Hey guys it’s been a minute! I wanted to release this observation from the vault before the new year. I meant to post this earlier this year. As always, these are my personal observations! I am not a professional astrologer. Take what resonates leave what doesn’t. If you would like to correct me politely do so. I love your feed back! Please don’t forget to credit me if you use my work thank you!
🦋 There’s a possibility that when the moon transits your 3rd, 8th, 9th, 12th house and you study astrology, or any subject you’re interested in really, you tend to study it more on these days!
🦋 I have noticed celebrities with a high following count or celebrities in general that do not follow anyone on instagram have either one or two mutable placements in their big three and elsewhere in their chart. It’s sooo mutable coded.. that “holier than thou” complex is screaming.
🦋 In my last post, I discussed how water signs and Aquarius like anime. Well I found out that Japan is an Aquarius sun and it has a bunch of Scorpio placements. I find this combo of Aquarius and Scorpio in Japans natal chart to be very interesting because there’s something I recently discovered about the “dark side” of japan which basically entails the people there experience vulgar, perverse and negative effects of hyper sexuality. There is a lot of hyper sexuality in anime for sure. Heavy Saturn and Pluto influences can definitely make something like that more prominent in a society. And if you look into japans history in general… yea I’ll let you guys look into it yourselves
🦋 it is common to find prominent Saturn and Pluto influences in the charts of people who come off as predatory in the natal chart. Not to say that Saturn and Pluto energy is all vile and dark but it can get there if someone is actively giving into their shadow
🦋 “Yes I’m changing” by tame impala is a theme song for Scorpio risings
🦋 idk about yall but Scorpio suns and moons aren’t as mysterious as they claim to be. This is my personal opinion and being I’m a Scorpio rising, I think people in general have a natural disposition to tell me all their traumas on the first conversation but especially those placements maybe because they feel safe with me. This is mainly about Scorpio suns with fire or air risings, or Scorpio moons with fire or air risings/suns. They also post all the time but claim to be mysterious and I just sit there like baby where is the mystery?? I honestly think they are more sneaky than mysterious.
🦋 I can always tell when I’m around another Scorpio rising because they don’t disclose their private life upon first few conversations and the intensity is felt from miles and miles away. A lot of us wear black on a regular basis too.
🦋 Leo Venus people are known to have high standards but genuinely at the end of the day want someone they can belly laugh with and sparks creative inspiration is their ideal love interest.
🦋 Cancer placements especially in the big three are sooo nurturing when developed. They’ll give you anything under the sun if they love or care about you. An underdeveloped cancer like their other water sign companions will do nice things for you to hold it over your head if need be
🦋 Having a chart that occupies all quadrants is lowkey sick. I say this as in having planets in all quadrants of your natal wheel. Having almost or every modality in the natal chart. A chart with planets and points in all sectors shows the possibility of going through a difficult transit throughout the entirety of your life
🦋 Navigating life is much easier when you have compatible elements in your big 3. Same modality works too but I think the opposition is worse than the square. The square helps us grow past the tension faced whereas the opposition is a constant on going battle that you have to balance. Most people I know have either a trine, sextile and square in their big three.. but I have an opposition and in-conjunction and semi sextile in my big 3.. it’s not an easy feat.
🦋 Medusa asteroid (149) in the first house. People will always compliment your hair as if it’s the most beautiful thing they’ve ever seen. I also realize many people are quick to want to touch it without consent.
🦋 Bella asteroid (695) conjunct Venus — you are beautiful and gorgeous x2. Bonus points if conjunct your ascendant or midheaven
🦋 Just like Leo— if you have Capricorn energy in your chart, even if it’s one placement, it will consume and or outshine the other energy of your chart. And yes it can consume Jupiter energy. Jupiter energy to me gives “ever expanding” mutable energy and Saturn energy is immovable. If you have both in your chart I think Leo energy takes over more unless it’s in a minor placement and you are Saturn ruled or stellium/prominence in your chart .
🦋 Doing the themes of your moon sign house is what helps keep your emotions stable. I.e: Moon in 2nd when your finances are stable, making money and you actively take care of your beauty regimens, moon in 5th when you’re actively creating new things and doing activities you love, moon in 6th when you’re actively working on your health and wellness and have a healthy work environment. Moon in 11th when you are surrounded by a supportive community, when you’re giving back to your community, moon in 12th when you are getting a proper rest, regularly taking care of your mental health i.e having a therapist
🦋 Saw a tweet that said if you have planet(s) with tight orbs to mars, don’t come for them because they’ll get crazy and I can 100% confirm on my end this is true. I have my Uranus and Mercury sextile my mars and I can Molly wop you with my words and fists if you really test me. The more aspects you have the more lethal you are.
