Switch and Nerdy

24 year old male living in a quantum superposition between dominant and submissive. Pre-Med student and avid mental health advocate. Proud INFJ. Contains NSFW content, none of which I claim as my own. Underage eyes need not enter. Feel free to message/ask/submit. I only bite if you’re into that kind of thing.

[gunlerce-deactivated20180725]

[shortangrybisexual]

Listen I’m bi as Heck and as much as I love girls, I also love boys? Boys are amazing and pure and liking boys is a wonderful feeling? I never see a lot of posts talking about cute boys so

Some Boy Aesthetics™ I’m in love with include:

Their tired grins? Have you seen a cute boy grin when he’s tired? Life Changing

Sleeves rolled up to forearms is all good and Well but also when they have Sweater Paws in their hoodies or jumpers? Makes the tallest of them seem so smol? I’m lov?

When they run their hand through their hair and it sticks up in places and it looks So Good

Collar Bones

Soft pudgy stomachs they absolutely make me melt

When ya boy gets flustered A++ Bonus points if he giggles Boys giggling is Everything

[itsagifnotagif]

I think this is like the first positive post about boys that isnt to do with a celebrity for ages and it is actually super nice to read????

[dontmakemedothisagain]

More soft boy things:

That small teasing smirk when they say something they know you like

Falling on top of them when they’re asleep and they just very softly go oof

When the jump up some place high and sit and lean down to kiss you

Cuddles their fucking cuddles man

Being entranced by a movie

Boys + Starbucks

Messy hair

They try to be tough. They soft

Boys are so fucking beautiful I love them

[navigator-vhixxa]

This is the truest boy post and there are so many things that make me melt

getting so into a song that they can convince you anything is A Jam

when they get excited over a meal you cooked

kissing the back of your hand

when it’s an unknown number and they put on the Phone Voice

blowing their hair out of the way when it gets long

watching them talking passionately to someone else and see their expression change 3 times a second

when they prank you and laugh real hard but you’re like “joke’s on you because I get to hear your cute laugh”

Boys are super wholesome and good

[buttercupbi]

Some additions:

if you hurt yourself they get super concerned and their voice raises like two octaves when they ask if you’re ok

making reference to an inside joke in a group of friends and covertly glancing at you to make sure you’ve noticed

holding your hand while doing another task

endlessly making fun of you but always watching to make sure you know they don’t actually mean it

turning teasing into super sweet compliments to watch you squirm

[under-the-arch]

This site needs more pure wholesome male positivity.

[that-shy-fanfic-writer]

Hey look @owl-bones I found you in a post lol

[everythingstarstuff]

[sensuality-n-randomness-deactiv]

My thoughts exactly ...

[accarahara-deactivated20191231]

Unpopular opinion: you don’t have to be mean to be a dom. You don’t even have to inflict pain yourself to be a dom. You don’t need to humiliate or belittle people to be a dom. Being a dom is all about having control and maintaining control. Everything else is purely specialty of the individual dynamic.

[dirtythingsthatturnmeonposts]

Yes! Yes!! Yes !!!

Fuck unpopular opinions. I am a gentle Domme, and damn proud to be one.

[1977foxy]

From my humble point of view, Ma’am @dirtythingsthatturnmeonposts, thank God that there are Gentle Dommes as You are, with all my respects to the other kind of Dommes.

[dirtythingsthatturnmeonposts]

Awwww - thank you, my sweet friend 😘😘

[parkers-silver-tongue-deactivat]

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, there is no rule book, there is no checklist. Dominant and submissive are states of mind that both encompass a spectrum of styles and tastes. Find what works for you and never let anyone tell you you’re wrong.

[dirtythingsthatturnmeonposts]

☝️☝️☝️☝️

[fandom]

2019 is coming to a close, and you know what that means—time to review the year! This is our seventh stint, and we’re doing things a little differently this time around. The biggest change is in how we collect data: this year’s lists account for a full 365 days, from October 21st, 2018 through October 20th, 2019, meaning this is the first time we’re taking data from December into account. Welcome to Year in Review, December!

This year, you’ll be treated to 36 lists and five editorial posts that dive a little deeper into certain communities. We’ve expanded a few lists (hello, 100 K-pop stars!) and added some new ones (Movies, Anime, and TV characters!) for your viewing pleasure.

