✟  Shinigamy eyes is intersexist˳

pwNPD, pwCDD, PPDtism and more. Pfp art by @shkreart on Tumblr. it/its, Yuri.

[sweet-homeland]

By the way, no i do not spend all my time online debating with people. also i prefer to debate with educated people who don't discriminate anybody lmao

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mfs be like to me: white LGBTs

But me: Arabic aka POC.

Just a reminder I am intersex, a cis man, gay, and I have a beautiful bf

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I know this might seem like it comes from malice but there are people who genuinely have a hard time with reading comprehension. So here are some things I found to improve or learn reading comprehension.

https://www.prodigygame.com/main-en/blog/improve-reading-comprehension

https://www.reddit.com/r/education/comments/13ht9ka/seeking_advice_to_improve_my_reading/

https://www.indeed.com/career-advice/career-development/reading-comprehension-improvement-strategies

[sweet-homeland]

The next time a mf says that TMA/TME are useful I am going to start calling myself racism affected and then racism extended (if they're white) and we'll see if they like it as much as TMA/TME

[veganfeministfromhell]

And while we're at it, I'm going to call myself ableism affected and y'all can be ableism benefitted. Might as well cover every axis of oppression at this point

[the-chorus-of-voices-collective]

To all the polyminds trying to reference IFS as an argument. You have no idea what the fuck IFS is actually trying to accomplish. Please shut the fuck up

[sweet-homeland]

You also have no idea what it is.

[status-quo-hater]

why is being a radfem bad? why is caring about women's right so terrible? (genuinely asking)

That isn't what radical feminism refers to.

Radfeminism is the belief that all bigotry stems from misogyny, or is a lesser problem to misogyny in some way, and simultaneously the belief that misogyny only affects those with TMDP sex traits. (Misogyny does absolutely affect everyone with any number of TMDP-associated sex traits regardless of gender, but it ALSO affects feminine people regarding of sex traits- radfems reject this second part)

Ex, radfems don't believe trans women are subjected to misogyny because they do not have the same body parts as cis women. Most radfems actually end up in radical spaces to begin with specifically because the ideology feeds their pre-existing hatred of trans women. So the average radfem has a personality akin to boiled piss if you are a trans woman or otherwise a transfeminized person. They believe you to be invading and pretending to suffer from the same/similar issues that cis women face, and take your existence as a form of disrespect to them personally. It's where you get transmisogynistic insults like "womanface" (in refrence to blackface, used to imply trans women existing is misogynistic)

This is not to say radfems "like" trans men and transmascs- they outwardly often treat trans men much kinder (in comparison) but this is a manipulation tactic. Ultimately radfems do not support trans existence and want transmascs to detransition and "embrace their Female sex"‐ they believe and promote the transandrophobic notion that a trans man's transition is a misguided attempt at escaping misogyny. Radfems consistently infantilize trans men and I've personally observed them display this weird entitlement to transmasculine peoples' bodies, which they seem to hold at a value above the actual person who owns that body. Similarly to how cis men view women.

This is the gist of it, anyway. Basically, no, radical feminism is not just caring for women's rights but rather a toxic off-shoot of feminism that centers cis women about trans people, among a bunch of frankly misogynistic and bioessentialist beliefs (for example that (cis) women are always weaker than men), or that cis men abuse women because they are biologically predisposed to do so and not because patriarchy empowers them to.

I honestly wouldn't even consider most radfems to be actually feminist at all.

[alpaca-clouds]

And they are also incredibly intersexist - because their entire worldview hinges on the idea that sex can be neatly divided in two boxes. So they made arbitrary rules about which inter person belongs into which box. However, given that different radfems go by different rules, they will also then argue about this. You know, usually will either go "genes decide the sex, actually" or "gonads decide sex". But when I, an intersex trans man with XY chromosomes and no (working) gonads want to transition, somehow I am still a confused little girl.

[status-quo-hater]

This as well. I didn't go into the intersexism aspect of it in this post specifically because I have many other posts regarding radfems' inherently intersexist worldview.

But yeah, this is very true. I've had radfems argue with each other in the comments of my posts about whether to call me a Male or a Female because of the sex traits I've listed having. Regardless of which one they decide I am, they have nasty shit to say.

If they actually concede that I am unable to be categorized, I get to hear gems like this

[status-quo-hater]

what do you think of radfems that aren't transphobic?

