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thatsitso

Happy Magiversary!!!

at-the-end-of-all

has anyone done this yet idk?

parents love giving you job hunting advice that's like Have you tried destroying and betraying yourself for nothing

#truth

punkitt-is-here

currently thinking about how funny it would be to have a group of those kinky mechsploitation lesbian pilots with the fucked up handler hound dynamics and throw one (1 ☝️) super robot shonen girl in there who's completely unaffected

punkitt-is-here

had to draw them

splatoweentown

transfem is not a synonym for a trans person who was amab

transmasc is not a synonym for a trans person who was afab

insisting they are is exorsexist and intersexist

splatoweentown

also transfem is not a synonym for binary trans women

and transmasc is not a synonym for binary trans man

thank you have a good day

animentality

epsilla-deactivated20170214

#zelos wilder #this fucking guy

sketchwavefm

11 Years of Splatoon!!

Game's been around for half my life now which is highkey insane to think about

caspercryptid

I feel like not enough people realize that people under enormous strain act really really fucking Weird

caspercryptid

If someone is doing things that don't make Sense, try to understand that it is entirely possible that their brain is probably under an enormous weight and fracturing under the pressure. People who have been stabbed will sometimes talk a circle around the fact that they've been stabbed because stress and shock prevent you from recognizing the distress you are in and what you need to do to seek help for it. PTSD will do this also. You will find yourself repeatedly jamming a bag of frozen fruit into the same spot in the freezer where it doesn't fit and keeps falling, over and over and over, focused on nothing but that bag. You will decide that a beanbag chair is 10000% necessary to your life. You will lose your entire shit because you stubbed your toe on a table and that means the whole setup of your furniture is wrong. These are largely harmless examples. People under strain will also hurt themselves and others. Cornered animals bite. And it doesn't heal the bite to go "Hey, are you okay?" But it might get you to an animal that stops biting, so you can start to heal. And before you had an animal that bit, you probably had an animal that kept doing shit you didn't understand as stress signals

caspercryptid

Mental illness is Off-putting. Trauma and stress make people hard to be around. There are no perfect victims. If your framework for someone under pressure are people who cry photogenically at home in the bathroom or at night when everyone else is asleep and then wake up and act like they're fine then you will fail to recognize it when your coworker who's normally really nice suddenly blows up on someone for leaving forks in the company sink.

Everyone is going through shit. And it doesn't make it okay for them to treat others badly, but it also sometimes makes it difficult for them to recognize that they're treating you badly, like the person on the phone with 9-11 who no longer realizes that he's telling the operator about his day and not answering questions. When your friend of ten years who has a new boyfriend suddenly starts being a massive bitch to you about your weight maybe she's just being a cunt, or maybe she's internalized some bullshit. You don't have to take that, but you Can go "Hey, what the fuck?" And that is often more helpful than you realize. It is easy to assume that someone who does something cruel is acting with intent, but especially in cases where someone's behavior changed in a short span of time, they aren't, any more than the person who is convinced the beanbag chair is going to fix them.

You don't have to give people endless chances. But you should give them at least one chance. Because on your worst week, it's going to be you crying at your friend's birthday party because she ran out of chili before you got to have some, and you're going to want some grace for yourself.

acertainmoshke

All of this and also, sometimes you just cannot control your reaction even if it’s harmful or mean. Which also doesn’t make it acceptable to treat people poorly, but it does tie into the give people a second or third chance and communicate before deciding they’re just terrible now

caspercryptid

Absolutely! I have PTSD myself and often have extremely intense emotional reactions I cannot control, and in the throws of those sometimes i say and do things that don't make sense— i'm not talking about physical violence or manipulation, my thing for a while was demanding absolutes like "never leave notes for me" and creating invisible rules that my husband tried to follow until too many of them contradicted each other. It's the thing you do after the knee jerk reaction that determines who you are. You need to be able to recognize your own behavior when someone points it out, and to start paying attention to and rectifying it. I love my husband! I never intended to create a secret operating manual for my mental health! And I might not have been at fault for what my ptsd symptoms made me feel but I Am responsible for managing what I do with that afterwards. Sometimes i still jump to making ridiculous demands, but because I've become aware of that, these days I go "wait. Hold on. I'm doing the thing again. Give me a second".

Sometimes that's all it takes.

aristocrating

its 2026 i cannot handle any more fucking "author A obviously ripped off author B" discourse by people Who Have Only Seen the work of author B and admit themselves that they have no further knowledge of the literary landscape they are moving in. like.

insomaniackills

Folks really need to reacquaint themselves with this concept

agentukelele

Stop dehumanizing nonbinary people by calling us Thems.

Stop making posts about Men, about Women, and then Theys. We deserve to be called what our gender is, even if some do go by they/them.

Stop assuming we all go by they. I'm an It with neopronouns. Some folks use He and She. Some of us hate They being used for us.

drizzles-in-paradise

And as someone who is "A They" (partially), my gender identity is more than just my pronoun! Stop reducing nonbinary people to our pronouns or I'm gonna start reducing binary people to He's and She's. Maybe realizing how dehumanizing it feels will make yall stop fucking doing it to us.