StubbornRoyalty

26 year old submissive

[thecommonchick]

hallmark has no chill 😂😭

[kalbindenoperim]

[goodcam]

Thinking about wearing a collar: ❤️😇❤️

Thinking about somebody buying me a collar and putting it on me and making me wear it because I belong to them: 🥴🥺🙈🥰🥺❤️🥴😇❤️🥰💕😍🥵😭🥵🥵🥺🥴🥰💕🥴🥵😭😳💕😍😍😍😍☺️☺️🥺🥴❤️🙈😳🙈🥰🥰😍🥵🙈🙈😳🥵🥵❤️❤️🥺🥴🥴🙈😳😳🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰😍😍💕💕💕😇🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴

[queendirectory-blog-deactivated]

one of the most annoying things about me is that i constantly need to be reassured that you haven’t started hating me for some reason

[lithiumic]

Respect girls who are virgins respect girls who suck 7 dicks at a time respect girls who don’t like dick respect girls who have dicks

[sir-daddys-fun-house-returns]

Quick Advice: What Does “I Don’t Know” Mean

“I don’t know” is such an easy thing to say, but could mean a multitude of different things. To some, that could mean that you’ve asked a question they just don’t know the answer to. In some cases it could mean that they would rather you say what you want so that you’re happy. With others it could mean that they have an answer, but are afraid of what you’ll think of it. I don’t mean a fear for their health or wellbeing, I mean they fear you’ll think they are silly or dumb.

A lot of the time when someone says, “I don’t know”, it means, “you decide!”. You’ve asked a question that they would rather you decide what happens. You know, like a Dominant or something would do. Where/what do you want to eat, what movie do you want to watch, or do you need anything, are a few examples.

“I don’t know”, is a common response to those who are still learning how to communicate openly. As a Dominant, I view that response as a learning opportunity. It is a chance for both my sub and myself to grow. They learn how to effectively communicate their opinion, want, or need more and I learn another cue. Deciphering that response takes experience with the person making the response. I’d say that there is a sure fire way of knowing what everyone means when they say that by following steps 1-6, but that’s simply not the case. All people are different and all react differently. There’s no umbrella answer to, “I don’t know”. The only thing you can do is to try and foster an environment that they feel comfortable enough to give an answer.

Don’t forget that “I don’t know” could actually mean, “I don’t know”! Dominants, take the reigns if you see them struggle. Help them communicate and open up. Help them grow. Make the decision where it’s applicable, but also give room for them to practice their communication skills, trust, and always move towards self growth.

— Sir Daddy

[delightfulsubg-deactivated20210]

I have found “I don’t know” most often has one of two meanings for me. The first is that because of an anxiety ridden brain.. being presented with a question such as “What are you thinking?” or “What do you want to do?” cause my brain to freeze and go blank. In that moment.. I can’t answer what I’m thinking about. The brain that is normally flooded with an overflow of thoughts and activity was hit with a blast of cold air and is now not functioning.

The second common reason though is that I don’t trust you enough to give you an answer. We aren’t there yet and if you want that to change it’s just going to take time and my ability to observe and analyze your long term patterns to determine if it’s safe for me to say what I’m thinking.

[doctordaddysir]

Why do you enjoy being a dom

Blow jobs whenever I want? 🤷🤷🤷

No seriously...

Why do I enjoy being a Dom?

Because the journey of building trust with someone and seeing them give me more and more of their submission is one of the most amazing and truly intimate journeys I experience as a human.

Seeing someone give themselves to me, giving me control over their body, their safety, their growth, their mind, their basically everything is a treasure that's hard to quantify.

You'll hear many guys claim to be a Dom but only want or care about the sexual stuff. Those guys are Tops at best, and abusers at the worst. They care nothing about aftercare, boundaries, emotional, physical or mental safety, and they damn sure don't care that you're choosing to trust them with such a huge gift.

When I have a sub I worry about everything for her. I worry about the sleep she gets, the water she drinks, the career she has or wants, the Drs appointments, the family stuff, etc. I worry about the anxiety she has from some trauma ten years prior that she's only told to maybe a handful of people and I'm one of them. I worry about every piece she chooses to share with me and because of that effort by me, she then let's go and becomes the amazing Sub or Little I deserve.

I'm always extremely confident in my abilities as a Dom, and some would see it as cocky, but I'm also well aware that my job as a Dom isn't just sex or beating someone. My job is proving to her that I can be trusted with all of it. I don't break boundaries, I don't abuse safewords, I don't even consider sex as a need in a D/S relationship, I know. Shocker. It's an amazing bonus once I've earned that right, but it's not a need.

Why do I enjoy being a Dom? Because I enjoy letting her be the best most amazing sub she can be because she trusts that I will always have her back, take care of her, lift her up and keep her safe. If I do all of those then I earn all the dirty, naughty, filthy, fun things we do as a d/s couple. A partnership. Yes I'm in control but it is a partnership. Without her submission I'm just a weird lonely guy hitting himself in the the thigh with a flogger thinking "this would be fun to use on someone else" 🤣

[thegingerpowers]

[hockeygal69]

[gahhhdamn]

never read something that explained me so well

[bellandherbeast]

This is scary accurate.

[thoradvice]

your mental illness is lying to you.

[feistyredhead79]

I am worthy of love.

I am worthy of care.

I am worthy no matter what.

Yes, it is lying to me, but I still believe it.

[southernmiss9]

[borderlinepdfeels]

[his-country-princess]

Fuck. Yes. I even warn Daddy sometimes cause I can just tell shit is coming and I can't stop it 😣

[resqectable]

“If I tell you I need you, do not take it lightly. I do everything I can to never have to depend on anyone, to never show weakness. and if I say I that I need you it means I am trusting you to catch me if I fall.”

— ilovemylsi (via meineluft)

[tinkygirl4u]

I work hard every day to not need anyone and I’m constantly reminded myself that I’m capable and strong. I hate having to need anyone

[conscious-love]

[alibabe48]

Nope-you can’t…🕉

[delightfulsubg-deactivated20210]

☝️☝️☝️

[petkittensliege]

Not only cannot but should not try. You shouldn’t be doing any of those things for anyone who has not already demonstrated that they value you.

[delightfulsubg-deactivated20210]

Absolutely @petkittensliege!

[daddyandhislittleprincess11102]

[femmeidiot]

Be possessive with me and I’ll melt tbh.

[lesstalkingmorespanking-deactiv]

30 Days of My Submissive Experience

Day 4- I am doing our laundry while watching Annihilation. He’s in the garage looking for a drill bit to cut into tile. I ask if I can go into the garage to help. “No, baby, you stay inside and keep doing the laundry.” I go back to folding and think about how happy I am to know I’m doing exactly what he’s asked me to do. I can make my own decisions about chores, but then they feel like a burden while I’m doing them. When he makes the decision, my chores feel like an offering, which makes them less tedious and ordinary. Folding t-shirts becomes an act of worship.