i tired my best

lucy | she | '97 | i'm actually my icon | i'm afraid

[letmiin]

a supportive husband right here🦋✨

(Spent way too much time on the first one…)

[heartinhyacinth]

[queeranarchism]

Let me settle the 'is it fetishism and is it bad?' debate once and for all:

Being attracted to any kind of body is normal. Fat bodies. Trans bodies. Disabled bodies. All normal. Being extra attracted to a specific kind of body is normal too. Totally normal to have a type.

Not unlearning the societal stigma attached to those kinds of bodies, the people who inhabit those bodies, and the people who fuck them, to the point where you do any of the following:

Only want to date/fuck the person in secret.

Reduce the person to the feature that you desire and ignore the rest of who they are as a person.

Expect the person to be a walking porn fantasy instead of a real person with their own sexual preferences and boundaries.

Would no longer love the person if the stigmatized aspect of their body changed.

Consider yourself superior to the person, think the person should be 'grateful' that you love their body, etc.

See the person as a temporary adventure while planning to eventually settle down with someone whose body isn't stigmatized.

Is bad and harmful and you shouldn't be dating anyone until you've worked on your shit, because this makes you a very terrible partner. This doesn't mean you are a bad person with bad-fetishist-desires who can only desire people badly, it means you need to unlearn societal stigma so you can be a better partner to the people you desire.

Thank you for coming to me ted talk.

[sailermoon]

this is how new yorkers @ mamdani

[sailermoon]

[eisenkrahe]

Yes!

[damazcuz]

friend: please drink tonight you're so weird when you're sober

me: i promise i'll be regular

friend: okay as long as you promise

me: (zero beers in) (unprompted) the humble mole can dig up to 100x its body weight in soils each day. The humble mole can survive on a single worm for 80 nights. The humble mole can meditate for 1001 moons uninterrupted. The humble mole can forgive.

[cryptidkey]

some hualian

[ruoyeming]

Drawing them after so long... nature is healing <3

[mossymage]

A flower caught in the wind

[00000066]

[qi-mera]

More of you need to learn about these ☝️

[jadenebula]

[manuciruja]

awww the like button turns into a rainbow when you press it! that's so cute...hey staff what's with all the trans women you keep nuking?

[manuciruja]

i think we should be ridiculing them more for this. you don't get to try and go all "queer website" when your staff likes to go on nuking sprees targeting the trans fem users

[smadsel]

would be remiss not to mention that the rainbow notably straight up just removed the trans flag colors from it. like they’re gone. it’s the progress flag minus the trans flag colors.

[smadsel]

that’s not the whole flag, now is it

[manuciruja]

hey staff what the fuck

[villainessbian]

hey staff don't you think you're being too on-the-nose

[shrodingers-catgirl]

HEY STAFF DONT YOU THINK YOU'RE BEING TOO ON-THE-NOSE

[sizzlingsandwichperfection-blog]

oh wait just realized i can edit my own posts.

like you can't edit reblogs anymore but you can still edit your own post even after it has a thousand notes or whatever.

[sizzlingsandwichperfection-blog]

i have the opportunity to do the funniest thing.

[taurzza]

[meru90]

since twitter is literally hell now im too chicken to post anything there so first post of the year will be on tumblr uwu

[toastbutteregg]

[krchov]

Sbírka na provoz archivu Společnost pro queer paměť

Zdravím ve spolek, jsem tady s informací o možnosti podpory spolku Společnost pro queer paměť, který se již mnoho let věnuje archivaci a zkoumání zkušenosti queer lidí v českých zemích. Kromě veřejně (a částečně i online) přístupného archivu mají také muzeum, natáčí rozhovory s pamětníky a provádějí rozličné populárně naučné akce jako jsou tematické procházky po Praze. Jedná se o jedinou organizaci v ČR, která se takovéto činnosti ve větším rozsahu věnuje.

Proč vám ale o tomto spolku - kromě toho že jsou fajne a mají zajímavé věci - říkám? Bohužel vzhledem k tomu, jaká vládne politická sitiace, přišel spolek o veřejnou podporu ze strany jak vlády, tak magistrátu hl. m. Prahy. V tuto chvíli proto na službě Donio spustili sbírku na roční nájem v objektu, kde celý archiv a muzeum působí.

Pokud tedy máte nějaké drobné v kapse (a nebo si chcete snížit vyměřovací základ daně v příštím daňovém přiznání a nebo nejlépe oboje), byl bych vám za podpoření tohoto spolku vděčný. Sám se v něm neangažuji, pouze využívám jeho archivu a přijde mi škoda, abychom o tento jediný archiv české queer historie přišli.

Díky, Krchov.

Podpořte uchování historie a paměti LGBTIQ+ lidí

Podpořte uchování historického dědictví, sbírek a archivu LGBTIQ+ lidí a jejich přístupnost. Společnost pro queer paměť byla založena v roce