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You Mean Too Much To Me
Loving you feels soft, like something I never want to lose.
And maybe that’s where the fear comes from, not from doubt, not from anything you’ve done, but from how much you mean to me.
You’ve become a part of my days, my thoughts, my quiet moments.
And sometimes I wonder how something so beautiful can make my heart feel so careful.
I just don’t want to lose what we have.
Because to me, it’s everything.
Distance doesn't play a fair game with me,
The thoughts that race across my mind,
Of the many missed opportunities,
That I am losing out on with you,
Make me question what if,
If it would make a difference,
If I were to be closer,
If I were to be at the reach of a hand,
Would you see me in an entire new perspective,
Or would I simply continue to have,
My love for you ignored,
Being defeated by the twisted ways that fate,
Keeps bringing me back to you,
Making it hard to ignore all that lives inside of my heart...
©️fallencalliope
Everything I Own
Pen, paper, wood
13 ½ x 4 ¼ x 4” holder, 900” roll
2022-present
As seen in Fear of Losing, Love of Having, Comfort Station, Chicago 2024
©R. Madrigal, photos by Mikey Mosher
There is absolutely no love where there is no fear of losing!
Como devia ser simples..
Olá X, Não te conheço e tu não me conheces. Mas ambos conhecemos Y, em graus bem diferentes de detalhe. Tu bem melhor que eu. Com Y criou-se uma amizade num momento de fragilidade meu que teve de aturar enquanto profissional competente que é. No entanto, conhecendo a sua capacidade empática, é fácil de perceber que a sua preocupação extravasa aspectos funcionais. Compreendo que sintas mágoa, receio até, por algo que temas ter acontecido. Eu já estive de ambos os lados dessa barricada. Já senti ciúme e medo de perder, bem como já fui vítima de ciúmes infundados. E é este o ponto fulcral desta mensagem: a mágoa que tu sentes não se baseia em eventos da realidade. Foi por insistência minha e motivos práticos que Y aceitou viajar mais confortavelmente, até ao vosso lar. Da minha parte apenas houve intenção de devolver alguma da empatia que me emprestou. Não ficando no caminho directo que tenho de fazer odiernamente, não é grande desvio e tem até (não que seja importante) vantagens económicas, bem como evitar congestionamentos de trânsito. Mas estas últimas razões que apontei não chegam sequer para mudar a agulha do principal: Y é uma pessoa inteligente e adulta que tu conheces há muitos anos, e não merece que, por inseguranças ou incertezas tuas, seja sujeita a tão escusado tratamento. Se tens dúvidas dentro de ti, expõe-nas como um adulto. Faz perguntas, analisa as respostas e o seu comportamento, mas respeita quem tem estado ao teu lado nestes anos todos. Faz o que tiveres de fazer para aplacar as dúvidas. Mas fá-lo com respeito por ambos, pelo passado e com fé no futuro. Quero o melhor para ambos. Abraço.
A Moment Where She Confesses She’s Scared to Lose Him
“THE KIND OF TRUTH THAT ONLY ESCAPES WHEN YOU FEEL TOO MUCH”
1.
They stayed like that for a long moment— her head resting on his chest, their fingers intertwined, bodies warm and close in the quiet glow of the room.
“The Kiss” played softly, its slow, tender melody curling around them like breath.
She could feel his heartbeat under her cheek. Steady. Grounding. Real.
But that was exactly what terrified her.
Because real things can be lost.
💛 https://kissingsongs.com/kiss-song
2.
He stroked her back slowly— gentle, reassuring circles— and every touch of his hand made her heart ache with something tender and frighteningly deep.
She tried to breathe through it. Tried to calm the trembling inside her. Tried to enjoy the warmth without worrying about losing it.
But emotion rose in her chest like a wave she couldn’t hold back.
He felt her tense softly. He always felt everything.
He whispered, “Hey… what’s going on?” voice low, warm, careful not to push.
3.
She pulled back just enough to look at him— really look.
His face was soft in the dim light, eyes gentle and searching, thumb brushing the back of her hand like he was soothing her without even realizing it.
Her breath shook.
“I…” She swallowed hard. Her voice refused to come out steady. “I’m scared.”
He shifted, holding her more securely, as if her fear made him want to protect her even more.
“Of what?” he asked softly.
But he already knew. He just needed to hear her say it.
4.
Her eyes filled— not quite tears, but emotion thick enough to sting.
“I’m scared to lose you.”
The words came out quiet, raw, barely a whisper— but they hit him like a force he wasn’t prepared for.
He froze. Not because he was unsure, but because her honesty was more vulnerable than anything she’d said tonight.
She tried to look away, embarrassed by how much feeling she had accidentally revealed.
But he brought his hand to her chin— gentle, steady— guiding her gaze back to his.
5.
“Lose me?” he repeated softly, eyes widening with emotion. “Why would you lose me?”
She inhaled shakily. “Because things this good… things this soft… they never stay.”
He closed his eyes for a second like her words broke something inside him.
When he opened them again, there was something fierce and unbelievably tender in his gaze.
He took both her hands in his, holding them close to his heart.
6.
His voice trembled when he whispered:
“You’re not going to lose me.”
She shook her head a little, a tiny helpless movement.
“You don’t know that.”
He cupped her face with both hands, pulling her closer in the softest, most intimate way imaginable.
“I do,” he said quietly, as if the truth lived in his chest and had been waiting for this moment. “I’m here because I choose you. Not by accident. Not by chance. By choice.”
Her breath broke. A soft, emotional gasp.
He pressed his forehead to hers, their noses brushing, their breaths mixing.
“You’re not losing me,” he whispered again. “I’m staying.”
7.
She let out a trembling breath and finally let the tears fall— but they were soft tears, warm tears, the kind that come when a fear releases its grip and a heart realizes it’s not alone.
He wiped them gently with his thumbs and kissed her forehead, her cheeks, her temples.
Slow. Deep. With a kind of devotion that soothed her from the inside out.
“I’m scared too,” he murmured, voice breaking slightly. “But I’m not going anywhere.”
8. (closing scroll)
Some confessions shake the room. Some shake your heart.
But the most powerful ones are whispered— soft, trembling, spoken in the arms of someone who answers by holding you tighter instead of pulling away.
💛 Listen to “The Kiss” — the song behind moments like this: https://kissingsongs.com/kiss-song
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