#actuallyavoidant

[humani-dar-te]

fight or flight mode?? i only have flight or jump into a volcano or bury myself in a hole or lock myself in my room for 3 weeks or move to another continent mode, does that count?

[bpdboyfriend]

i hate the expectation that youre just supposed to be suddenly getting better mental health-wise because youre getting older

like,, im in my mid 20's and my mental health has just gotten worse as ive gotten older...

[avoidantghost]

i miss the people i ghost and take weeks/months to respond to.

[avoidantcreachure]

typing a text like

“yeah no it’s all good sorry i just overreacted because i always assume everyone is mad at me and im afraid to take up any emotional space haha-

*backspace*

“its totally ok! sorry i overreacted, i always assume everyone is mad at me.”

…

*backspace*

“it’s ok! sorry haha”

[dizzociating]

constantly torn between wanting to be someone’s first choice and not ever wanting to deal with the pressure and expectations of being that important to someone

[happywastedyears]

hi just so you know if you have a personality disorder I love you personally

[clusterlgbt]

Shoutout to trans avoidants whose avpd makes it difficult to transition. Maybe we can’t bring ourselves to correct ppl who misgender us, maybe we can’t come out, maybe we’re too scared to seek transition. or maybe despite our fears we have done all these things. or maybe we don’t even want those things.

Either way, trans avoidants - you deserve support and as a fellow trans avoidant i am here for you.

[avid-detachment]

have an urge to create an online presence

post something in a discord server

instant regret! overwhelming shame!

its been hours at this point and i still feel awful!