#genderfucked

[catboykatebush]

Imagine if nonbinary, androgynous, genderfucky, etc people started saying this exact type of thing, but about constantly being assumed to be a binary gender based on appearance.

Oh but of course that would be totally completely different and somehow unacceptable compared to this, because exorsexism isn’t actually as bad as other types of transphobia (or even real at all!), and plus we all know nonbinary dysphoria just isn’t real and only Real Binary Transsexuals can experience the suffering that is gender dysphoria (/sarcasm)

Seriously though, I’m almost certain people who think like this have never stopped to consider that the type of presentation they may find joy in would be absolutely miserable for another flavor of trans person, even though clearly they’ve considered the reverse. These people are so self centered it’s unreal

[fieryfoxboy]

idk what transmasc or genderfucky person needs to hear this but you can use eyebrow mascara on peach fuzz or light, barely visible facial hair to make it more noticable (as well as using it on eyebrows too can help you appear as more “masc” if you don’t overdo it and it just looks like natural but darker brows). It takes very little time for me to apply to my face, and I’ve been able to find tubes of eyebrow mascara at places like Walmart for under $10 (although I haven’t been doing this long enough to have a good concept of how long a tube lasts, plus I don’t apply it every day)

happy pride month, spread the word to help tboys, nonbinary people and anyone else who is dysphoric about not having a lot of facial hair

[love-ardour-anarchism]

my gender presentation at this point of my transition is mostly just "never let them guess your next move".

wearing a bicycle lock chain + carabiner + O ring combo with a shirt that says "good girl" and a hat that says "good boy". I've got tits and beard shadow and a tattoo that says "soft boy" but the O is the venus symbol and the T in SofT is the lesbian labrys.

[xxcalicofemmexx]

thinking about the he/shes, and the she/hes, and the he/hers, and the she/hims 💖💘💗💞💝💟💓💘💕💝💖💗💓💘💟💞

[felonsgenders]

✦ genderfucked / mascfucked

✦ femfucked / androfucked

✦ neufucked / xenofucked

an alignment or ideology similar to genderfuck / genderpunk, with the added notion of having no clue what the hell is going on with parts of your gender and/or not caring enough to look into it. in simple terms: it's all fucked. ✧ ✧ ✧ coined by us! ✧ ✧ ✧ this is not trans only term nor is it necessarily a gender unless you specifically feel it resonates that way! ✧ ✧ ✧ this can include all sorts of things and is a very vast term, some examples may include: ✦ anyone who's in a mixed state of presentation / identity / transition goals whether intentionally or not (ex: a fem presenting transmasc, a non-op enby, a trans girl who still uses he/him pronouns) ✦ anyone who understands the basis of their alignment but feels there is room for other labels (ex: someone who knows they're xeno-aligned but still feels that they could be partially a guy) ✦ anyone who can't be assed to describe it beyond this concept (ex: a cis woman who is comfortable being a woman and "something else", but doesn't care to elaborate on what that "something else" is) ✦ anyone who wants to identify with this concept! ✧ ✧ ✧ colors inspired by the genderpunk flag, as well as our own associations with alignments. we connected the masc and fem flags through purple in both, and of course androgyny being a mixed state of masc/fem (blues in the masc flag and reds in the fem flag) and the androgynous flag being purple. ✧ ✧ ✧ we made these terms because we were trying to think of a way to describe our collective gender (as well as my gender as the main host) and couldn't really place it beyond "shit's fucked". i know this resonates with plenty of people we know and is pretty close to the original genderfuck term, but the it wasn't specific enough to the unknown parts of our labels / our apathy towards doing all the work of explaining specific stuff to folks who wouldn't understand the more complicated aspects of gender. use it however you feel it fits best!!

[crash-bang-wallop]

i’d rather look like a man who looks like a woman than a butch lesbian

if y’all get my freak

[thescaryhyperfem]

I reallyyyy wanna join a lesbian Tumblr community but being a genderfucked lesbian is kinda scary these days

[catboykatebush]

I fully understand trans people making fun of or generally disapproving of pronoun circles when we’re talking about them in the specific context of how cis people will use pronoun circles to single out one trans or GNC person to make them feel (intentionally or unintentionally) alienated and othered in a group of predominately cis gender conforming people… But with the way a lot of binary, relatively gender conforming trans people talk about it, it sounds like some of y’all actually just have an issue with the idea that strangers shouldn’t be assuming someone’s gender and pronouns based on cisheteronormative assumptions about their appearance.

The way I’ve genuinely seen other trans people say shit in response to the pronoun circle thing like “asking for my pronouns is so stupid, it’s not hard to look at me and tell that I’m a man/woman because I have (insert characteristics such as: long/short hair, deep/high voice, boobs/no boobs, “men’s clothes”/“women’s clothes”, etc) and it’s just like…

I thought we were fighting for acceptance for ALL trans+ people including nonbinary, multigender, gender fluid, etc and gender nonconforming trans people, as well as intersex people regardless of if they identify as trans or not- which necessitates trying to avoid assuming gender based on stereotypes?

Or do you only care about transphobia and gender issues as long as they’re affecting you personally…?