#bodyshamingiswrong

[annarrchy]

ήθελα να εκφράσω τη γνώμη μου, πάνω σε ένα θέμα που αφορά, όχι μόνο εμένα, αλλά και το μεγαλύτερο ποσοστό του πληθυσμού και δεν θα έπρεπε.

υπάρχουν ακόμα, άτομα που κρίνουν τους υπόλοιπους, με βάση ΤΟ ΣΏΜΑ ΤΟΥΣ.

πχ. "γιατί βγαίνει έτσι στην παραλία;"

ή "γιατί υπάρχουν τα plus size μοντέλα και γιατί θεωρούνται όμορφα;"

Ε λοιπόν αγαπητέ φίλε, εσύ που τα λες αυτά, μάλλον δεν μπορείς να καταλάβεις πώς μπορεί να το διαχειριστεί ο κάθε άνθρωπος.

και τώρα ήρθε η ώρα για το story time.

ποιο μικρή, δεν με έλεγες παχουλή, αλλά πολλά παιδιά με σχολίαζαν επειδή, είχα λίγο πιο chubby μάγουλα.

εγώ νιώθοντας ανεπαρκής και ανασφαλής, ξεκίνησα να τρώω συγκεκριμένα πράγματα και πολλές φορές ΝΑ ΜΗΝ ΤΡΩΩ, με αποτέλεσμα να αποκτήσω νευρική ανορεξία.

και τώρα θα μου πείτε, ας μην τους άκουγες, ας έτρωγες, ας, ας, ας.

Ε λοιπόν, θεωρώ πως ένα παιδί στην ηλικία των 11 ετών δεν είναι τόσο χαλαρό με τέτοιου είδους θέματα, και δεν μπορεί να τα διαχειριστεί σωστά.

οι γονείς μου προσπαθούσαν από την αρχή να με κάνουν να νιώσω άνετα με αυτό που ήμουν, και πραγματικά σε κάποια φάση το είχα ξεπεράσει εντελώς.

φέτος το καλοκαίρι, ξαναβγήκαν αποτελέσματα εξετάσεων και μάθαμε πάλι πως έχω νευρική ανορεξία.

υπήρχε περίπτωση να χάσω την ζωή μου εξαιτίας της ανασφάλειας που μου είχαν δημιουργήσει μερικά έξυπνα παιδιά 3 χρόνια πριν.

πραγματικά, το γεγονός πως είμαι ακόμα ζωντανή, το χρωστάω στην οικογένεια μου, τους φίλους μου, ακόμα και στα άτομα που ενώ δεν με ήξεραν πολύ καλά, είχαν μάθει τις "φήμες" που κυκλοφορούσα σταδιακά, όπως "αυτή έχει ανορεξία και σε δύο μήνες θα πεθάνει." χωρίς να ξέρω ούτε εγώ ή ίδια ότι είχα 2 μήνες.

εξαιτίας των ατόμων αυτών, στάθηκα στα πόδια μου, και αποφάσισα να μην αφήσω την διατροφική μου διαταραχή να καταστρέψει την ζωή μου.

και τα κατάφερα.

ήθελα λοιπόν, πρώτα να ευχαριστήσω όσους στάθηκαν στο πλάι μου, εκείνη την περίοδο και να παρακαλέσω όσα άτομα κάνουν σχόλια για το σώμα των υπόλοιπων ανθρώπων να το σταματήσουν γιατί, ο κάθε άνθρωπος το εκλαμβάνει διαφορετικά ένα σχόλιο, μπορεί να αποβεί μοιραίο για τη ζωή ενός παιδιού, έφηβου, ενήλικα, υπερήλικα.

Αν έφτασες μέχρι εδώ, ευχαριστώ που αφιέρωσες λίγο από τον χρόνο σου για να διαβάσεις τις σκέψεις μου.<3

[bushrazkhan]

Just trying to get in touch with my childhood self. She was bullied by pretty much everyone for being a chubby kid, I wanted to allow her to feel sad and angry, so I made this.