🦋 Bonus points for going to hell with your words with Mercury aspecting Mars if you’re Mercury has mercurial degrees 3,15,27/6,18 and your mars has Martian degrees 1,13,25,8,20,10,22. Applies to all major aspects but squares may cause someone to bite their tongue more then explode.
🦋 Sun 1st house synastry you can almost always feel immediate comfort with that person. They just get you! They see you!
🦋 All first house synastry makes you feel like the planet person instinctively gets you and vise versa. The energy flows and it’s easy.
🦋 This can also apply to angular (cardinal) 1st and 7th and cadent (mutable) houses 3rd and 9th the synastry energy between one another is complimentary and you share a lot of the same values.
🦋 lot of fortune conjunct sun is so beautiful. It feels like your destinies are aligned and the planet person brings you luck and good fortune. Very lighthearted for the most part. You feel inspired to work together, level up and shine together. POF wants to see the sun win.
🦋 I also love lot of Eros conjunct a personal placement in synastry. It’s awesome to have it both ways but lot of Eros lovessss the planet person even against their will sometimes. Whether platonic or romantic, the planet person is your ideal type
🦋 What is your rising sign and what big three placements have you had the best relationship with? Platonic or romantic. I tend to love the connections I make with people that have placements in my 5th house and 9th but I loveeee 11th and 3rd house synastry. It’s always gonna hit especially if you have air placements in your chart. I’m fire and air dominant so this kind of synastry is my fav because it’s lighthearted and I’m always learning something.
🦋 People don’t acknowledge the 11th and 3rd to be romantic but the 11th house is about your future, friendships, hopes, communities, long term goals and 3rd house is communication and immediate environment. Having synastry with someone like this could be more friendship inclined but I believe you need to be friends with your lover for it to last.
🦋 4th and 10th are angular but ruled by cancer and Capricorn so it’s more vulnerable and stern energy that can make you feel uncomfortable but ideally having this synastry with someone will make you want to establish a home and career with. That energy in synastry can become very intimate and profound at its best.
🦋 6th and 12th are cadent houses ruled by Virgo and Pisces. It’s the houses of service. It is tricky because the person can understand you on a profound level but also there’s an air of discomfort regarding that these people can see all the ugly parts of your day to day and subconscious/unconscious and it’s bewildering. These are considered enemy houses but I think it’s easier to manage if you have planets in those houses and vice versa because of the conjunction aspect
🦋 I genuinely love 6th house synastry and it works even better if it overlays for both parties involved I.e your Jupiter falls into their sixth house and their Venus in your 6th house. You guys are willing to help each other a lot throughout your day to day routine. You can also get super annoyed by said person.
🦋 6th house synastry only works for people who love acts of service. I think every eldest daughter should experience this. It’s nice being catered too. It can get toxic and nitpicky when the relationship is coming to an end but that doesn’t mean it always will!
🦋 I think and succedent (fixed: Taurus Leo Scorpio Aquarius/ 2H 5H 8H 11H) house synastry can make you deeply understand each other overtime but it comes with more discernment. This synastry comes with a lot of comfort as you get to know one another. Fixed synastry can either take you guys longer to open up to one another or you can open up really fast and then you’re obsessed and motivated to build an empire together because that is what fixed energy does best! It can also mean it takes a lot of time to let go when it’s no longer working, especially when the parties have fixed natal placements as well.
🦋 The most easy breezy succedent synastry to have is 5th house for sure. Top tier she’s a blast to have. Love 5th house synastry with my friends and lovers! Easily feel like your inner child is at peace with that person
🦋 When looking at a synastry chart, the planets/points that are the most aspected in your synastry chart shows the themes of that relationship.
🦋 For example I had a lot of Pluto and Chiron aspects on both sides of one of my situationships there was also some 8th house synastry at play. It was very vulnerable and DEEP from our first conversation but as time passed, our dynamic grew to be uncomfortable because dude was fighting demons. My Chiron and Pluto was touching their personal planets and their Chiron in tight aspects and a few of my planets were in his 8th house. With this connection, I had my first ego death, started getting really deep into tarot and astrology. I also experienced a huge transformation in my life.
🦋 The other relationship had many Venus aspects and 7th house synastry on both ends so there was a lot of love and mutual respect and it essentially taught me how to show up in love and assert what I want in relationships. Very hedonistic relationship as well. This is a person I wanted to build a future with. But it kinda became co dependent towards the end and it was really hard for us to let go of one another.