It’s all here, all December, all for you. Here’s to another year. For now, here is a master guide to this year’s posts:

Best of 2019

Top 100 Ships

Actresses

Actors

Movies

Movie Characters

Live-Action TV

Animated TV

TV Show Characters

A History of Good Omens 

Spoilers

Edits

Incorrect Quotes

Reality TV

TV Personalities

Pro Wrestlers

Athletes

K-Pop

K-Pop Stars

Music Groups

Solo Artists

Musicals

Books

Authors & Poets

Video Games

The Mineblr Renaissance 

Mobile Games

Video Game Characters

Pokémon

Anime & Manga

Anime & Manga Characters

Web Celebrities

Web Series

Memes

The Best of Answer Time 2019

Tumblr Communities

Art Styles

Beauty + Fashion Brands

Astrology Signs

Tumblr and Social Impact in 2019

LGBTQIA+ on Tumblr in 2019

[fluffyboy-posting]

Year review:

Porn ban

Actually ignoring all the community complaint about the porn ban, literally no one asked for this

Ignoring all community on other media, too (nice strategy, I know you’re reading this, but you don’t even try to argument. Real nice)

Deactivated accounts because of porn ban

Loss in 40% of traffic due to porn ban

Community realizing you guys don’t even know what your website is about and what your community wants

This is further reinforced by adding a group chat feature literally no one asked for when you could be programming things that are actually useful

Not answering any of my and my friends’ support tickets

Still no function to switch main accounts

PORN BOTS STILL NOT FIXED LOOOOOOOOOL

Killing an entire community because of money

Making people lose track of several other people and friends because of so many disabled accounts because of porn ban

Need I say more?

I seriously have not seen one single pronunciation about these issues. Nowhere. Not in a single place.

These guys actually don’t care. They are willing to genocide their community if it means money. This is literally against what everyone in this site is for. Watch how this post will get completely ignored, like all the others. Nothing is being done. It’s been a year, no one is thankful for these changes.

Tumblr used to be good. When it was an ACTUAL safe space for people to post whatever they want.

And also reblog this so they know I’m not alone in this sentiment.

[lonely-gfd-cutie]

Gifs on women cuddling their boys are like porn to me. I’m going through the blogs I follow and looking for them. It’s like; Yeah that the stuff. Pet his hair.

[fumblebeefae]

We need to better educate kids on the importance of animals that are typically hated because otherwise you end up with adults who think hating wasps is a personality.

[showyourgutsx]

[honigimohr]

Sleeping next to someone you care about is probably one of the best feelings in the world.

[beewreborn]

[fairywingsss]

i just want someone to play mario kart with

[tiemeup-donttiemedown]

whenever yall talk about consensual somnophilia it’s always the dom instigating it but i gotta tell you

I could really go for waking up from a nap early because my sub decided to start grinding up against me, knowing they’re not allowed to get off themselves but hoping they can get away with it like this, hoping maybe I’ll only wake up halfway and let them get off because I was too sleepy to realize and stop them—

I wanna hear their cute gasp and scramble to seem innocent when I wake up and ask what they think they’re doing. I’d pull them close and tell them that they’ll get a punishment for waking me up later, but for now I want them to put on a show for me. I’m still warm and half-asleep, I wanna watch my sub moan and shiver while they get themselves off in front of me.

Go on baby, grind against my thigh, that’s all you’ll be getting from me. Oh, you need more? You want me to fuck you? Don’t you know I’m just too tired since someone woke me up early? A few light touches is all you’re going to get. Be grateful for that. Be grateful I’m letting you get yourself off and not dragging you down by the hair to take care of me, don’t you know that all that grinding was giving me the nicest dream that you interrupted—

[evilvillaintime]

I hope that boys know that you don’t have to be feminine to get pegged. I’ll eat ya hairy asshole everyday of the week. You big and buff? You no longer a snack. You a whole meal and I’m hungry. 👅💦💦💦

[juukenn]

Sometimes- a lot of the time, shaving is not the mood. I’m with it. Heavy.

[gentle-fem-dom-dude]

Shaving an ass when you’re big and tall is sich effort

[evilvillaintime]

I understand this. You can still get it. 👅💦💦💦

[submissiveguycomics]

Aftercare Series #5: Video games. Sometimes afterwards you feel like you could just save the world.

[saturn--rising]

Even Keanu is pissed that tumblr removed my profile picture! 😡

[your-sweet-poisonn-deactivated2]

I Prefer a “ Baby I’m busy rn but I’ll call you later ” rather than 8 hours with no text back and a sorry ass excuse

Shorty

[voodooprincessrn]

Storm chaser

[sensuality-n-randomness-deactiv]

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