#relationship rant

[stealthslutt]

this is just gonna be a rant so if you want something kinky stop reading here lol

so i’ve been seeing someone in the past few weeks, met him at his work and been seeing each other every couple days since, and i’m starting to feel really attached. last night i asked him if he could see this progressing like in the future and he was not sure bc he’s just over a break up and doesn’t want to tell me what i want to hear and disappoint me.

i really just want to keep doing what we’ve been doing, i miss him when he’s not around though and am scared i’m going to get myself hurt if it never ever gets more committed. he did say he only wants to see me and vice versa so that’s good but just worried for my heart 🥲 hopefully it will just naturally develop with time bc i really like him and everything we do together is so fun

[writingisartdarling]

Whoever came up with the concept of breaking up...I have a bone to pick with you because I am SO stressed about it.

May I please skip tomorrow, yes, please? I don't want to be anxious :(

[crazychanuwu77]

Since Season 3 has finished

There’s one more secret I feel I have to share with you…

I do not care about Viscera and Tyrannis’ relationship.

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At a point, I did like the thing with them, and that Tyrannis lost his v-card, but idk… That relationship doesn’t seem healthy. Now I don’t except a show about Greek Mythology by Dan Harmon to teach us relationship advice, it’s just that. They deserve better/should see other people, especially Tyrannis. But idk… My main issue is how short S3 is, but then again animation takes time, so I shall hold my tongue.

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I love the Tyrannis fan service… that is my answer to that statement.

[vampyremasquerade]

i'm feeling more comfortable with my sexuality and solitude lately but the bad side of being aroace and the only single friend in your friend group is that all of a sudden you don't have friends. they're all unavailable bc they're having quality time with their partners, and slowly the people you're used to text everyday just aren't there. feels weird to send the everyday silly messages, ask to hang out etc... i don't envy them, i just really miss when they had time for me too.

[bymeraki]

The whole “talking stage” and “situationship” thing is such an unnecessary gray area. Either you’re single, dating, or you’re in a relationship—simple. Dating should be about actually going on dates, getting to know each other, and deciding if there’s something real there. If feelings are mutual and strong, then it turns into a relationship. No need for all these vague, in-between labels. Bring back real dating.

[taurusicidal]

maybe if men could stop being so difficult. then maybe i can finally catch a break for once!

[specialdae001]

I'm so tired of hearing Relationship advice like, "Oh, nobody is perfect so you gotta settle for the one that ticks most of the boxes"

Yeah, well, I don't make my partner feel unwanted.

So, maybe I need a better explanation on what perfection means 'cause that's all you guys make it out to be.

"Oh, he gives you money but he cheated? So what? He's human"

Bruh. Be fr

[spacebatisluvd]

Related to my last reblog (and not originally aimed at any particular ships, just a general observation):

I am forever infuriated that there is a bigger emphasis on romantic couples in fiction being “interesting” rather than being healthy.

I mean? I’m more than happy to watch or read a piece of media with an unhealthy relationship at the center...but I don’t understand why the “happy ending” is always “THEY SAID THEY’RE SORRY SO IT’S FINE NOW KISS”.

There’s a right way and a wrong way to show this stuff, and I feel media almost always presents it in the wrong way. Sometimes it’s better to just go your separate ways and cut ties. And that’s an interesting story right there! Learning how to pull yourself away from a toxic relationship (and maybe accepting that you’re just as toxic as the other person, that you’re just not good together and sometimes everyone is equally at fault) and regain independence (and learning how to let go without necessarily reconnecting or reconciling).