#enben

[pointless-moss]

friendly reminder that yuri and yaoi are in fact gendered (girl love and boy love respectively if you didn't know) and therefore not the correct term/terms to describe relationships that involve nonbinary characters! please consider using the following words to describe ships including nonbinary characters:

trixic - nonbinary/woman

touric - nonbinary/man

tiric/torixic - nonbinary/man/woman

enben - nonbinary/nonbinary

we have words for these types of relationships! please use them! stop erasing the nonbinary characters gender based off of how they present/who their in a relationship with!

also do note that nonbinary people can label their relationship/identify however they want in real life so don't push these labels onto them! this is mainly for fictional characters who may not have canon sexualities (both characters in a nonbinary/women relationship may not identify as a lesbian therefore describing them as lesbians would be incorrect! same goes for nonbinary/man with gay, and nonbinary/nonbinary with bi/pan) and also it's important people are aware of relationship labels outside of the gender binary!

[nightyraven-art]

Why it's so hard for people to understand how dysphoria can make you disocciate so hard that you feel numb and feel apathetic to whatever thing. I had small dysphoric moments where i cringed at myself-

It's just hard when you have so much going on and not a great place to deal with it-

Only sensations i can feel are my my legd trembling if i see myself or my energy shifting from 100 % to 10%

I feel more insecure-

I can't wait for starting to t so i can no longer feel numb-i want to live with my authentic self. Sorry that i struggle with numbness and showing it- dissociating is an huge thing to unpack. Im working on it

I can feel 10/20% of feelings but these are valid

Im valid im just tired-

[trogocytotrans]

not to be like out of the loop but since when did the plural of "enby" become "enben" ?? we're bringing back suffixes from old english???

no but seriously i don't mind it, i'm just curious, is there like a particular reason why it can't be "enbies" or is it personal preference or what

[nightyraven-art]

Since it's my month, im loud. Im fucking tired to hear people think im confused /phase bc i have a life and sometimes my body dysphoria is hidden- or bc going to take tshots is a long and rough emotional journey so im just confused only how to deal with it at first

Im tired hiding behind my fantasy, tired of running away bc of my body dysphoria- i want to be my authentic self...IT'S JUST A LOT TO THINK HOW AND WHEN. This doesn't mean i had second thoughts tho!!

Behind me there is still body dysphoria destroyin my mood-

[nightyraven-art]

Only thing louder as I'm trans this june is my dysphoria.

Feel like living in fire and being burnt (exaggeration ?)

Happy pride months queers!!

[gender-incinerator]

"non-binary people aren't oppressed!!!"

if I change my gender marker to X, my ID becomes invalid in most of my own country and also most of the rest of the world. but yeah, tell me how I experience zero forms of oppression ever.

[drizzles-in-paradise]

Listen up, fellow enbies. I know that exorsexism is a big thing right now. I know that it's rampant in way too many communities, in both inherently exclusionary spaces and alleged trans "safe" spaces alike, and I know that it fucking sucks. But you have to keep on living and being you regardless of that fact. You cannot allow bigotry to steal your own identity from you. You have to be as loud as you possibly can about who you are, and you have to keep pushing for change, and you have to keep fighting for inclusion and respect as hard as you possibly can. You may risk facing backlash, and I know that's really scary, but you have to fight the fear. You have to be unapologetically joyous about your existence and you're allowed to be unapologetically angry at all who deny it of its merit. You have to hate exorsexists more than you may hate being nonbinary sometimes in this cruel, binary normative world, but more importantly than that, you have to love being nonbinary. Even when it's not easy. Even when everyone is telling you that you shouldn't be. You have to try. For you, and for everyone else like you. Enbies, you have to live and you have to be you and you really, really have to try.

[actualalivecreature]

consider: it/its pronouns are not (always) dehumanizing because I, a human, am the one using them. thanks.