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polyamory 🤝 found family
people in fandoms be fucking normal about not treating them as Inherently Wholesome, with the ideal endgoal of every single character dynamic even slightly adjacent to them--as well as every possible kind of dysfunction within that dynamic--being to Initiate, Work It Out, and End in That Dynamic Happily Ever After, challenge (impossible)
I'm polyamorous and have been in polyamorous relationships, and I'm the first to admit they can be an absolute shitshow and people can get seriously hurt. It's not "polyphobic" for people to be triggered by it due to past experiences. It's also not your business. Don't assume and respect other people's blacklist tags, please.
as a polyamorous person who loves and takes joy in poly ships: if the extent of your advocacy and support for polyam people is drawing three characters holding hands, you are not an ally.
society hates us. show up for us--fight for us--when we're subject to violence and erasure, not just when we give you warm fuzzies.
signed, someone who has cried more over what i face as a polyamorous person than i ever have over being bi, trans/nonbinary, or arospec.
monogamy
genuine question, why is "polyamory issue" a tag. i don't mean this in an accusatory manner but it does read as polyamphobic to let talk of polyamory be blacklisted
It's a tag because someone requested it to be one years ago on the old blog. Otherwise I wouldn't tag polyamory to begin with. I don't understand why, but I don't need to know a backstory for something to get a tag. If anyone who uses the polyamory issue as a blacklist tag wants to explain, feel free to. Nobody is required to explain if it's something they're not comfortable sharing, of course. :v
Connie / Mod Party Cat!
also @ the "polyam issue" convo - i was forced into a polyam relationship in this current life and let's just say i have some trauma about it! triggers can be very weird and while i am trying to work past it on my own, it's nice to be able to choose whether or not i want to see something that's potentially triggering.
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not kinnie issue but more of a this life issue. my first ever polycule relationship was. bad. me and my partner didnt communicate well, and i felt forced to give my consent because i thought that it would be selfish of me not to. now i am genuinely scared of being in a polycule again bc of that past relationship. so perhaps there are people with a same problem as me who need that tag
weighing in with my two cents, I have "polyamory issue" tag blocked because I formerly identified as polyam in this life but the concept makes me nauseous nowadays after dating a particularly awful ex of mine.
