How to Catch a Sugar Daddy
Do you get many views, messages etc but not real dates? Ask yourself:
When was the last time you actually offered to move it to a phone conversation?
When did you last tell him what you were looking to have happen?
When you talk to your prospective SD’s: are you actually leading them in a direction?
Sugar Dating requires more effort on the female side, because of higher competition!
1. POT-Date: How to start out:
As a man with money, it might be more natural for him to mistrust others. That’s why it’s not always the wisest decision to bring up financials right away.
Instead, let him get comfortable with who you are. Show him that you’re listening to his needs, and be attentive to his conversations.
Let him build up a desire and passion to be with you and know more before he finds out the price of bliss.
Express an interest in what he finds interesting, and you’ll soon start to see a more trusting POT.
Only once you’ve reached this stage should you begin to talk about financials
Even if he brings it up you may want to ask him to hold off on that for a bit as you are mostly interested in learning more about him and are you two compatible.
Then before this date or conversation is over go back to the topic of finance and you find your sugar daddy eating out of your hand.
Say to him that you like how much of a Gentleman he is. By putting him in the Gentleman category right away he can’t rush into having sex with you or being pushy for it because he hast to live up to your ideal of him!
Use the most powerful weapon you own: Your smile!
Sugar daddies love being around happy and positive women – so smile and show your appreciation for life!
Ever noticed that people tend to gravitate around those who are happy and positive? The same works with sugar babies and sugar daddies.
The most successful sugar babies are those who always have a smile on their face and are ready to laugh.
A smile can make you seem like the coolest and most confident woman in the room, no matter what situation you find yourself in.
From scary job interviews to first dates, a smile can turn any potentially awkward or nerve-wracking scenario into a fun and friendly affair.
It’s easy to forget that behind every powerful and wealthy sugar daddy is a regular man who’s nervous about making a good first impression on you. After all, you’re a gorgeous, smart and funny woman – and that combination can reduce any man into a bundle of nerves.
Studies have shown that when we don’t smile, our peers assume that we’re unfriendly or uncomfortable with our surroundings.
In the sugar daddy/sugar baby relationship, having a constant frown on your face can make your sugar daddy feel as though you’d rather be anywhere but there.
Just the simple act of smiling can make all of the difference in making your sugar daddy feel warm, comfortable and accepted.
Also add some warm occasional eye contact as you are flashing that million dollar smile.
Seduction Techniques to get him hooked:
It’s not the Sugar Daddy that determines what you will get, but the things you do to maintain his interest
Seduction isn’t making someone do something they don’t want to do. Seduction is enticing someone into doing something they secretly want to do already
We all want to be seduced. We all yearn for someone who will draw our secret desires and passions out of ourselves
Here’s a killer tip that should only be used on occasion: don’t be shy about getting noticed by other men. Once you’ve got the attention of a couple of men, make it extremely evident that you’re with your sugar daddy. He’ll love feeling like you’re a wanted woman that is only there for him!
Next time you’re out on a date with him, go up to the bar and mildly flirt with the bartender while you order drinks. Then come back to your sugar daddy. He’ll be so proud that such a gorgeous and intelligent woman only has eyes for him!
When it comes to attracting and keeping top-quality sugar daddies, never underestimate the power of your words!
Men love sugar babies with a zest for life – and if you mention that you find things in your life “exciting”, “amazing” and “fantastic”, he’ll be instantly drawn to your positivity and enthusiasm for living.
On the other hand, it doesn’t hurt to reveal your sensual side to your sugar daddy. Turn on the flirt and use power keywords like “tempting”, “sensuous” and “revealing” to make his mind wander.
Wealthy and powerful men are extremely attracted to women who have their own thing going on, so if you’re an ambitious lady, flaunt it!
Talk about what you want from your future, and we guarantee he won’t get enough of you!
Get your hands involved in your conversation! By continually touching his arm and placing your hand on his, you’re essentially saying that you find him incredibly irresistible
And whatever you do, carry yourself with a grace and elegance that he’ll be craving long after your date is over.
Find the void in his life
The fact that he’s seeking out a sugar baby means that he’s lacking something crucial in his personal life: an emotional connection with an intelligent, personable and beautiful woman.
The ultimate way to seduce him is to fill a void in his life.
find a void that’s missing in his life, and determine how you can fulfill that void.
For example, if he often complains that he can’t find anyone who shares his passion of history, this is a clue that he’s revealing more information about his emotional and mental voids
Your entire success depends on understanding what he’s missing. Study your Sugar Daddy thoroughly. By filling a Void in your Sugar Daddy’s life, your maneuvers will seem more natural.
As soon as you understand what your sugar daddy is looking for from the relationship, you can parlay that information into a mutually beneficial sugar daddy/sugar baby connection. So don’t rely on your wardrobe and make-up tricks to make your sugar daddy feel like he’s the king of your world…
If you have an absolute workaholic, who loves working late, and weekends are just extra days that could be spent on take-home work, what is missing in his life is a companion who’s understanding of his lifestyle, and who’s be ready and waiting when he wants to have some fun.
The New Money sugar daddy is likely looking for a flashy sugar baby who’s good in bed.
If he’s a retired businessman, most of the people in his peer group are only thinking about what their health condition is, what medication they are on and their golf swing.
They passed the point of creativity, ambition and wanting to accomplish things in life, and are only seeking a comfort zone.
One of the things he gets from you is the ability for him to think and feel young.
He gets pleasure out of you being creative about your business endeavors
The Relationship with your SD - What is it about?
Believe me, it has very little to do with sex. After all, if your sugar daddy was just after sex, wouldn’t it have made more sense to hire an escort than pursue a sugar baby?
In fact, when sugar daddies are asked what their prime motives are for pursuing relationships with sugar babies, they all say the same thing: It’s about the emotional connection.
And that’s what makes you so important to your sugar Daddy. He values an emotional connection over sex. He can hire an escort for sex – but he can’t pay for the chemistry, conversation and connection that only happens with his sugar baby.
Your sugar daddy may be an important man, but this doesn’t mean that he’s not lonely. Perhaps the spark has fizzled out of his marriage, or he doesn’t have enough time to develop a meaningful social life.
You are his emotional connection in a world of business contacts and old lovers.
If a “sugar daddy” is eager to be intimate right away, chances are that he’s looking for an escort, not a sugar baby. Sugar daddies value the emotional connection to their sugar babies over sex, so don’t let a man pressure you to jump into bed.
You know how important it is to talk to any sugar daddy about your financial expectations – so if you suspect that a potential daddy is bluffing, ask him how much he expects to spend on you.
If he stammers or tries to avoid the conversation, call his bluff. Real sugar daddies won’t be afraid to talk money with you – but fake sugar daddies sure will be!
Don’t give in to his sexual demands too quickly. Yes, sex is a part of the sugar daddy relationship – but that doesn’t mean that you need to give into his physical urges right away.
Source: Sugar Daddy Formula Guide by Taylor B. Jones
