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WILDAFFECTIS
[PT: wildaffectis. end PT]
an alteraffectis attraction term for describing the way a wild animal might feel towards a person they trust. this can include feeling safe around this person, a wary sense of trust, respect, loyalty, etc. can be considered an alternative term to tamedaffectis(link)
the symbol in the middle is more of a green color to represent nature. thats it. thats all the meaning i have behind the flag
nichelink: a newly coined niche relationship/relationship dynamic that differs from social norms, but is consensual and aware of potential risks.
differ from the norm: this is flexible and vague on purpose. see the ‘examples’ section.
probably niche: niche, probably not many people will identify as this, it’s just now been invented and posted on tumblr dot com, but it’s still a valid want and identity label.
aware of potential risks: this is inspired by the kink phrase Risk-aware consensual kink or risk-accepted consensual kink (RACK), and it means that everyone in the relationship is silently nodding and acknowledging there might be risks. you don’t have to prove yourself to others on this, don’t feel expected to tell everyone your personal business on how you’re managing this risk, because it’s not their relationship…
consensual: this is inspired by the kink phrase Consensual non-consent. basically it means that everyone in the relationship agreed to have the relationship play out a certain way, and the relationship may play out (maybe in a sort of roleplay-like fashion) like it’s non consensual, but everyone in the relationship is both expecting this to happen and still has the ultimate say on if things need to 100% stop or if it’s time for them to leave the relationship.
newly coined: i want to make it clear that existing relationship dynamics shouldn’t be shoved into this label because that feels disrespectful to those existing words, so essentially this means that existing words for it didn’t 100% describe this dynamic, so you can’t just say xyz thing is actually this term. (however, if you find one of these describes something you've already been doing for years, it's perfectly fine to start identifying with this of course.)
examples:
relationship where one person is treated as if they are an object owned by the other/s in the relationship
relationship where one person is treated as if they are a deity, and the other/s in the relationship are their followers
relationship where one person is treated as if they are a pet owned by the other/s in the relationship
relationship where one person is treated as if they are a child adopted by the other/s in the relationship
relationship where one person is transforming the other/s in the relationship into something
labels under this umbrella have a Ratings System.
All-Ages: a label that is suitable for all ages.
16+: a label that would be best if it was only used by people 16 years or older (bodily). this doesn’t mean that it’s NSFW or something, but should be used when the term has something pretty intense or serious about it which probably shouldn’t be practiced with younger people. all terms under this umbrella that involve identity modification or training are inherently 16+.
18+: a label that is inherently not suitable for people under 18 years (bodily).
grammar:
nichelinking: the state of being in this kind of relationship with someone else. “we’re nichelinking,” “we might start nichelinking”
nichelink: 1) the specific terms themself. “i coined a nichelink,” “definition: an all-ages nichelink where you…” 2) the relationship itself. “our nichelink,” “his last nichelink”
nichelinker: someone who participates in nichelinking.
there is currently no word for having a nichelink-related crush on someone, suggestions welcome.
inspirations
neurowiry
relationship anarchy
roleplay
found family tropes
desirdae
dissomei
my own personal experience of becoming someone’s “dad” - i made a friend in high school who i came out as transgender too, and then as a joke based on how people in the undertale fandom called toriel “mom,” we began referring to me as my friend’s “dad.” this joke stuck and then started genuinely being a serious part of our friendship. reflecting on this made me realize that there’s actually lots of relationships in life that’re similar, where you refer to each other as something unusual and it feels like it changes the entire status of your friendship. i liked the idea of making a word someone can use for this kind of friendship/relationship if they wanted.
i did a lot of writing about what this term means and can be used for and it ended up being long so you can read it on this page. (updated 1/10) here are some of the faq questions (but not all, so please read that page):
is this a k*nk thing?
no, it’s not intended to be. there are plenty of nichelink terms usable by anyone at any age. however if you’re an adult and you find a term appealing and start to use it because of k*nk things, more power to you, go right ahead.
is this anti r*dqueer?
i don’t find it makes sense to say that something that isn’t a stance term/blankqueer term is anti this or pro that. but this term was inspired by r*dqueer “consensual abuse” relationships, and i did start working on this because i saw that there were a lot of people who craved a specific relationship dynamic or way of being treated who felt like they couldn’t get that outside of the r*dqueer community, so i wanted to make a risk-aware and safer alternative that is not attached to a harmful community known for abuse, transphobia, racism, etc.
if you crave being treated a certain way, yes even in a “harmed” way, this term is welcome to you.
can i coin my own?
not yet. i’m still working out the kinks (🥁✨) on definitions and guidelines. i also have a big list of terms i’d like to coin for it. you can send me a request at least.
can i post this term on…
wiki/term definition sites: yes, and you don't have to ask, but i would like to be informed.
pinterest/other social medias: no, never, i'm not comfortable with someone else posting my term for me. go ahead.
