#actuallyquoigenic

[endo-memes]

[blackboxtheatrecrew]

We made some fronting bracelets together tonight while listening to Smosh Reads Reddit Stories 💁‍♀️💯✨️

🤝Samuel🤝 is kind of annoyed 📝Crowley made his match his lol. I get the subsystem solidarity vision, but maybe he'll wind up changing it to make 🤝Samuel🤝 comfortable. Who knows 🤷‍♀️ I like it at least 😂😂

Anyways we might make more! This was fun even if some of it made us dissociate

⭐️Hailey

Edit: I have mixed feelings, but he can keep it

🤝Samuel🤝

[disordered-system-culture-is]

Welcome!

Welcome to disordered-system-culture-is! We’re a blog for DID/OSDD/other disordered systems (including non-traumagenic disordered systems) to submit asks starting with something similar to “DID culture is”, “OSDD culture is” or something more specific, such as “endogenic DID culture is” or “fictional introject culture is”. We post those into the queue, which should post roughly once a day, provided we have submissions to fill it.

A few rules:

1. No hateful asks. Asks about how much you hate x group or anything similar will be deleted--this isn’t the blog for that. You can post about community issues to a degree, but starting discourse isn’t allowed and will be deleted from the ask box at our discretion.

2. Any disordered systems can send in asks, regardless of origin. This blog explicitly includes endogenic, quoigenic and mixed origin systems, if they are also disordered. This blog was created with systems who are disordered but aren’t usually accepted in traumagenic-only spaces in mind.

3. LGBT-phobia, ableism, racism and anything else similar will not be posted here. You will be blocked and your ask will be deleted.

4. Asks spreading misinformation will be deleted at our discretion. This is referring to anything about plural identities as well as other communities outside of that.

We’d be happy to trigger warn posts if any need it, so definitely tell us if you’d like something to be warned for!

Tags (+ trigger warning tags), resources and other links below!

Resources and Information:

More Than One

Pluralpedia (Editable wiki, should cover basics but might have rarely used terms.)

Links:

Trigger Warning Tags

Dividers link.

[severechaosconnoisseur]

This should be said more often

For some time now I have been browsing Tumblr’s plural tags and every time I feel more and more disgusted with how certain systems mistreat other systems purely because the experiences those systems have do not align with their own. For all those that have been mistreated by sysmeds, i’d like to say the following If you are an traumagenic system, You are valid If you are an endogenic system, You are valid. If you are an quoigenic system, You are valid. If you are a parogenic system, You are valid. If you are a median system, You are valid. If your system is of mixed origins, You are valid. Every single system is valid, no matter the origin or experiences. (TW: Syscourse for the next part) As for those sysmeds that come across this blog and decide that they should get all upset about my words and lash out, by all means, bring it on. There is nothing you can say that will affect me in the slightest. The only thing you will accomplish is me looking at your ramblings while I laugh at your closed mindedness before continuing with my life. Seriously, get over yourself. No matter how much you cry and rage about it all, Non-traumagenic systems will always continue to exist nor will they ever go away.

[sarksdimension]

You do not owe anyone any explanations. You do not owe anyone a trauma story. You do not owe anyone diagnosis papers. You do not owe anyone any information about yourself.

You’re real, regardless of what people online say, and you don’t need to prove yourself to anyone. Stay strong, you’re going to get through this.

[alterhuman-positivity]

Even if you believe your memories to have never happened, they’re still real to you. They matter and they’re important, and they’re no “less” important than past-life memories. If you have exomemories you believe happened, those are also important and real. ALL types of memories are completely valid.

[sparkssystem]

Plurality on Discord

We were recently having dinner with our extended family. At one point, the conversation moved to mental disorders, and our cousin said “I think that, and no offense to you”, looking straight at us, “people shouldn’t make their disorder their entire personality”.

This greatly confused us, what the heck did she mean? We’re not just our social anxiety or ADHD, we talk to her like a normal person. We talk to her on Discord about general life stuff that usually has nothing to do with our disorders, besides the occasional comment that we can’t pick up a phone and call someone.

Then it hit us, we talk to her on Discord, where we tag all of our messages with who’s talking. She knows we’re plural, and in the beginning she said she was ok with everyone in the system talking to her. But we realized that by tagging our posts, we were in a sense shoving our plurality in her face pretty much every time we’ve spoken to her for the past 5 years, even though we almost never actually talked about our plurality.

Our brain then went back to a post we once saw about our general alterhuman Discord server: “it’s plurality-focused”. We were confused by that too, it’s a general server for everything alterhuman, it’s not focused on anything but that. But some systems being very active means PluralKit is shoved into people’s faces every other post, even if they’re talking about otherkin things or about a movie they’re watching. People see a system use a proxy bot and they think of system things because of it.

Tagging posts or using PluralKit (or any other proxy bot) isn’t intended to make people think we’re making everything about plurality. It’s just a way for other people to tell who they’re talking to, but above all else, it’s for the system to feel comfortable posting with their own name and icon. You can suggest changing the account name and icon depending on who’s in the front, but that doesn’t work for systems like us who co-front often and have people randomly show up for a few minutes to type and then leave. It also doesn’t help that we have memory issues that require us to backread things often, and we won’t be able to remember who said what 2 days ago. We need to tag in our DMs and use PluralKit in servers to be able to function properly.

That might seem silly to singlets, and I know that. I literally just watched an argument start up in a non-plural server because PluralKit was added for the server owner, us, and a few other systems that happened to be there. A singlet was very vocal about how the bot wasn’t needed and made things hard to understand and said the comment we’ve had thrown towards ourselves a few times about how using the bot to moderate makes no one take you seriously.

I guess what I’m trying to say is that we’re not meaning to make you think about plurality every time we post, and tagging/using a proxy bot is absolutely needed for our own comfort. We’re also not meaning to come across as our plurality being our entire personality, but to be fair, how we come across greatly differs depending on who you’re talking to, the friendly young kid is not going to act the same as the grumpy old persecutor. Just treat different proxies/headmates like they’re different people that are forced to share a single body and please respect our need to tag our posts and use proxy bots. I know that’s confusing for some people, but there’s really no other way to make a system feel respected and accommodated.

[astroglitching]

Shout out to all you endogenic/non-traumagenic/mixed origin/other origin/supporting systems out there! Ya’ll honestly bring warmth to my cold and icy heart. Keep being you and don’t apologize for existing! Exist loudly and proudly!