#demisexual stuff

[scretladyspider]

What the terms Graysexual, Gray Ace and Demisexual mean, as explained by a Demisexual

There is a lot of confusion both offline and online about what terms exist under the asexual spectrum, why asexuality is considered a…

There is a lot of confusion both offline and online about what terms exist under the asexual spectrum, why asexuality is considered a spectrum identity, and what the words that exist within it mean and don’t mean. More specifically there is a lot of confusion about the words graysexual and demisexual, two identities that are housed under the asexual spectrum. Here, I hope to help you understand it better from my own demisexual/graysexual perspective, starting with the basics and then discussing the specifics of these spectrum identities.

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[definitelydivergent]

Me: *unexpectedly experiences sexual attraction/arousal of even a small amount*

Me: I HAVE BEEN COMPROMISED PANIC WUAT IS THIS FEELING SO SUDDEN AND NEW

[youknowwhosarmy]

You find a person attractive and it's all downhill from there

[madammuffins]

Muffmom I am LIVING for your Demi af playlist holy FUCK

Oh thank you 🖤

There were too many that were about true love or "the one" but like, real talk, most of my life I've had to be okay being single, not being with my soul mate.

So... yeah.

[yourgfdpunk]

Mr. Rochester was demisexual.

Fight me (ง •̀_•́)ง

[trickster-chariot]

When I get a boyfriend I am buying the hottest, fanciest, expensive lingerie set on the face of the earth and no one can talk me out of this ridiculous purchase

[rumbutt]

Sexual attraction is such a weird thing for me though...

It’s like humor.  There are some things that I find funny, but they don’t make me laugh.  I still laugh, to communicate that I found it amusing, but I don’t actually have that reflex where I have to laugh.  And then there are things that do make me laugh, where if I don’t want to laugh it’s an effort to hold it in.

That’s what my sexual attraction is like, honestly.  Like, there are people and characters where I’m all “HOT DAMN” but it’s like the laugh that I use to communicate something is funny to me.  And then there are people with whom I get emotionally invested and I feel attraction to them down in the pit of my stomach.  And it’s such a strong feeling that it’s actually almost unpleasant, it makes me feel a little nauseated honestly.

And I always wonder if that pit of the stomach feeling I get when I’m completely attracted to someone is something that a lot of people experience on a daily basis, just looking at random people that they don’t even know.  And if so, how the fuck do they function?!  Cause I have trouble dealing with it, and it only happens to me with like, two people in the whole damn world.

[grayfriend]

i would’ve done something for aceday but i look hella gross and feel awful