HELP I REALLY NEED TO KNOW ABOUT WHY YOU HATE JIMIN, ALSO ITS FUNNIER CAUSE YOUR PFP IS JIMIN?? WHEN I SAW YOUR POST I WASNT EXPECTING THAT LMAOO
**also sorry for all the typos and faults..
This is the question I’ve been waiting for because I have a LOT to say.
Since I don’t know how to tell stories, I’ll just list the things he did to me.
We started dating in 2016 (we weren’t really dating, but he knew I loved him, and I knew he loved me. We were kind of in a pre-relationship), but he was still hanging out with girls (and he wasn’t just hanging out with them, by the way 🥰😍😍!).
He’s a total playboy. He can’t just have one woman. Nooo, he needs a whole harem because he’s Jimin! If you give him a little love, he’ll start acting up and put your heart on a roller coaster. Plus, he’s extremely full of himself and loves himself way too much.
I was depressed in 2018 and even had to take a break because of my terrible mental health. Guess who never helped me? Jimin, of course 🤣🤣🤣. Not even a little. Even in the dorm, he wouldn’t say hello. He would hang out with girls and send me photos. Pure evil.
Since I was a fool, I let it slide, and we officially got together at the end of 2019. Then, during the pandemic, he started acting weird and ghosted me AGAIN. I had to find out about him from the other members. Even during the filming of “In the Soop,” he couldn’t make an effort and stay professional for the fans. He acted like a baby, even though he’s the one causing all the problems in this story.
After that, I stopped caring about him and started living my own life. We weren’t even friends, just coworkers. By the end of 2021, as their military service was approaching, I think he regretted his actions and wanted to apologize by loving me again. So, we were kind of in love, but it was really weird between us, I don’t even know how to explain it 💔💔💔.
The few times we were alone, we would do “things” (I hate talking about that, it’s so embarrassing, so I won’t go into details). It was kind of a way of revenge for both of us, so it was really strange. We lasted about six months like that. After that, I stopped contacting him, although we still saw each other at group events. Apart from that, we didn’t talk.
Also, a detail I forgot: he also dated Jennie for about three days in 2018 to make me mad ( mind u at that time, I was thinking about ending my life because things were so hard, but thanks for that, Jimin!). I know it’s weird, but yeah? Jennie was one of the few idols that i always found cool and the fact that he did that really threw me off
After all that, I started going outside and partying a lot more because i realized that my life dind't revolved around jimin. but guess what? 🤣🤣🤣
Every time I got close to having a boyfriend, he would always ruin everything. I swear he’s obsessed with me. EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. Either he would literally knock on my door when “someone” was at my house, or he would find their number and threaten them. The worst part is that it was starting to be harassment, but I couldn’t file a complaint because it would cause a huge scene.
Anyway, I gave up and talked to the other members abt it, who then talked to Jimin. That just made his obsession worse. He started knocking on my door multiple times a day to apologize, sending me messages and mf letterrsss😭😭😭. When we were in practice rooms, he kept trying to talk to me. It was hell. I couldn’t take it anymore, so I gave in, and we started to love each other again ( yes. ). I don’t know how to explain it, but we were in love with each other (I’ve always loved Jimin; it’s just his actions that disgusted me. Deep down, I was still in love with him 💔) but in a weird way again. So, we stopped talking, saw each other occasionally, and became friends—or more than friends—again.
Fast forward about a year and a half, and we’re in 2023, a few days before he goes to military service. Since I had to go to the US to record a new album and attend several brand events, I had to say goodbye to the boys four days before their enlistment. So, five days before he enlisted, I went to Jimin’s house to say goodbye. But my dumbass go enchanted and what happened happened. The next day, I made my official goodbyes to the whole group (they all gathered at my place at the same time), it was rlly emotional! then I flew to the US.
But I, like an idiot, thought that this special goodbye to Jimin meant something. 🤣🤣 The day after his official enlistment, I saw a video on Twitter of him with a girl in a club in Paris (yes, Paris?!) (Plus, I’m French, and if he wanted to go to Paris, he could have just asked me at any moment.) given how they looked together and knowing Jimin, I’m pretty sure she spent the night with him. So, what a jerk until the very end. After that, I stopped paying attention to him because I was so tired of it. But I know he didn’t just do that, there’s more I’ve just forgotten it lmao. Every time I think about him, I feel an intense hatred, but at the same time, I love him so much that it frustrates me.
The worst part is that he’s really nice when it’s not about love. He hugs well, can comfort you, be kind, and joking around with him is great. It makes me really sad that he’s like this. Truly. Of course, it’s my fault, I don’t care much about scripting; I like to shift without scripting (except essentials things. i neverrrr script relationships, only the trope ((sometimes)) ).
Every time I see fans of him here, I feel sick because he’s a piece of shit, even though I love him with all my heart. As someone who idolized him (literally), it’s a shock to see how he was in my DR. I also have a profile picture of him because I can’t really be mad at him here. Well, I am, but??? yk what i don't even have an explanation😭😭😭.
I hate him, but argh, I love him so much too. I keep trying to convince myself that the Jimin here isn’t the same as the one in my DR (which is probably true and even if it wasn't it means nothing).
Anyway, that’s just my experience! it's really embarassing for me to publish that so be kind guys 💔🌚