#boyfriend problems

[angelicxchao]

when everyone and their mother tells me to break up with him but they really underestimate my ability to let anything slide as long I love them

[ennira]

Guys this boy I really liked suddenly ghosted me and I want to revenge him. My fried sent me an idea to put his number on a bunch of keys I buy from eBay so he gets a bunch of random people calling about his keys. That’s pretty good. He might change his number then tho n then we really lose contact maybe. I don’t have his addy to send random magazines. What else can I do

[handjkkkk]

am i in the wrong ???? me and my bf have been together for 2 years now and we are always freaky with eachover , over the phone and in person but over the years or well months it has drasticly changed to more like every night to every week to every few weeks to months and well im still very freaky alot and most of the time he is not , only when im there so he can finish cause be doesnt like to beat his meat and i totally respect that but i always feel emty some days i feel like he doesnt find me as attractive as i was in the beginning and most nights i will say im in the mood and he will just have an excuse always being something stupid and it always changes like he is to busy or to tired or not feeling well or the most common one is that he still gets in the mood from time to time just not as much which i think is total bullshit cause he is never like that except when were alone he doesnt worship me like he did and he does not know how to arouse me even if i ask him and im just so bloody tired of getting rejected and begging him to just try and told no having to ignore my feelings for his every single time i ask him , what should i do?

[sholawilde]

[kikokikokikokikokiko]

what do you do when you love your boyfriend but you arent in love with him and every time you try to get yourself to break up with him you freak out and cant get yourself to type anything

[sup3r-st4rz]

is it bad that i literally never wanna talk to my boyfriend anymore… like i love him but ive got way too much going on rn and talking to him actually drains me so much

[fragmentsofmesblog]

An ending is never easy.

My boyfriend is leaving today, and it's my decision.

I'm still unsure because the past few weeks have been awful. Being a victim of narcissism has made me hyper-aware, but that's not always a good thing. I studied it extensively after my experience to stay alert and aware because it can destroy you. We tend to use the term lightly—I'm guilty of that too—but if we truly read about it, we all have a bit of narcissism in us. That said, I've been so aware that I haven't been easy to deal with. Despite certain actions and his cheating, which I chose to forgive because I understood the circumstances and truly wanted this to work, things haven’t improved. Logan being involved in my life was something I mentioned; I missed my friend. He said he never stopped me from seeing Logan, and that's true, but he didn’t make me feel comfortable or show kindness when I talked about Logan. He never said no, and I could have continued, and I did, but he was moody when I got back.

After his honesty yesterday, I realized that no, I'm not a victim of narcissistic abuse again—I just see it everywhere. I even called my son and Logan names in anger before. He's simply someone who probably hasn't dealt with someone like me—a serious woman who doesn't behave like his exes did. He's suffered too, and I won't slander him, especially when I haven't always been the best person to him either.

His things are still here, and I'm standing firm, but I don't want this situation at all. I was happy; I was just triggered, ignored, and in arguments, he wasn't very nice. He doesn't know, nor is he obligated, to fix what others did to me or understand how the little things can push me over the edge.

I wanted more time with him, because we do have a bond, similiar thoughts and wants in a normal realtionship, i just dont want to be in constant flight or fly mode or overthink everything, shout at him or be always moody over the littlest trigger which i do have to admit he doesnt help in that part, weather on purpose or because hes a normal person and i take things to much to heart. This is going to hurt because there is no rage or anger, just upset and know that if i decide to try again i loose Logan.

This morning, my son asked me to reconsider and mentioned that I haven’t been easy on him. He said he needs more time to learn how to handle things with me and that any other man might have hit me or left by now. Despite me ignoring him for days, he hasn’t left and spent the day asking my son how I was, even asking again this morning.

My son feels conflicted because he has known him for years. As an athlete and a member of the same club, my son knows this behavior is completely out of character. He even saw him being beaten up by his ex in front of everyone at a football game.

It's hard to let someone go when you love them and keep questioning if enough time was given or if trying one more time is the answer.

Unfortunately, in my life, I can't seem to be fully happy. If I'm happy in one area, I lose someone, hurt them, or they end up mad at me.

I feel misunderstood.

I can't understand certain attitudes or why, all of a sudden, I can't seem to connect with anyone anymore, which is making me question my decisions.

All I know is that my heart is bleeding, and I just want it to scar and heal. I want everything in place and to have everyone I love in my life—not necessarily together—but without it being a problem.

I need my dad right now; he always understood me. But now he's old, and I don’t want to burden him.

Well anyway, going back to bed. Laters ..

[hoidianslips]

breaking up with your bf/gf/friend because they refused for years to try [insert thing you KNOW they would love] until a random person who doesn't know them at all said they should is a valid reason.