🦋 7th house synastry when it’s becoming co dependent or toxic, you can absolutely feel the hater energy. I think it comes more from the planet person. Combine this with some 6th house synastry and you realize they were lowkey hating on you all along
🦋 Their moon fell into my 7th and towards the end they always came at how I handled things emotionally and my Venus fell into their 7th and I would talk down on how they presented themselves aesthetically or how they showed up in love wasn’t enough. My Venus was square his moon, my Saturn was square his Venus and our venuses opposed though so remember aspects are always important!!
🦋 Prominent sun (east aspects + conjunction) synastry may entail comfort and mutual respect in matters of the persons ego and vitality. With hard aspects there is battle of the egos and personality but with compromise and finding common ground the relationship can go far.
🦋 Prominent moon synastry can entail a very emotionally intimate relationship with positive aspects, negative aspects may entail misunderstandings and putting in a lot more effort to come to a conclusion on emotional matters.
🦋 Prominent Mercury synastry can create easy understanding with each other. Similar ways of processing information which I think is VERY important in compatibility and people overlook Mercury synastry but nah. Comprehension is so important. Negative Mercury aspects show common miscommunications and having a harder time finding common ground. The debates are always interesting despite the aspects imo
🦋 Prominent Venus energy shows a very loving, endearing relationship, when positive the love languages are complimentary and as I stated earlier it can be very hedonistic in the best ways if you are into that. Negative Venus aspects shows incompatibility in the long term but the tension keeps things alive and passionate for as long as possible and that can be til the grave if you choose.
🦋 Prominent Mars and Saturn synastry productive, goal oriented, responsible and committed to growing together in its best energy. In its worst, I can imagine it to be repressive (Saturn) and aggressive or passive aggressive (Mars) in communication/behavior if counterparts are under developed.
🦋 A lot of Uranus synastry would be really fun and spontaneous at its best and volatile, unpredictable and conniving at worst. A lot of Neptune energy would be kind of seeing one another in a haze, idealizing one another. A healthy amount is good and when Neptune is negatively aspected to personal planets, you rarely see them clearly and can overly idealize them.
🦋 Pluto synastry as I stated can be transformative always for better or worse depending on if both of the individuals are developed. Bonus: Lilith synastry energy can have a piercing focus on the dark taboo parts of yourself. Positive aspects will always have a more balanced approached to exploring these sides with one another but negative aspects with a lot of Lilith can also possibly cause wanting to dominate or control your counterpart.
🦋 MC (Midheaven) synastry with positive aspects allows you two to actively work together on career goals.
🦋 People that have experienced limerence at least once in life, do you have prominent water placements or houses? I also think limerence can also take place if you, partner A has one sided water house (your planets falling into planet B water houses) and then there’s synastry that’s more “platonic coded” like partner b has a bunch of planets that fall into partner A air houses or vice versa. Ultimately oblivious to the effect they have on you.
🦋 I think people are more prone to having limerence if they have prominent water house placements but more specifically sun, moon, Venus in the 12h in your natal chart. Their needs were not met by their caretakers in developmental years and later feel this need to have reciprocation from people they’re interested in even if they know they aren’t compatible
🦋 I don’t believe in certain houses pertaining to strictly “platonic synastry overlays” because I think you need houses like the third, eleventh and even 6th to want to regularly be around each other because there’s a sense of friendship and camaraderie. Especially with 6H synastry, both parties actively help one another with their day to day and be comfortable in each others space which helps any relationship thrive. BUT I do agree if there is a lack of romantic synastry aspects, the relationship may be more suited for a platonic connection. Everything needs balance.
🦋 The most romantic synastry aspects to me is moon conjunct or trine Venus, Venus conjunct or trine Jupiter, Venus conjunct or trine mars obv, Jupiter conjunct or trine sun or moon, mars conjunct sextile or trine Jupiter, personal planets trine or conjunct the ascendant
🦋 If you’re earth or water dominant you may prefer synastry where your planets are overlaying your 2,6,10 for stability and growth 🌍 and 4,8,12 for emotional, psychological, subconscious depth in your connections
🦋 Air or fire dominance may like 3,7,11 synastry overlays for intellectual stimulation and compatibility and 1,5,9 for passionate love affairs and inner child comfort, mutual ideologies found in one another
🦋 One thing I’ve come to realize is that I have immediate resonance with someone that share the same sun house placement even if they are in different signs. Example: if my sun is in my 5th in libra house and my friend’s sun is in their 5th house Capricorn. I also feel this resonance with people that have their sun in compatible houses. So if I have my sun in 5th and they have their sun in the 9th or 1st (fire ruled houses). Even if their sun falls differently into my chart, because we share similar energy that those houses bring, it’s match made synastry in my humble opinion
Okay that’s all for now! I am grateful if you stayed this long and I hope you enjoyed my insights. I don’t post a lot because this is a hobby for me but I love astrology and I love y’all.
