Hi, it’s Rhys. You may know me from such things as these wings I wore at a convention in DC. To this day, this cosplay is one of my absolute favorite and I’m very proud of the work I did on them, and I’m eternally thankful to the people who helped me get to the convention.
The pictures of me at that convention are pictures of me in the best shape of my life. But no more than a year later, I found that my body was beginning to deteriorate. I had to quit my job, find all new hobbies while fighting major depression and some other mental illnesses that I was able to ignore while physically able.
I’m no longer able to take care of myself, and rely almost entirely on my partner and best friend to cook and clean. At this point, I am disabled to the point of walking with crutches, and I can’t do any of the small fiddly work that comes with cosplay for longer than a few minutes at a time. Furthermore, my physical ability continues to deteriorate.
This means giving up on dreams, lots of them. It means accepting myself as I am, every day. It means living on a budget that doesn’t allow for most medical testing I might need for a diagnosis. A budget that doesn’t allow any missteps. It means being frightened every day and facing that fear with the knowledge that the only thing keeping me afloat right now is the kindness of strangers and friends and the generational wealth my family has.
But one of our biggest expenses as a family of four is food, so I decided to go into livestock farming. I know that’s absolutely out of left field, but let me explain my logic. I went to an agricultural college. I kill every plant I touch, but I have a deep affinity for animals. I figured out that we can supplement our income with animal products, and eventually reduce our dependence on factory farms. Plus, animals have their own legs, so I don’t have to be super awesome at using mine when I’m not feeling great.
So we started getting into it. I got chicks and brooded them in the house until they were old enough to go outside. I built a chicken tractor to drag around the backyard to give them fresh pasture every day. They’re coming up on laying age now, and we’re going to have amazing fresh eggs.
Our next ventures are other small animals that we can keep on our suburban property, rabbits and quail. Our goal with each of these animals is to replace one meal a week. Someday soon, we’ll have the room to raise our own meat chickens, sheep, pigs, and cattle.
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