into junk journaling alongside writing and drawing, because it gave me a spot to put a lot of the cool stuff that other people would think is trash.

[antiling]

You're not just mean!.. You're median and mode too...

[ehodge216]

@funnier-as-a-system

[periodic-counsel]

i often flip flop between periods of high activity and being completely alone. i stg as soon as i get comfortable with one bam. the other one happens

[clawnpool]

you never know with these guys

[primarining]

who else out here rockin’ memory problems!!!

[primarining]

I don’t fuckin remember posting this

[menacingmushroom99]

no i’m not obsessed with that character because of romantic or sexual attraction. I am obsessed because they’re my little silly. my best friend. my pal.

[stuckinapril]

Things get so crazy and u lose urself for a little bit then u get a night to wind down w a book before bed and u realize the 14 yr old girl who used to spend all her time at her school library tucked in her favorite corner reading her favorite books never left

[blinkeasy]

What doesn't kill you makes you Really Weird about fictional characters

[274th]

every system has

the workaholic

the nervous little guy

the guy who's really good at posting

The Fighter

the sacrificial lamb

Bob from accounting

[274th]

Wow a plural multimedia collage comic that actually has two alters talking to each other instead of just one of us yapping to death at the audience. Can you tell we don't plan these in advance?

The original way I wanted to do this didn't work (thank you Sims 4) so I decided to Do It Differently and I think I may actually like this weird naked mannequin thing more.

[dogwise]

PRACTICE URGE SURFING

[dogwise]

[teumessianandlaelaps]

Huh, didn't know there was a term for it. This explains why I haven't been drinking as much lately.

[murmurationsz]

suffering from frequent involuntary tears

[ianyourattic]

i wish music would just like play around you in certain moments and only you/certain people could hear it

[kitab00m101]

@funnier-as-a-system

[luxdraconia]

you should kiss your headmates NOW

[plural-culture-is]

plural culture is genuinely forgetting your headmates’ existence as fictional characters (they are just your headmates, wdym other people know them as fictional characters??? … oh right)

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