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Perhaps, before I die, I shall remove from my heart the imaginary burden of "if you're not doing for everyone everywhere, everything, all the time, you're worthless".

#guilt #and trauma #and im tired #stop apologizing

When you feel the need to apologize for something that's not wrong ("sorry I'm being slow, I'm on the phone with a family emergency"), it is good to try to think of the good that is coming of it!

If you think you are bothering the cashier by slowing them down, but there's no one in line behind you, remember there are others who want them to go faster. You're giving them a break. And even if you weren't, you don't have to explain your situation to a stranger.

And, uhhmmm, other examples!

That was my tedtalk. Hope you enjoyed!

#mental health #self compassion #boundaries #social anxiety #people pleasing #gentle reminders #you don't owe anyone explanations #stop apologizing #this helped me #we live in a society

Yall are so funny. You’ll be all shy and be like, “sorry this is SO bad, wrote this while walking my corgi-poodle, might delete later”

And then it makes me 🥜.

#stop apologizing #release that shit unashamed #anyone who judges your fics can go suck a fucking egg #eevee talks

#self love #post traumatic growth #healingjourney #stop apologizing #boundaries

Okay, so…

I like Tom Blyth’s portrayal.

Nothing wrong with it, or him.

HOWEVER

I am so fucking tired of all the President Snow merch everywhere being 99.99% Tom and 0.01% Donald. (The gifs too)

Also

The “I can fix him” and “President Snow apologist” stuff is out of hand.

The story is set in stone. We’re long passed the opportunity for helping him not become an oligarch.

As much as I love Coriolanus, and always will, I don’t apologize for anything he did. None of that was okay. It’s not forgivable. In fact, he probably wouldn’t think it is either. Understanding how he becomes the man we know and knowing how he thinks, understanding that he’s not “just an evil old sadistic bastard” and has a traceable thought process… That’s not excusing, apologizing, or forgiving.

Having “the greater good” in mind when murdering, torturing, trafficking people… that doesn’t make any of it any less wrong. And any of these young people who think otherwise… the people who apologize… they missed the point and I am worried for them. I am worried they will ignore very real red flags in real people and stay in unhealthy, and even dangerous, relationships.

Whether you believe it’s real love or not, Coriolanus and Lucy Gray were a toxic couple. Whether you wanted them to work out or not, they just never could. They are not relationship goals. You want a less toxic Hunger Games relationship? Katniss and Peeta have their issues, but they’re much closer to couple goals. Finnick and Annie also come to mind. We see less of them, but they, as a couple, seem reasonably non-toxic.

You want Coriolanus to have a healthy relationship with someone? Fanfiction. Can’t find it, or one you like? Make your own. Share it, or don’t.

Heeeeeeey 💅✨

(not really used to not apologizing for bothering)

I am so sorry for bothering you right now. I know you’re busy and school and shit just like me but I couldn’t help but wonder about Zoey

like her personality, what she likes what she hates

and how her body mechanic work, especially her mouth because I’m having troubles drawing her even though I have a reference, even a reference of her, running after me with an open mouth I *ahm* absolutely terrified of*ahm*

but I really wonder how her mouth works

and I really wonder would she like toothy grin new edition candy ???

And I hope you really have a good day (again sorry for bothering)

OKAY SORRY FOR TAKING SO LONG TO ANSWER THIS!! AHHH!!! i wanted to give you an in-depth explanation bc i realized her anatomy actually is kinda Strange

so zoey's head is actually like if Comet was human - it's Long and her jaw's hinge is actually much farther back than it is on regular humans (highlighted in yellow)

I originally was just going to have the mouth be impossibly trailing down the neck like some body horror designs but it's more realistic this way.

Other notes! Her shoulders aren't horizontal like ours, they're more like other animals where they face forward. Her abdomen is also not like a tail - it's more like a big extension of her torso since it's full of guts and bones. It's very inflexible and solid.