RoboHumanaffectis — a tertiary attraction term under the Alteraffectis umbrella that describes the way a Robot/Machine/AI feels about humans/humanity!
[PT: RoboHumanaffectis - a tertiary attraction term under the Alteraffectis umbrella that describes the way a Robot/Machine/AI feels about humans/humanity!]
Feel free to redesign this flag! We aren't very good with flag making :)
Already exists? Consider this an alt flag!
Anyone can use this term, but do know that we are mixed origins system, pro-good faith, pro-objectum, pro-ALL system origins, anti-contact harmful paraphilias, etc. If you'd rather not use a term from someone like us, then that's okay!
We aren't able to add our own image ID, sorry! But we will add one if one ever gets written.
Original coining post for Alteraffectis (link)
No tags because im scared of tomatoes being thrown at me
↬ canniaffectis !
pt; canniaffectis !
canniaffectis - an alteraffectis [link] term describing the way a cannibal feels about their victim. already coined/something similar already coined? consider this an alt!
a @coinfight revenge attack on @honey-makes-mogai ! 5p (base) + 2p (non-gender bonus) + 4p (revenge chain) = 11 points!
also tagging @radiomogai @io-archival @obscurian @rwuffles
Mythaffectis
※ A form of Alteraffectis attraction that describes the way a mythical creature feels about the person who seeks and/or discovers them.
※ Etymology: myth + affectis
※ Notes: Very self-indulgently made two flags, the left is intended for mythical creatures with a more celestial/ethereal theme, the right for nature-aligned creatures.
Tentatively tagging @alteraffectis and @radiomogai
⊂⫘⫘⫘⫘⫘⫘⊃/ᐠ｡ꞈ｡ᐟ\⊂⫘⫘⫘⫘⫘⫘⊃ Image ID 1: a horizontal 7 striped flag. the colors are various shades of blue, starting out dark and getting lighter towards the center. The center stripe is an off-white with a blueish hue. In the middle there's a near black circle with a pale blue diamond shaped outline on the middle, inside it is the alchemic symbol for bismuth, the same pale blue.
Image ID 2: a horizontal 7 striped flag. the colors are various shades of brown and green, starting out with a bark brown and fading into a light pastel green towards the center center. The center stripe is an off-white with a yellow-ish hue. In the middle there's a near mint circle with a black diamond shaped outline on the middle, inside it is the alchemic symbol for bismuth, the same pale blue.
Masktosaffectis
Pt: Masktosaffectis :end pt
Flag id: a horizontal 7 striped flag. the colors are from the center out as dark red, light pinkish orange, grey, and white. In the middle there is a dark red circle with a black diamond shaped outline on the middle, inside it is the alchemic symbol for bismuth which is the same color. :end id
An alteraffectis attraction (link) label described by how a mask feels towards a wearer.
Mention / tags: @alteraffectis, @radiomogai, @rwuffles, @scr-ppup, @discrophy, @boingogender, @colablob
Banner transcript: This term was made by an Endogenic. Anyone can use it however (So don't repost or recoin, ask before adding to wikis) :End Transcript
❀ A little possum approaches with a gift!
{PT: A little possum approaches with a gift!}
❀ Vamporaffectis ❀ Vampallaffectis
Can also be called Vampdonoraffectis and Vampthrallaffectis
Vamporaffectis- An alteraffectis term describing the way a vampire feels about their blood donor
Vampallaffectis- An alteraffectis term describing the way a vampire feels about their thrall
Etymology- Vamp[ire]-[don]or-[alter]affectis : Vamp[ire]-[thr]all-[alter]affectis
{PT: Vamporaffectis, Vampallaffectis. Can also be called Vampdonoraffectis and Vampthrallaffectis. Etymology for vamporaffectis is vamp from vampire, or from donor, affectis from alteraffectis. Etymology for vampthrallaffectis is vamp from vampire, all from thrall, affectis from alteraffectis.}
Based on donoraffectis and thrallaffectis by @idwl , respectively! These terms are the inverse of void's terms, made for my partner @vampiric-gay-chaos <3
Vamporaffectis is a similar term to Sanguaffectis, but vamporaffectis is specifically about blood donation (willing/consensual or otherwise) whereas sanguaffectis is about feeding more generally. (from what i can tell)
Tagging: @radiomogai @stary-baa @not-victor-ann @starry-p @starzjay @kaz-kazoo @daybreakthing @vampiremogai @vampitsm (i just figured you last two would be interested in this term, ill remove you if you'd like!)
Alterhuman 4 Alterhuman
flag for alterhumans who have a preference or exclusively date other alterhumans
or
alterhumans who feel attraction to alterhumans exclusively or more often than humans
could be shortened to AH4AH
a similiar term already exists but it was only for rose attraction so i made a version that aro/ace alterhumans can use :3
anyone under the alterhuman umbrella can use this
im sorry if the flag looks a bit wonky i drew it with my thumb on my phone lol 😭😭
