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[glittergroovy]

Heaven Help Us - My Chemical Romance

[isuggestplurality]

i understand if you dont answer this for obvious reasons. but as a traumagenic system, why woukd someone do this ? genuinely asking bc it has never been a pleasant experience for me.

sappy ass YAPPING under the cut holy

i just answered an ask where someone with DID talked about how they don't think they would've survived as long as they have without plurality!

i've met so many people on this blog in the short amount of time its existed that love their plurality, that love their headmates. i want to spread that joy to singlets, because being plural doesn't have to be a miserable life. it can be beautiful! it can be joyful!

another part of the reason this blog exists to introduce the idea of plurality to people who are already plural and are suffering because they don't know what it is. we were still plural before we had our syscovery, we just genuinely did not know what that was -- and it was painful. meeting other systems and learning about our own plurality has been a straight up magical experience, even now years later. and we realized we wanted to help others figure this out about themselves when we helped our sister figure out that they were plural!

so yes, people can find joy by discovering that they are not singlets. people can also find joy by becoming plural on purpose.

i've answered asks for people where being a singlet involves dysphoria. i've answered multiple asks that talk about headmate cuddle piles & slumber parties!

i want to acknowledge that you're a traumagen system and your plurality is the result of something that isn't beautiful, and i'm sorry that you don't consider having headmates a pleasant experience! for us, it isn't always pleasant either. i don't want to overstep any boundaries with this suggestion, but there's always a chance that with enough care, patience, and kindness, and love if it applies to you - that despite your origins, you can find not just functionality, but happiness in your plurality.

it's made our and so many other people's lives better, and that's why i suggest it :)

[snoozequest]

i see everyone has the same thoughts

[deceit-and-doubt]

"Welcome back Fountain..!" *Rain pipes up when he gets back.* "I hope you had a nice shower. Where the clothes sufficient..?" *They ask.*

"Ah- Like Rime said; You don't have to answer questions you don't want to." - Umbrella Anon

"..yes.."

[solitaireships]

Caved and bought these. gf and bf incoming

[ciccerone]

"Let us escape from this ball" by 🍚Rrrrrrice🍚 (Rrrrrrice0303)

[vanimeiy]

#Nazha in Georges Hobeika for Glass Magazine dinner event 🌸🌿

[isuggestplurality]

since we've been getting a lot of media recs i'd like to add one of my own!!! i was playing through my source game recently (genshin impact) and the newest lantern rite quest features a very plural-coded character, zibai ✨✨ exciting stuff