#enneagram 3

[anggrekberduri]

What with P3 and making the whole class mad at them. Happened two time with the same sudden blow up😭😭

[typologyland]

SO3s want to be seen as prestigious and successful. They long for a perfect public image and they'll change their behavior to fit in with whatever social group(s) they're a part of. This switching of personalities and behaviors makes them the most chameleonic of the E3 subtypes. They believe that their worth is based on their status. They feel that they have to be significant in the eyes of everybody. Thus, they're constantly going after achievements, social standing, and wealth. They're the most openly vain of the E3 subtypes, but this vanity isn't obvious to them.

SX3s rigidly conform to gender roles to be seen as an object of desire. They feel a deep need to be validated by a significant other and to achieve this they cultivate their image, working hard to appear desirable both physically and behaviorally. When they're in a relationship, they strive to be the perfect partner, believing that this will calm their insecurities. This results in them overindulging their partner and not prioritizing their own success and independence. They lack a solid identity, since they place so much emphasis on being desired. They continuously repress their own needs, focusing only on their partner.

SP3s prioritize an image of efficiency and productivity. They don't want to appear vain. Rather, they want to be seen as reliable, hard-working, and helpful. They crave security, money, and a stable position in the world, which often results in them being workaholics. They tend to identify themselves through their roles and performances. Being seen as a good and supportive person is a guarantee to them that they won't lose the people they're dependent on for validation.

[leafyteafy]

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THIS DESIGN BELONGS TO MATRIX/ SO3SX8LOVER

[lauracoretypologies]

Jungian - Enneagram synergy correlation part 1.

Type 3: (pt. 1)

Ni - Deceitful visionary:

heightened symbolism (status type) sensitivity, increased goal-orientation, scheming, cunning tendencies, psychotic tendencies (prosecutive, revelation themes), spotting contradictions (masks - fakeness/authenticity), telling apart social mannerisms, especially personas. Gloomy and glowy in the image, distaint from dullness and emptiness, showcased symbolisms have to carry a deeper truth. Can get carried away with their own image more easily than other subtypes, distorting it for their deep core identity. Heavier intellectual focus, harsh to cruel leadership manners in the workforce. Can foresee people's behaviors yet separate them from their intentions far more ahead. Trapped by self-imposed ideals and goals rooted in societal value, desire to transcend human form, even becoming immortal as a way of succeeding, whether in physical or reputable form.

If I forgot something, I will add. This is my subtype anyways, contact me if you fall under this category too;

Laura.

[theenneamentalist]

Featuring Demi Moore [sp 371 Priestess/Artisan] as an example of self-preservation 3.

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DISCLAIMER: Credits to Cinephile Global for the clip used. If the instinctual subtype description sound familiar, that’s because it has been floating around online under different names. But it originate from Katherine Chernick Fauvre, the creator of Tritype® system, who I work with directly. What you’ll hear here reflects her original insights, just shared through my own phrasing and commentary. Katherine Fauvre’s research on Instinctual Subtypes was also validated by Dr. Claudio Naranjo himself as mentioned in her website: https://www.katherinefauvre.com/subtypes

[funkymbtifiction]

How to tell whether you're a 3 with a 6 fix vs a 6 with a 3 fix?

6-3: wants to be doing things and self-promoting and accomplishing and getting what others do, while feeling a little envious of their brash self confidence, but they also judge people for being pretentious and full of themselves and are afraid of coming across that way.

3-6: is out doing things and self-promoting and accomplishing and getting what they want, with a nagging insecurity in the back of their mind that maybe they aren't as great as they pretend to be, and are not "good enough" to be a 3, and who don't want to seem too arrogant.

In short, 3s are assertive cores who don't let insecurities stop them; they fake it until they make it. 6s are super-ego cores who doubt themselves way more than they should, given their competence.

[funkymbtifiction]

How are type 3 assholes?

Self-absorption and flexes (every conversation always subtly or otherwise comes back to me and how impressive I am, what I know, the important people I know or are similar to, etc); superficial charm (which may or may not reflect their true feelings); lack of self-awareness means chasing things that don't make them happy, because they got stuck in a rut and/or thought they should want that career, relationship, etc; over-selling themselves (sometimes beyond their skill level, or trying to pass something off as better than it is because they did it), by over-estimating their abilities and confidently touting them; caring too much what other people think or want from them; caring too much about impressing people; being over-fixated on value symbols (if I own this, I am impressive; if I do this, I am impressive; if I act like this, I am impressive; if this person chooses me, I am impressive).

[funkymbtifiction]

How does being a 3 influence an Fi vs Fe user?

Fi 3: I will become the absolute best and most impressive at whatever I value the most and envision for myself and my identity.

Fe 3: I will become the absolute best and most impressive for those around me, so they can see what a truly spectacular person I am.