#ace ask

[robingoodfelloww]

Day 368

Je est faim

haha

[byyliss]

Ace people, please help me with this:

Can you be ace while feeling attraction towards fictional scenarios?

I'm asking because I feel that, and I'm still struggling with figuring out if I'm truly ace or just traumatized.

[acetolightning]

*to the tune of Sucker for Pain by Imagine Dragons*

I’m just a sucker for angst

At this point who isn’t??? Like so much angst can be done and I have so many ideas rumbling through my fandom mind-

Jay being tortured in Skybound (because let’s be real, he was definitely tortured)

Lloyd being homeless when he was a child

Lloyd being influenced by the Great Devourer’s venom/when he was born he had serpentine features.

Lloyd/Jay being used as batteries by villains.

And my favorite…..I’ll give a little drabble of my Dragonic Weapons AU to feed the angst…..

It wasn’t often that those of differing backgrounds came together, even centuries after the last sighting of the elemental ninjas. Some thought them to be made up legends of old, while others claimed that they were just as real as any other living creature.

Which one was true though? Many thought the answers would never come to fruition, as how does one prove a legend true?

Now, as humans, serpentine, and many others bare watch as weapons made of gold as pure as the First Spinjitzu Master gleamed in the dark cloud of rot and destruction. Their bright color shined along with the purple and black colorization of rotten vines that twisted around each twist and turn. A true ugliness that many found to be near hypnotizing in its display.

Evil shouted out in glee, finding joy as the weapons corrupted to bring forth what many deemed as a fairy tail. Bodies of lightning, ice, fire, and earth formed from the weapons themselves, black vines intertwining into their very being.

The elemental ninjas came to be once more, with corrupted creation taking hold of their mind that once held light and hope.

[ask-chancetale]

How's your relationship with Dream? Are you two friends? Or do you two just greet each other whenever you meet?

[lululawrence]

For your anon who‘s not sure about being asexual here‘s my story: i was married for ten years to the man i thought is my soulmate. In the beginning we had an active sexlife and it got way less active over the years. And it didn‘t bother me. I thought it’s normal, you know. Everyone is saying that you don’t have as much sex when you‘ve been married a while. I didn’t think much of it and also not when i didn’t want to be with someone else sexually after we seperated. First time i read about asexuality was when i joined tumblr in 2015. it took me a while to be sure that this was me, i am asexual. So now i have been single for almost 9 years i never was with anyone else. I do sometimes enjoy reading smut and i also occasionally masturbate, which i enjoy too. I also thought i couldn’t identify as asuxual because of this but i learned that asexuality is a wide spectrum. An umbrella as we call it. There isn‘t THE asexual person, everyone is different and that’s okay.

I hope this helped a bit, if not, I’m sorry. I wish for you anon, to find some clearance about how you identify. It helped me a lot to finally have a name for „my wrongness“ and to know that there is nothing wrong with me or anyone else who identifies as ace. Much love to you!

thank you so much for sharing! your feelings are very relatable for me as well. it was so wonderful to find asexuality and not feel broken anymore. and i LOVE the terms umbrella and spectrum as well, because they really do give such great visuals to explain the wide variety of identities that can all fall under the term asexuality! so varied, so beautiful, and all welcome.

hope this helps, nonnie!!

[asexual-memes]

Ok, so I'm sending this as an ask, but I would really appreciate it if you could just copy and paste and not post my username... But it's up to you. Do you have any advice for a sex-repulsed asexual who is not out (and likely never will be bc of family/friends) who lives in such a sex-filled world? It makes me almost sick to my stomach when people even talk about it. But as I'm about to exit high school it becomes a popular topic amongst friends. Also there's TV and books. How do I stay away?

It’s never going to be easy for us. This world is very driven by sexual things, but you can start by asking your friends and family to change the subject. You can avoid sexual scenes in movies by leaving to use the restroom. Fortunately you are leaving high school, that means the toxic environment surrounding sex will be left behind. If you feel comfortable, I recommend coming out to your friends and explaining. Don’t be afraid to be unapologetically you!

(Please use @asexual-vents next time! I have anonymous asks on over there!!)

[aceinglife]

Hi there, I have a big crush on an ace friend of mine and they might like me back (??). So I wanted to ask if you have some advice for me (I'm allo) on navigating a relationship with an asexual partner? I really don't want to make them uncomfortable or do stuff wrong

Hello!

It’s actually amazing that you’re trying to be conscious of making sure that they’ll be comfortable.

The biggest advice I can give you is to just have very open and clear communication about their boundaries and what they feel comfortable doing. Once you have that communication, they’ll feel more comfortable with setting boundaries, especially if you open up that conversation. Just try to make sure that you respect their boundaries and are understanding with them!

[writeinmysoul]

An Address to the Allosexuals

Stop fucking going through the fucking ace tag please. Why are you even looking through them to begin with? Stop sending anonymous asks to ace people to start shit cause you have nothing better to do and it makes you feel better to invalidate and/or exclude ace people. This shit aggy. I don’t need to hear your dumbass reasons why we don’t exist, or why we shouldn’t be lgbt, or why you’re a cowardly asshole. Y’all asks are getting deleted from here on forth.

Better yet, since y’all already wasting my fucking time, imma just get on desktop and block y’all trifling bitch asses. 5 of y’all hoes has been blocked. ✌🏼