All radfems are transphobic. A person who fights for women's rights and trans rights is just a feminist.

[sweet-homeland]

Mogai Tumblr when you disagree with them: I won't let you respond and I will block you because I am so much superior than you.

[sweet-homeland]

Also you're a fucking asshole BECAUSE YOU RESPONDED TO ME??? HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO READ YOUR RESPONSE IF YOU DON'T LET ME DO IT? You are not entitled to being an ass. Fuck. Almost having a narc crash cuz you're dumb.

[sweet-homeland]

Mogai Tumblr when you disagree with them: I won't let you respond and I will block you because I am so much superior than you.

[newlyy]

My beef with weed btw is that people act like it’s not a mind altering substance and so will get high every day, go to work high, drive high, without realizing that’s it’s similar to getting buzzed every day, first thing in the morning. I don’t want to hang out with people who are high cause I don’t like hanging out with people who are drunk. Also, I’ve lived in apartments for years and weed fucking stinks and people who smoke it are inconsiderate.

[sweet-homeland]

The next time a mf says that TMA/TME are useful I am going to start calling myself racism affected and then racism extended (if they're white) and we'll see if they like it as much as TMA/TME

[ugly-anarchist]

I really, truly, desperately hate omegaverse enjoyers

Also perisex people

Mostly perisex people

[not100bees]

I think that we should start progress pride flag discourse. I'll start: I hate it.

[woman-respecter]

if i may add: it’s ugly

[cordycepsfem]

To that: it was made to be marketed and sold.

[sossegato]

It's racist and colonialist. Leaves out most ethnic minorities, singles out black and brown gays as if we weren't already included.

[clytemnestradidnothingwrong]

It's also a hideous symbol of misogyny and homophobia.

[faxxmachine]

It’s an aesthetically repellant symbol of forced-teaming and homosexual erasure.

[aizenat]

The one with the black and brown stripes (before someone added more to it) was a direct response to businesses during pride years ago being racist towards Black gay people in Philadelphia’s Gayborhood. So for the dumbass claiming it’s racist for leaving out other racial minorities, and then pretending to care about us with a “and it assumes they weren’t included to begin with”, that’s because IT WAS IN DIRECT RESPONSE TO WHITE GAYS ACTING LIKE WE DON’T EXIST. It was never supposed to be more than a fucking reminder that we are part of this community too!

Like jfc, learn the history of some shit before talking shit.

Now considering how the flag came about during the BLM protests, of course corporations jumped on it since it was a way to signal they were here for gay people AND black people at once. Then quueerios seeing themselves not centered in something had to insert themselves by adding to it, and sure it’s ugly and useless now. But some of this fucking commentary is just yet another example of the many ways yall just love throwing black people under the bus for tumblr woke brownie points. Jfc.

[pumpumdemsugah]

White gay people in philadelphia USA were restricting access to Black gay people into a gay bar and the brown and black stripe was added in response to that to remind those white people they dont own being gay. It's wild how confident people are calling the brown and black stripe colonialists, but some of you are just as stupid as the people you like criticising and just as disinterested info. It never was meant to go beyond a statement about what happened in philadelphia, but we're in the era of aggressive decontextualisation and then people pretending the decontextualisation always the intent

You people are so obnoxious

[whitebluewhitefem]

Okay but it's still ugly and is used everywhere around the world now, not just in some racist parts of the US.

[itsalpenglow]

The black stripe was added for victims of aids

Glad to know you find victims of aids "ugly" but it's not a surprise from terfs

[makiruz]

I feel I should post that Dykes to Watch Out For strip where that one who gets a boyfriend decides to call herself a "bisexual lesbian"

[makiruz]

@neometrocosmopolitan why did you tag it "anti bi lesbian"? This post is very much PRO Bisexual women calling themselves lesbian because they either only date women or have strong ties with the lesbian community before dating a man, you know like Sparrow does

[sweet-homeland]

Maybe because the comics make fun of the girl calling herself a bi lesbian? Just a thought maybe. God. Some people have a hard time reading.

[not100bees]

I think that we should start progress pride flag discourse. I'll start: I hate it.

[sweet-homeland]

All of the transphobia, history ignorance (at least of the US) and intersexism and just homophobia in the comments and reblogs are fucking crazy.

