Is there a term for when someone's gender is partly fluid and partly static, but the level of how much of the gender is fluid changes?
We have an alter who's questioning his gender, and he's thinks that what he might being experiencing is having a part to his gender that stays statically male, and a part to his gender that changes, like the "Partially fluid, with the other part being static" definition of demifluid. But the demifluid sometimes changes to Parafluid, to the whole gender being fluid, to Librafluid (minus the agender part of librageders), to being completely statically male.
We are pretty sure this doesn't full under fluidflux/genderfluix because it's not the intensity of the gender that changes, rather how much of it is changing.
Okay since I’m not panicking and I just need genuine feedback and general help after researching, I’m gonna explain how I feel about Brian and more so how it’s effected me, and I need you kind ppls to tell me if this still counts as Otherhearted (or some secret third option I have yet to come across)!! Since I am very new to all this and I don’t wanna come across as baiting
When I first watched Dexter S1, I found Brian someone I could relate to, which then my mom found weird (I suggest looking at his wiki) so then I just admired in peace. His persona and ability to turn on a facade just felt too similar to things I’ve done or see in myself
I have a brother myself, but he’s older than me; however, I still feel as if Brian & Dexters dynamic and Brian’s search for his brother feels all too familiar. My brothers in College so I don’t get to see him often which makes me constantly feel alone and looking for something that will take ages to find. Just like Brian did with Dexter, after coming out of the mental hospital and immediately searching for his brother.
This whole thing makes me panicky because Brian is a (FICTIONAL 😰) serial killer…and I personally can justify majority of his actions just because I feel like if do the same in the same desperation, as fucked as that sounds. Which is why I hate admitting I feel connected to him. I don’t have murderous intentions or thoughts (that aren’t the intrusive kind I mean) but I feel like it’s just a rational thought process.
He DOES die but I just actively forget he does and I don’t like thinking about it
If I need to elaborate on any of this I totally can!Thank you for coming to my ted talk <3
hey amanda, i hope your day is going well! i was just wondering what labels would you give to a group of 6 characters (3 boys, 3 girls) that you think would be a good combination to play off of? not sure that made sense haha but would love to know your opinion!
hey hey!! things are going super well for me, thank you :") i hope the same for you ♡♡
as for your question — i definitely think a caretaker should be in the bunch!! i'd sorta see them even as the butter that holds the group together. i think the other labels really depend on what kind of vibe you're going for for them, you know? like. if they're a bunch of assholes, i don't think a shy character would make sense. but!! here are some suggestions for what labels i think could be fun + interesting:
the comedian, the leader, the oddball, the eyes and ears (gossip), the golden child, the good one gone bad, the baby (maybe the youngest of the bunch), the connard (asshole), the mannequin (fake friend), the romantic / the flirt, the bad influence
i've seen "lavenderboy," "tomgirl," and "janegirl" as well as "roseboy"!! if these don't work then send another ask and i'll do more lookin'!
also translation of the ask for those who can't figure out the typing quirk (me too sis): yo okay so i consider myself a f*mboy, but ik that term is problematic so i'm trynna find a different label for it. ive heard "roseboy" but i just really don't vibe with that term know. (not that its bad, it just doesnt feel right for me) anyway if you don't wanna do that then that's fine lmao /gen
so it turns out that black hole genders do exist!!
there’s collapsargender, which is a black hole but in the form of gender- like a gender that eats other genders!! the black hole gendie :)
then there’s collstellargender, a gendie related to small black holes / collapsed stars, collsumagender, a gendie related to large black holes, and collintergender, a gendie related to medium sized black holes!
cavrumgender is a gender related to black holes in general!
@etchedstars here you go!! not a coining but here are your gendies <33
i feel agender most of the time but sometimes i feel half agender n half boy or half agender n half nonbinary
and sometimes half agender half girl maybe??? idk the whole part of "do i identify as a girl or am i just fine being refered to as one" confuses the hell outta me my gender identity is a mystery
im wondering if theres any label that fits what im currently feeling rn so this is technically a gender label help request thingy
-bored anon
so the “mostly agender but sometimes half agender half boy” is making me think you’ve got libragender going on
HOWEVER. the changing in “other gender” also makes me think of agenderflux
on that note, there’s also agenderfluid that may work
and then there’s librafluid, which is mostly agender but fluctuates between others as well