[juliansison]

Hidden | Julian Sison

An original song  created by a student to open the mind of people about body shaming. The main goal of this song is to comfort and help the victim of body shaming to build their confidence and to show other people that we have our own beauty. This beauty must be appreciated and not to judge on what we can see but to feel and understand what true beauty is. I hope that this song reach the people who are in need, before it is too late.

note: Images used in the video are original and not taken from search engines. 

[thebohochicc]

" You're so fat."

" Your body is disgusting."

" You should not wear that dress. "

" You are so skinny , you need to eat and put some meat on your bones."

" You are ugly , you have scars on your face."

" Your skin is so tanned, why don't you do something to detann it."

" You should not wear body hugging tops as it shows your curves ."

These things must have been said to every person at least once in their lifetime . Do you ever think how it feels to know that our body is disgusting ?. That person was already struggling inside to cope up with the society's benchmarks . But rather than going penny for their thoughts , we ended up being a critic. It lowers one self confidence and self esteem to such level that a person start taking his lumps thinking that he is not worth of anything.

The society has spelt out noxious standards of beauty and how one must look to garner appreciation and if we do not attain those benchmarks then we summon condemnations that make us question our own bodies and this is what we call " BODYSHAMING".

Bodyshaming is lot more dangerous than we think , its one of the major problem of mental illness which leads to depression, anxiety and social isolation.

Many people think that they are doing a favour by telling others that their body is not perfect . No you're not. Words matter, and have the power to hurt. Even when we don’t realize it, words can cause someone to pursue unrealistic expectations about their body.

We live in a society where it is considered OK for someone to judge another person, on whatever grounds they feel. Being scrawny is bad, and being stout is unacceptable. If a person is too dark or too fair, he or she should be mocked. Again, if you are too tall or too short, you are definitely not acceptable in society.

I just want to emphasize on the fact that every living creature is beautiful in their own ways. No one deserve to be criticized on the basis of how they look. Bodyshaming is so common that we don't even realize doing that. Just choose your words wisely before you speak because it really effects other person mental health, peace and confidence.

[jlibrn-blog]

Address to everyone and to you who sends me a message? The next time you do "body shaming?" I’ll broadcast YOU! People like you deserve no place on earth, instead of boosting everyone’s self-esteem, you do the other way around. Your life must be so sad and full of insecurities, get a life girl! Ladies, don’t let society defines you! Flaunt your flaws, and keep shining! Your imperfections makes YOU UNIQUE! And we got this 💪🏽👑 💖✨ . . . #stopbodyshaming #bodyshamingiswrong #bodyshamingisnotokay #bodyshamingisforlosers (at Sydney, Australia)

[2000curlyheads]

Body shaming

the unspoken side of bodyshaming

Have you ever got an unpleasant comment about your body from a friend, a colleague or even a stranger? Have you ever got an unpleasant comme

Have you ever got an unpleasant comment about your body from a friend, a colleague or even a stranger?

As a skinny , underweight and flat in terms of beauty standards made by god knows who gal , I've heard since a young age, the not as funny as they think comments : 'you need some meat on those bones’ , 'you look like you're 13'. It's actually ironic how i only figured out that i was skinny when people started pointing it out to me. And i think a lot of girls and boys will relate to these situations. But i didn't know this when i was fighting my own battle, i felt alone. That's why normalizing all body types is crucial.

written by Arij Ouechtati

[bipolar-unausgeglichen]

https://bipolar-unausgeglichen.blogspot.com/2020/12/bodyshaming-leider-immer-noch-ein-thema.html

Bodyshaming - leider immer noch ein Thema

Bodyshaming leider immer noch ein Thema. Wir müssen uns nur selbst wohl fühlen und akzeptieren.

[insecurewhore]

Do guys only date girls who have perfect bodies...

Cause I dont !! And if my body is the reason for our break up then let's do it. Cause I am not changing the way I look. I am not gonna reduce weight or change the way I look just because the guy who I have a crush on likes slim girls or girls with plastic surgery...

It is so hard for me to be confident enough about my body...cause everyday there is someone or the other asking me "have you gained weight ?" Or " look at her she looks like a ball" ..." guys only like you cause you have big breast.." "no one like you cause you look like a big fat panda"

"You are just a slut...whore"

Am I??? ..What did I do to deserve this ??..

I cant do this anymore...