I don't see how y'all can hate this flag. I can't see how you find it fucking ugly. "Trans people if straight aren't LGBTQ+" WHAT DO YOU THINK THE T MEANS??? "Intersex people aren't queer-" SHUT UP. You're perisex, you do NOT speak for us. And even, there are multiple queer intersex people.

I will always assume all hate from this flag is bigotry.

[w0nderland42]

i get that americans love their cultural imperialism, but it really does piss me off that june is “international” pride month just because something happened in the united states.

in aotearoa, june isn’t our pride, it’s theirs. marsha p johnson and sylvia rivera are their historical figures, not ours. the phrase that “you owe your rights to Black trans women” is true there, but here we owe our rights to (mostly) Māori historical figures. i have the freedoms i do because of the legacy of an entirely different set of people operating in an entirely different context at entirely different times.

But because of american cultural imperialism, most queer people in Aotearoa don’t even know our own queer history. Carmen Rupe, Ngahuia Te Awekotuku, the Dorian Society, Gillian Laundon, Georgina Beyer, and the Wolfenden Association are some of our queer history. We should know their names! we should know what they did for us! but because of the power of the american imperial machine, we don’t.

our national pride month should be july, the month that the Homosexual Law Reform Act passed in 1986. our two largest cities hold their pride festivals in february and march, respectively. american queer history has very little (or nothing, depending on who you ask) to do with our queer history. anecdotally, from my own queries, queer youth in aotearoa know more about american queer history than our own.

anyway, happy pride, americans. i’m truly sorry that most of you don’t see the negative impact your nation’s culture has on the rest of the world. and to the rest of the world reading this, try searching for your own country and culture’s queer history, don’t accept the american narratives as your own. we deserve our own histories divorced from the cultural hegemony of the USA.

[lil-gingerbread-queen]

I made a lil bingo card from the USAmericans in the notes:

[sweet-homeland]

You should post it on r/USDelfautism, they'll certainly love it

[sweet-homeland]

Wow radqueers being queerphobic? Never could have guessed so! (PS: I am NOT sorry but queer sometimes IS JUST A FUCKING IDENTITY. Sorry, but sometimes it just MEANS not being straight. Also, you literally call half of the queer community NOT QUEER. Wow. So progressive.) What the fuck is "queer beliefs" even???? Also, see how they LITERALLY left out the Q of LGBTQ+? Because nobody says "LGBT+", at least not within the community.

[pocket-deer-belly]

I know a lot of those responses aren’t necessarily in good faith but it does make me think a lot of trans men are hearing “you have male privilege” and thinking i mean “you are exactly like cishet men, you are given accolades aplenty” and not “regardless of the oppressions you face you are still treated favorably to women in your same position”

Which to be fair is how most men react to the phrase “you have male privilege”

[sweet-homeland]

Because that's not true lol. I am a cis man, I have male privilege. My bf is trans. He doesn't. Because most cis people don't see trans men as men but as groomed women and traitors.

[arcedcurve]

Fundamentally this sort of argument revolves around another incredibly transphobic basis that trans men cannot transition in any social space nor are men in any sense but label. There is a documented wage gap between trans men and trans women, along with increased amount of misogynistic violence from trans men onto trans women, but so called transmasc allies will look at you and tell you that trans men are functionally just pretending to be men.

[sweet-homeland]

Did you delete when you said you were disagreeing with me? I wrote a reply and it couldn't be sent and clearly I am too lazy to write a full ass paragraph. So have this: https://www.tumblr.com/ghostboyravenight/780368511171231744/trans-men-have-access-to-male-privilege-no-some?source=share

[pocket-deer-belly]

I know a lot of those responses aren’t necessarily in good faith but it does make me think a lot of trans men are hearing “you have male privilege” and thinking i mean “you are exactly like cishet men, you are given accolades aplenty” and not “regardless of the oppressions you face you are still treated favorably to women in your same position”

Which to be fair is how most men react to the phrase “you have male privilege”

[sweet-homeland]

Because that's not true lol. I am a cis man, I have male privilege. My bf is trans. He doesn't. Because most cis people don't see trans men as men but as groomed women and traitors.

[arcedcurve]

Fundamentally this sort of argument revolves around another incredibly transphobic basis that trans men cannot transition in any social space nor are men in any sense but label. There is a documented wage gap between trans men and trans women, along with increased amount of misogynistic violence from trans men onto trans women, but so called transmasc allies will look at you and tell you that trans men are functionally just pretending to be men.