#slef love

[vatikat]

[letsbeapoemtogether]

"Your inner voice should be the loudest and kindest voice you hear."

Abhilasha

[loveyourlovelysoul]

if you have been looking at life from a window, never seen yourself as the protagonist but often daydreaming of yourself as someone else (physically and/or as for character) able to live their *your* dream, it's normal that you feel scared once you want to start trying to change your perspective and be in charge of your life and see the real you as the protagonist. It's hard to envision all this and imagine it can even come true. You don't feel enough or good enough: it has always been your imagination's version of you (the one you *unconsciously* thought people would have liked more), and it has always been anyone else but you deciding and living your life or directing you (and you had been obeying them, maybe also out of fear of disappointing them/them overreacting if you rebeled).

It's really scary. It's ground-shaking, when you start to give yourself the chance to see things differently. It's like losing all your certainties, moving into unknown waters. But you can make it. Just be kind with yourself and give yourself time, also to listen to your fears. And give them space anytime you find a trigger and you start again telling yourself you cannot do it. Nurture them and yourself (the younger version of you who had to go through all that and now is so scared to change). You can do it. You totally can. Maybe not immediately, but you will. Have faith in yourself and don't let any doubt block yourself (do not complicate things through your mind, even if it's a human thing to do). Hold your own hand along the way. (Or also ask for support in the process to professional figures)

[goldenxshine]

what are pan and Felix’s opinions on an s/o with stretch marks?

I'm so sorry for my late response, I still don’t know many things about this app, anyway, here it is. Hope you like it <3

Peter Pan

• he first noticed them when you were lying side by side on his bed

• he didn’t know what it was on your skin

• and being very curious and wanting to know everything, he simply asked

• “What are these?”

• you froze

• you knew exactly what he was getting at, and it made you nervous

• you've learned to live with your stretch marks, but when the boy who's with you all the time asked you about it, it made you uncomfortable

• Is he disgusted by them?

• “Those are my stretch marks, Peter”

• he stayed silent and wanted to know more

• you sighed

• “They are type of scars that develop when the skin stretches or shrinks quickly”

• you were really nervous

• “Oh, I like them, they make you look even more sexier”

• kisses each of the scar when he has a chance

• calls them tiger stripes

Felix

• he wouldn't notice them until you pointed them out

• you've always felt insecure about them

• a lot of the girls in your life, before you became a Lost Girl didn't have to deal with that, and the guys didn't like it

• that's why you always preferred to avoid any activity that might show the world your stretch marks

• but Felix knows what it's like to feel insecure about scars

• he's got a big one over his face

• “You have nothing to be insecure about. I love every part of you”

• “It’s natural”

• every night he'll tell you how much he loves you and how you shouldn't worry about it until you start loving them yourself

[malusokay]

10 Steps to protect your Energy

Protecting your Energy is essential to being in tune with yourself and maintaining a healthy and calm mind. Focus on yourself <3

Try staying out of drama. If it doesn't involve you or your friends, just stay out of it.

Don't waste time overthinking. Stop worrying about things you have no control over.

Rest when you need to. Take action on the days you can and calmly accept the days you can't. <3

Don't compare yourself to others. Instead, focus on yourself and your own goals; everyone has their own pace.

Don't do things that you know will make you feel bad. This one is self-explanatory. Take care of yourself, haha.

Learn to spend time alone. Alone doesn't mean lonely; use your alone time to work on yourself, read, relax, study, workout...

Don't surround yourself with toxic people. Distance yourself from people who drain your energy.

Tread yourself how you want others to treat you. Speak kindly to yourself, care for your health, and don't put yourself down.

Stop doing things solely to please others. Start doing things that benefit your future and/or well-being; you don't have to make everyone happy.

Make yourself your main priority. Be your own best friend.

As always, please feel free to add more suggestions in the comments! <3

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

[es-r-aa7]

اما اصحى بدري بس أقرر اني هروح الشغل متأخر بعد ما ادلع نفسي فالفطار 🤩😇💗

[redlipsfordior]

10 things that make my life more enjoyable rn ♡

1. dancing to music

2. bubble tea

3. sleeping

4. sushi

5. the neighbourhood songs

6. laughing with friends

7. parfums

8. vanilla cappuccino

9. good grades/ learning smth

10. cats

+ autumn

[iamlivingthebestlifeforme88]

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