#fearofabandonment

[crossnnshadow]

#Repost @diaryofabpdkid with @make_repost ・・・ #bpd#bpdfeels#bpdcycles#bpdthiughts#bpdfeelslike#bpdemotions#emotioncycle#fearofabandonment#abandonmentissues#abandonmenttrauma#codependency#codependent#fp#favouriteperson#bpdfp#bpdfavouriteperson#bpdbaddie#bpdbrat#bpdawareness#bpdawarenessmonth#bpdrecovery#bpdrelationships#bpdinsight#borderlinepersonalitydisorder#borderlinepersonalitydisorderawarenessmonth (at Goonellabah, New South Wales) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cdm1eRPhqZq/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[laurafrayz]

I type the words "I love..."

And my phone suggests the next word I want is "you"

Yes, if only.

I think it regularly. And I mean it

I feel it like a calm, simple truth, grown deep inside me

But I can't say it, or write it, or send it to you

It sits heavy on my tongue, locked in the steel vault with all the other things I cannot, will not say

I love you, I want you, I miss you, please stay

You're so cute, you're so perfect, I think you'll never stop seeming lovely to me

You make me wish I still believed in forever

I wish that you would believe in it too

[beepeedeedoo]

Me at my fear of abandonment ™: LEAVE.

[joelekm]

Losing Yourself for Love: The Painful BPD Struggle Explained | Dr. Daniel Fox

Living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) often means that love feels like a battle for survival. In this video, Dr. Daniel Fox explores the painful dynamic of losing your identity just to stay connected to someone else. Fear of abandonment and an unstable self-image can drive individuals with BPD to change everything about themselves, from their beliefs to their preferences, to avoid rejection. Discover how to reconnect with your true self while maintaining healthy relationships with others.

[joelekm]

Losing Yourself for Love: The Painful BPD Struggle Explained | Dr. Daniel Fox

Living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) often means that love feels like a battle for survival. In this video, Dr. Daniel Fox explores the painful dynamic of losing your identity just to stay connected to someone else. Fear of abandonment and an unstable self-image can drive individuals with BPD to change everything about themselves, from their beliefs to their preferences, to avoid rejection. Discover how to reconnect with your true self while maintaining healthy relationships with others.

[teatime-beauty]

Have you ever felt like you’ve let someone down while desperately trying to hold onto your own life?

[strongwithoutrealising]

My favourite line in my wedding vows. If you haven’t read them yet you can click the link in my bio to head to my blog and read them. The fear I am talking about is abandonment. I’ve let that fear get in the way and almost get in the way of so much ❤️ But not anymore! ❤️ If you have read the vows do you have a favourite line? I would love to know what may have given you truth bumps 🥰 ————————————————————————————- #strongwithoutrealising #quoteoftheday #fearofabandonment #loveandmarriage #marriagevows #weddingvows #lovequotes (at Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CWoeuRxBGxb/?utm_medium=tumblr

[faranlivneh-reconnect]

I have had a rough couple of days and for a big part I did not (re)act the way I would have if I had been truly connected to myself. And by that I have caused more damage. The worst thing I can do now is beat myself up about it though, even it is pretty tempting... . Sometimes we f*** up. Because we are human. Learning to forgive others starts by forgiving ourselves . So today, I forgive myself for being impatient. I forgive myself for acting on impulse and not being grounded enough to prevent the hurt I am causing myself and others. I forgive myself for not always taking care of myself enough. I forgive myself for sometimes not being able to acknowledge others' suffering because I am too endorsed in my own. I forgive myself for not feeling great and connected all the time . And I love myself for being able to forgive myself and I forgive myself for not always being able to love myself . Tag anyone who needs to hear this today. Take care lovely beings . . . #emotionalhealth #integration #integrateyourshadow #anxietyrelief #fearofabandonment #emotionality #mentalhealth #introspection #loveyourself #selfcare #selflove #loveyourshadow #embraceyourshadow #traumahealing #traumarecovery #heal #trauma #fearofabandonment #abandonmenttrauma (at Tel Aviv, Israel) https://www.instagram.com/p/CAQhALhA6xS/?igshid=17q0l8knm8wgj