#evangelizing

[alethianightsong]

There's something deeply amusing about people using Tumblr, a site full of queers, pagans, monster fuckers, and freaks, to spread their religion. Like sir, many of us are former Christians or downright despise the religion for the trauma it induces. Do not come here with that clownery. You can sit in the back and be quiet but don't presume you have influence here.

[creature-wizard]

This conversion rhetoric of "you were made to worship Jesus" is no different than telling them that they were "made" to do literally anything else you personally happen to think they should do. It's creepy, weird, and inherently predatory.

[jameslmartello]

The Fallacy in Almost Every Anti-Catholic Argument

[atheostic]

Another joke my mom found:

[clatterbane]

This may be a new low. Including for whoever paid for that, trying to attract people on this site.

(Or at least their money. I am not about to click through to find out exactly what they're trying for here.)

[momentsbeforemass]

Go away

Have you ever wanted to push someone away?

To spend as little time interacting with them as possible? To make sure that they don’t want to be around you? And to make sure that it’s their idea – so you can blame them for it?

Here’s how.

Constantly second guess their decisions. All of their decisions, from their most important life choices to what to have for lunch. No matter what it is, make sure that they know that they could have done better.

Let them know that their ideas and beliefs are wrong. Both in general and specifically, especially about anything that is truly meaningful or important to them.

Make sure they feel stupid for even thinking that. Don’t bother explaining why they’re wrong. Unless you can make them feel bad by doing it.

And – every step of the way – make sure they know that (unlike them) you’ve got it all figured out. That you’re right.

Start doing this, and you’ll see results almost immediately. If done consistently, the effects will be permanent.

Can you tell I’ve been spending too much time online lately?

I can’t tell you how many supposedly Christian sites and commenters are doing exactly this. Using this approach to interact with other people.

Saying all manner of angry, hateful, and/or fearful things. And then trying to dress it up with some “Jesus talk.” Maybe a slogan or a Bible verse out of context. Following this approach every step of the way.

If this is our approach, it kind of doesn’t matter what we’re talking about. What great and good cause we think we’re defending.

Because if this is how we’re doing it, if this is the “Jesus” that we’re showing people? Then we’re not showing people Jesus at all.

We’re showing people us. We’re showing them how small and weak and fearful we are.

And we become the reason they turn away from Jesus.

If we want people to go away, this works. Every time.

If not, here’s something else we could try.

“We do not draw people to Christ by loudly discrediting what they believe, by telling them how wrong they are and how right we are, but by showing them a light that is so lovely that they want with all their hearts to know the source of it.” - Madeline L’Engle

Today’s Readings

[orthodoxicons]

43. Don’t try to convince anyone of anything. (Once and for all, we have to stop trying to teach other people. I’m not trying to teach you now, I hope. I’m just trying to tell you what I think is true. Then you can do with it, what you want. But it can’t be my desire to convince you and to win in an argument. I can only, to use a Scriptural word, “bear witness” or “make testimony.” But I can’t have as my goal to convert the other. And that’s even true with evangelization. We’re not out there to convert people. We’re out there to bring them the joy of the victory of God in Christ. What they do with it is between them and God.)

55 Maxims of the Christian Life, Fr. Thomas Hopko

(See the full list of maxims here and here)