#actuallyclusterc

[smores-crepes]

don't ever date me because I will steal your hoodie AND your personality

[pdtonystark]

on a scale of “I recognize that I steal personality traits from others and sometimes have trouble identifying who I authentically am” to “even the Myers-Briggs test can’t identify a personality type for me” where do you fall?

[jackalteeths]

I hate how it seems like you need to outwardly and completely revoke and remove any hint of anything that could be construed as characteristic of your personality disorder for people to take your recovery seriously. Like yes, clearly there are parts of myself that are quite destructive and counterproductive that I'm working on changing. That being said, a personality disorder is formed through facets of a personality as a means of defense and protection while growing up. A personality disorder is a sword and shield, and while wielding these tools incorrectly is harmful, removing them entirely is dangerous.

[adhdpiko]

adhd: don't ask questions they'll laugh at you for not understanding, you will figure it out jus tp.a y attention

avpd: don't ask questions everyone will pay attention to you and you'll stutter and be ashamed and it's just a Bad Idea

dpd: [slowly raising hand]

adhd & avpd: do not

dpd: how'd you get 7

adhd & avpd: oh my god

[localclusterc]

local cluster c sits in bed for 8 hours waiting for someone to call or text them back

[criedforme]

ppl with bpd and/or avpd would you consider yourself aggressive, passive or passive-aggressive?

[localclusterc]

local cluster c makes a blog for other cluster c’s

[criedforme]

do any of you have experience with suggesting to a therapist/psych that you think you have a certain pd? how did that go?