The one thing that probably keeps me going, is the strength and growth that has happened within me. And within that growth, I realized that I grew for a short time and eventually go back slowly to the ugly and bad. Never for too long did the good stay.. So back to the "ugh my life stinks, I don't have time. Why me?" And I can't speak for others but I got to a point in my life where I said, "I have to do something. I just feel like my life isn't suppose to be at this location and at this time." I was so mad and upset that usually I'd say what's the point? And keep doing nothing to improve my life. But that one night, I just said, think differently , only you can change your life." The next day I got up, I said a prayer. As the days went on, I looked at things from a positive side. The good side. Do I mean there's never going to be the bad and ugly. Hell no! LOL . you're going to spill coffee on you. That red light. Its gonna happen, that promotion you might not get it: YET! And these might be things in the moment that upset us, we can't think about that. And speaking for myself I'm usually saying "What. The. Fuck." I could stay mad at a thing or a person for a while and not let it go, but I saw that effect. While you're mad the other person is living their life all happy. I just couldn't do it anymore. And if you ask me how, I will say; it may be hard to accept now but it was probably for the best. Or something better is going to happen. Life's crazy and we're all going to experience the good, the bad, and ugly. But the main goal is to always think good.